Reassuring recovery times

[shrek100]

Guys
As you may know both of us use this profile.
So Mrs Shrek got a bit concerned the other night that something was wrong.
I couldn’t get it up again after round one. It tried but failed.
I am nearly 50, I explained sometimes it just won’t happen again. Not like it once did.
I did make her orgasm again with oral but it just wasn’t happening for me.

Can Any couples out there back me up and share experiences

 

[cdstefi]

Not sure I can offer any reassurance. Middle age is a bummer! There's a reason Viagra sells so well. I'm one and done these days.

I know for me it's because I can't be arsed to maintain a healthy lifestyle because I was so used to being stick thin and pretty vigorous with no effort required in earlier life. I'm sure folk who exercise regularly and have decent diet and moderate their drinking have fewer problems but I'm just too lazy.

 

[shrek100]

Not sure I can offer any reassurance. Middle age is a bummer! There's a reason Viagra sells so well. I'm one and done these days.

I know for me it's because I can't be arsed to maintain a healthy lifestyle because I was so used to being stick thin and pretty vigorous with no effort required in earlier life. I'm sure folk who exercise regularly and have decent diet and moderate their drinking have fewer problems but I'm just too lazy.

Viagra is helpful that’s for sure
As for the healthy lifestyle. . . I am working on it

 

[Wonderer67]

Viagra is helpful that’s for sure
As for the healthy lifestyle. . . I am working on it

For the last five or six years, I’ve been a one and doner.

I am 56 and I’m in pretty good shape and I eat healthy and excise 3x/week.

Every once in a while, I can get a hard on right after I cum, but you’re entering the stage of life where these things happen to men. As one poster said above, that’s why all those medication‘s are so popular.

(I refuse to take meds)

One thing that we have used that helps with good long sessions, is orgasm control. Yes, orgasm control.

When we have sex, I will slow down before I get the feeling I’m gonna cum, let the feeling pass and then resume. rinse and repeat. We have pretty long sessions where we can go at it for 30 to 45 minutes, sometimes longer.

Once every few weeks, my wife rewards me with a cum. Since I hold back for a few weeks at a time, ejaculations are explosive! She loves it!

It may or may not work for you, but it certainly works for us.

 

[shrek100]

For the last five or six years, I’ve been a one and doner.

I am 56 and I’m in pretty good shape and I eat healthy and excise 3x/week.

Every once in a while, I can get a hard on right after I cum, but you’re entering the stage of life where these things happen to men. As one poster said above, that’s why all those medication‘s are so popular.

(I refuse to take meds)

One thing that we have used that helps with good long sessions, is orgasm control. Yes, orgasm control.

When we have sex, I will slow down before I get the feeling I’m gonna cum, let the feeling pass and then resume. rinse and repeat. We have pretty long sessions where we can go at it for 30 to 45 minutes, sometimes longer.

Once every few weeks, my wife rewards me with a cum. Since I hold back for a few weeks at a time, ejaculations are explosive! She loves it!

It may or may not work for you, but it certainly works for us.

The whole edging thing and slowing it all done is fantastic.
So you do not cum every time?
I don’t think i have the self control in honesty
We play at tantric and keep going for a good hour plus sometimes.
Up to recently i could recover very quickly. In my 20/30s I wouldn’t even loose my hard on . . . The good old days

 

[Wonderer67]

The whole edging thing and slowing it all done is fantastic.
So you do not cum every time?
I don’t think i have the self control in honesty
Up to recently i could recover very quickly. In my 20/30s I wouldn’t even loose my hard on . . . The good old days

No. I almost never cum. Once every few weeks. Once we went as long as 7 weeks.

When we fuck, I edge and slow down when I get close. This also gives her a lot more orgasms than I have. We sort of shoot for a 50:1 ratio, but no one’s keeping count.

We have sex 3-4x a week. I just don’t cum from it.

When she blows me and hand jobs me, I let her know how close I am and she can slow down when I’m close.

When I do cum, the orgasms are volcanic. They feel amazing, and I normally cum a good 8-10 ropes.

We play at tantric and keep going for a good hour plus sometimes.

Us too. We have long sessions. It’s wonderful.

