I don't know any artists, male or female. I am a widower and I have a lady friend (widow) who seems interested in my kinks. She told me she is trying to figure out how to make something like this happen. Who knows, it may still become a reality.Do you know any female artists? Offering to pose for one might make it more acceptable to them if you are getting resistence from the women you know. The only other thing I can think of would be to try and make it a natural type of thing for the woman who was interested but couldn't go through with it. Did she say why she couldn't do it?