Tight Virgin

[KAM2598]

Hello
I am in my 20s and a virgin. I masturbate but can never make it far enough to finger myself. I can also never make it far enough to have a true orgasm.
I am very very tight.
I want to have sex one day, but right now I know I can’t. No dick will be able to fit comfortably and I don’t want my first time to be incredibly painful.
How can I loosen my vagina to where it no longer hurts?

 

[curioustxn]

Hello
I am in my 20s and a virgin. I masturbate but can never make it far enough to finger myself. I can also never make it far enough to have a true orgasm.
I am very very tight.
I want to have sex one day, but right now I know I can’t. No dick will be able to fit comfortably and I don’t want my first time to be incredibly painful.
How can I loosen my vagina to where it no longer hurts?

Start with very small dildos and work your way up. Be patient......

 

[Gaj1962]

Yes start small and slow. Lube will be your friend at first. Insert small toys or objects until you can handle larger ones.

 

[jehoram]

Have you talked to your gynecologist about this? If it's a hymen constriction problem, it can be taken care of fairly easily. If it isn't, what the others said... small, slow, and lubed. Good luck!

 

[NermalK]

Have you talked to your gynecologist about this? If it's a hymen constriction problem, it can be taken care of fairly easily. If it isn't, what the others said... small, slow, and lubed. Good luck!

This sounds more like you're looking for a description based on others experience of taking ones virginity which is better placed in other forums here. Most girls even at an extremely young age can find excitement by casual touches to themself. To believe you have not been able to pleasure yourself in your 20's is a stretch, but if that is the case, that would also be a question I'm sure lots of the ladies would give advice on posted differently. All this said, if you truly do have the issues stated, please follow the advice posted here by Jehoram. My Step daughter did have a very thick hymen, and her doctor told us this may be an issue.

 

[yyml]

may be you can try some outside toys, like vibration toys，did'n need inside your vagina

 

[MidKnight1378]

My brother is a OB/GYN, so my advice is to see your Dr. and discuss.

 

[TruthSeeker12345]

I realize that this is an older topic; but if there is no medical problem, you could consider seeing a pelvic floor therapy doctor. You indicated that you have not had penetration sex, but what follows is some background information. A study on penis size showed a wide range of penis girths, or diameters, for the penis. Now, the vagina opening varies from 0.94 to 2.56 inches; and the penis diameter, converted from the study’s girth circumference, varied from 1.1 to 1.8 inches in diameter. A vagina on the smaller size can be mismatched by a penis on the larger size. This mismatch can cause pain during penetration sex. A common approach that couples have used to solve the mismatch described above is to consult a gynecologist or a marriage counselor. One reaction to the problem is that the vagina will “adapt” to the mismatch. However, while some adaptation is possible, using arousal and lubricant, this only works for some mismatches. If the mismatch is large enough, the “she will adapt” statement turns out to be a myth that can cause many problems in the couple’s relationship. A different path is needed. Gynecologists do not get trained in the mechanics of sex. Pelvic floor therapy doctors are trained to deal with the mismatch described above. They specialize in prescribing vaginal dilators and other therapies that can enlarge the size of the vagina opening. A set of dilators may also be referred to as a “Silicone Pelvic Floor Trainer Set”. For vaginal enlargement, the therapy has traditionally used dilators, but pelvic floor therapy doctors can also provide laser treatment and ultrasound treatment. The diameter of the largest dilator needed depends on the girth, or diameter, of the penis that is involved. Since this information is needed, the couple should see the pelvic floor therapy doctor, not just the woman. Note that penis girth is measured as a circumference, and not a diameter. It is convenient to convert the circumference to a diameter to compare it to the diameters of the dilators. Note that a cloth tape measure like the ones used in sewing can be used to measure the circumference of an erect penis. Dilators can be purchased online, and pelvic floor therapy doctors also can provide them.

 

[Snowsix]

On the bright side, there are probably millions of guys that would love to meet you.

 

[Vivian251]

Start training with toys and practice more.