I am a huge fan!

 

[shrek100]

No. I almost never cum. Once every few weeks. Once we went as long as 7 weeks.

When we fuck, I edge and slow down when I get close. This also gives her a lot more orgasms than I have. We sort of shoot for a 50:1 ratio, but no one’s keeping count.

We have sex 3-4x a week. I just don’t cum from it.

When she blows me and hand jobs me, I let her know how close I am and she can slow down when I’m close.

When I do cum, the orgasms are volcanic. They feel amazing, and I normally cum a good 8-10 ropes.


Us too. We have long sessions. It’s wonderful.

I am a huge fan!

That must take some will power!
I may suggest we try that and see what happens.

 

[shrek100]

Mrs Shrek.
I know thinks change when we get older:/ same for me also.
Do like the idea of not letting Mr cum unless he really deserves it

 

[Kimlikes]

We have found that chatting here with another couple helps get my 53 year old husband ready for another round as well as stimulating me

 

[Lickr4u]

At about the age of 50 had the discussion with my family doctor. (She still smiles about it) I told her I still get hard, but the second and third time are starting to become a problem. She prescribed viagra. At 60 I’m able to keep up staying hard throughout the evening, my wife taking full advantage, but I’m usually only able to cum twice, couple hours in between. The times in between are about her!

 

[April602]

Most mature men I have had encounters with all used viagara. They don’t have to tell me I can tell from their rock hard cocks and their recovery times. I have a hell of a time wearing them down…if you know what I mean. I love it.

 

[Wonderer67]

This might not be everyone’s cup of tea… so fair warning.

We just had a marathon Saturday morning session.

It’s 10:42 and we started fucking at 845. It’s a cold and rainy and windy day, so no farm work till late morning.

We had a morning planned of her pegging me, but sometimes plans go awry.

I inserted a prostate massager and then came back to bed. Fucked my wife spoons position. She loves it… she just lays there and we fuck and I edge inside her till I’m close and then I back out and back off for a moment till I feel the ejaculatory feeling pass. It’s actually easier with the prostate massger in because I could bare down on it and stave off my ejaculation.

That went for an incredibly long period of time. I think maybe 45 minutes or more.

She talked dirty to me while I told her my fantasies of being taken by her. I would estimate the times I backed off from cumming at least 20 or 25 times. I was so fucking hot and horny and we were talking like crazy.

My wife was cumming alot. (We’re lucky - she’s very orgasmic) Sometimes I was up against her spooning, and it was very loving and tender, and other times I was fucking her very hard and in full control from behind.

We planned out our morning as we fucked - after that she would sit on my face and I would clean up her cum and anything I deposited in her.

Part 2 would be I would sit in the chair in our bedroom, first masturbate for her while she ate her breakfast. Then part 3 would be the pegging…

But we didn’t get as far as the pegging.
———
I was continuing to fuck her from behind till I came deep in her cunt. I forced myself in as deep as I could go and she loved the feeling of my cock pulsing, the involuntary muscle spasms as I came deep inside her.

Then it was cleanup time and she sat on my face. She could only hold it there for about five minutes and then we changed positions to her back and I just licked her and cleaned her up. She came hard from me eating her.

EDIT: she said Altho it was uncomfortable, she loved the feeling of me cleaning her up while she looked out the bedroom window at the beautiful yellow forsythia blooming right there…

I needed a few moments, so I made her breakfast. She ate some oatmeal, while she watched me masturbate.

When she was done, she came down and sat between my legs and took up the masturbation. She hand jobbed me for a good 30 or 45 minutes. Keeping me on the edge, frustratingly so.

This is when good communication is important, I could tell her to slow down, speed up, stop or hands off as she edged me and handjobbed. It felt so amazing.

All the while, she was dirty, talking me and telling me how she was going to peg me. This got me so hot that eventually I came. Huge, massive spurts of cum. Must’ve been nine or 10 good, had ropes.

I was spent from that, and we never did get to the pegging. We are sitting here in bed, co-writing this and enjoying the afterglow.

I am typically one and done, but today I had two….

Damn!

 

[emme8]

Bad boy. Miss Conduct will have to punish you for cummings twice.
I think maybe making you masturabate with some very minty toothpaste as a lube .

 

[Wonderer67]

Bad boy. Miss Conduct will have to punish you for cummings twice.
I think maybe making you masturabate with some very minty toothpaste as a lube .

I could not help it.

 

[shrek100]

This might not be everyone’s cup of tea… so fair warning.

We just had a marathon Saturday morning session.

It’s 10:42 and we started fucking at 845. It’s a cold and rainy and windy day, so no farm work till late morning.

We had a morning planned of her pegging me, but sometimes plans go awry.

I inserted a prostate massager and then came back to bed. Fucked my wife spoons position. She loves it… she just lays there and we fuck and I edge inside her till I’m close and then I back out and back off for a moment till I feel the ejaculatory feeling pass. It’s actually easier with the prostate massger in because I could bare down on it and stave off my ejaculation.

That went for an incredibly long period of time. I think maybe 45 minutes or more.

She talked dirty to me while I told her my fantasies of being taken by her. I would estimate the times I backed off from cumming at least 20 or 25 times. I was so fucking hot and horny and we were talking like crazy.

My wife was cumming alot. (We’re lucky - she’s very orgasmic) Sometimes I was up against her spooning, and it was very loving and tender, and other times I was fucking her very hard and in full control from behind.

We planned out our morning as we fucked - after that she would sit on my face and I would clean up her cum and anything I deposited in her.

Part 2 would be I would sit in the chair in our bedroom, first masturbate for her while she ate her breakfast. Then part 3 would be the pegging…

But we didn’t get as far as the pegging.
———
I was continuing to fuck her from behind till I came deep in her cunt. I forced myself in as deep as I could go and she loved the feeling of my cock pulsing, the involuntary muscle spasms as I came deep inside her.

Then it was cleanup time and she sat on my face. She could only hold it there for about five minutes and then we changed positions to her back and I just licked her and cleaned her up. She came hard from me eating her.

EDIT: she said Altho it was uncomfortable, she loved the feeling of me cleaning her up while she looked out the bedroom window at the beautiful yellow forsythia blooming right there…

I needed a few moments, so I made her breakfast. She ate some oatmeal, while she watched me masturbate.

When she was done, she came down and sat between my legs and took up the masturbation. She hand jobbed me for a good 30 or 45 minutes. Keeping me on the edge, frustratingly so.

This is when good communication is important, I could tell her to slow down, speed up, stop or hands off as she edged me and handjobbed. It felt so amazing.

All the while, she was dirty, talking me and telling me how she was going to peg me. This got me so hot that eventually I came. Huge, massive spurts of cum. Must’ve been nine or 10 good, had ropes.

I was spent from that, and we never did get to the pegging. We are sitting here in bed, co-writing this and enjoying the afterglow.

I am typically one and done, but today I had two….

Damn!

This is the sort of long session that we enjoy. I am lucky I can orgasm several times.
Mr isn’t screamish about his own sperm and will with encouragement clean my used pussy.
At this point I normally go for a prostate toy or a couple of lubed fingers. I could alway get him hard again using this method.

I think I need to understand recovery times will increase and use the time more constructively

 

[FL30]

Guys
As you may know both of us use this profile.
So Mrs Shrek got a bit concerned the other night that something was wrong.
I couldn’t get it up again after round one. It tried but failed.
I am nearly 50, I explained sometimes it just won’t happen again. Not like it once did.
I did make her orgasm again with oral but it just wasn’t happening for me.

Can Any couples out there back me up and share experiences

It happens to everyone as they age. It's just another thing that happens on the way to old age.

 

[Mohavekid]

Get used to it.

It becomes more common as we age.

Reassure the wife that it has nothing to do with desire.

My wife and I are both almost 60. Our bodies fail us with regularity, but we make it work.

 

[shrek100]

This might not be everyone’s cup of tea… so fair warning.

We just had a marathon Saturday morning session.

It’s 10:42 and we started fucking at 845. It’s a cold and rainy and windy day, so no farm work till late morning.

We had a morning planned of her pegging me, but sometimes plans go awry.

I inserted a prostate massager and then came back to bed. Fucked my wife spoons position. She loves it… she just lays there and we fuck and I edge inside her till I’m close and then I back out and back off for a moment till I feel the ejaculatory feeling pass. It’s actually easier with the prostate massger in because I could bare down on it and stave off my ejaculation.

That went for an incredibly long period of time. I think maybe 45 minutes or more.

She talked dirty to me while I told her my fantasies of being taken by her. I would estimate the times I backed off from cumming at least 20 or 25 times. I was so fucking hot and horny and we were talking like crazy.

My wife was cumming alot. (We’re lucky - she’s very orgasmic) Sometimes I was up against her spooning, and it was very loving and tender, and other times I was fucking her very hard and in full control from behind.

We planned out our morning as we fucked - after that she would sit on my face and I would clean up her cum and anything I deposited in her.

Part 2 would be I would sit in the chair in our bedroom, first masturbate for her while she ate her breakfast. Then part 3 would be the pegging…

But we didn’t get as far as the pegging.
———
I was continuing to fuck her from behind till I came deep in her cunt. I forced myself in as deep as I could go and she loved the feeling of my cock pulsing, the involuntary muscle spasms as I came deep inside her.

Then it was cleanup time and she sat on my face. She could only hold it there for about five minutes and then we changed positions to her back and I just licked her and cleaned her up. She came hard from me eating her.

EDIT: she said Altho it was uncomfortable, she loved the feeling of me cleaning her up while she looked out the bedroom window at the beautiful yellow forsythia blooming right there…

I needed a few moments, so I made her breakfast. She ate some oatmeal, while she watched me masturbate.

When she was done, she came down and sat between my legs and took up the masturbation. She hand jobbed me for a good 30 or 45 minutes. Keeping me on the edge, frustratingly so.

This is when good communication is important, I could tell her to slow down, speed up, stop or hands off as she edged me and handjobbed. It felt so amazing.

All the while, she was dirty, talking me and telling me how she was going to peg me. This got me so hot that eventually I came. Huge, massive spurts of cum. Must’ve been nine or 10 good, had ropes.

I was spent from that, and we never did get to the pegging. We are sitting here in bed, co-writing this and enjoying the afterglow.

I am typically one and done, but today I had two….

Damn!

mr Shrek here.
Mrs shrek sent me this and said!
“This . I want this”

 

[Wonderer67]

mr Shrek here.
Mrs shrek sent me this and said!
“This . I want this”

You guys sound like a really fun couple!

 

[shrek100]

You guys sound like a really fun couple!

We try, still think we are young enough to enjoy each other and keep exploring.

 

[Sgts19]

69 here and one and done unless I'm with my friends wife...hes with mine so fair is fair. Need a little time to recover but still can have 2 O's. Personally I think being married a long comes into play. I don't care if you're a super model it does become ho hum after being married a long time.... 46 years. I know all her moves she knows mine. I do take Cialis once in awhile which helps. We had role reversals she wants more I more than happy with what I get

 

[lovecraft68]

For the last five or six years, I’ve been a one and doner.

I am 56 and I’m in pretty good shape and I eat healthy and excise 3x/week.

Every once in a while, I can get a hard on right after I cum, but you’re entering the stage of life where these things happen to men. As one poster said above, that’s why all those medication‘s are so popular.

(I refuse to take meds)

One thing that we have used that helps with good long sessions, is orgasm control. Yes, orgasm control.

When we have sex, I will slow down before I get the feeling I’m gonna cum, let the feeling pass and then resume. rinse and repeat. We have pretty long sessions where we can go at it for 30 to 45 minutes, sometimes longer.

Once every few weeks, my wife rewards me with a cum. Since I hold back for a few weeks at a time, ejaculations are explosive! She loves it!

It may or may not work for you, but it certainly works for us.

I'm same age and physical state as you down to the diet and regimen.

I've also gotten good at backing off when I get close to get a pause so I can speed up again.

Sometimes I can bounce back for another round on my own. More often than not if she wants more, she's happy to be my fluffer as she puts it, but round two I'm not as hard and for some reason tend to be quicker.

But I don't sweat it, and neither does she, we still have fun, and use role playing, toys, bondage and other games to make the fun last longer and add something to it.