Sex & Shenanigans

[UnquietDreams]

I am good with words. I have an okay voice. But I wouldn't consider either thing as making me feel sexy. Certain things get ingrained over years. "Sexy" is what other people are.

 

[crazychemgirl]

Is there a thread related to this? I feel like I was just reading in it.

I think it's extremely common for guys to not feel sexy. Isn't it?

Maybe … do men only feel sexy when they are perceived as being desired by a sexual partner?

 

[crazychemgirl]

Omg you guys!!


I know for a FACT that both of you have had positive comments directed toward you at some point… didn’t that make you feel sexy?

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

legit

Remember how women find me handy? There's a reason!

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Maybe … do men only feel sexy when they are perceived as being desired by a sexual partner?

For me, yes.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

To be less flippant about, I spent a lot of my life way too overweight. Didn’t feel particularly sexy, lost a lot of it, was absolutely dead fucking sexy. Gained too much back, but managed to realize that it wasn’t the weight it was the attitude I had when I was skinny was the real key. Managed to hang onto that.

 

[UnquietDreams]

Ok well I thought you were good looking in it.

So I’m confused cuz I think you are probably sexy … maybe you just need to feel it yourself.

Heh, I was in a worn out tee shirt, with a scraggly beard and a Santa hat. (The Santa hat had Winnie the Pooh on it, by the by, but you couldn't see that part.) I am not sure sexy applies to any of that.

 

[crazychemgirl]

To be less flippant about, I spent a lot of my life way too overweight. Didn’t feel particularly sexy, lost a lot of it, was absolutely dead fucking sexy. Gained too much back, but managed to realize that it wasn’t the weight it was the attitude I had when I was skinny was the real key. Managed to hang onto that.

Sexy is 100% an attitude and not an appearance

 

[hotoldrguy]

Omg you guys!!


I know for a FACT that both of you have had positive comments directed toward you at some point… didn’t that make you feel sexy?

https://www.troublefreepool.com/media/what-gif.158640/full

 

[UnquietDreams]

Omg you guys!!


I know for a FACT that both of you have had positive comments directed toward you at some point… didn’t that make you feel sexy?

I don't accept complements, especially physical ones, particularly well. Insecurity whispers suck.

 

[UnquietDreams]

I don't accept complements, especially physical ones, particularly well. Insecurity whispers suck.

"You wrote that well." I accept that. Well, sometimes.

"You look good." Not so much.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

Maybe … do men only feel sexy when they are perceived as being desired by a sexual partner?

I mean... generally... yeah.

 

[UnquietDreams]

I enjoy sex. I am at least okay at most of it, and, if I have to say so myself, really goddamned good at some of it. But accepting that doesn't make me feel sexy. I just don't feel that way.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

I don't accept complements, especially physical ones, particularly well. Insecurity whispers suck.

Indeed. Thats why you gotta drown those fuckers out.

But I get that ain’t always easy,

 

[crazychemgirl]

Ok … as someone who is not interested in any of you sexually …. I find you sexy!!


@UnquietDreams you are funny, interesting and have a nice face!
@hotoldrguy you are friendly, funny and willing to have a bit of fun with your dick
@Whiskeyjack I’m sure you looked bomb AF in your kilt and you are witty and fun.

I appreciate you all.. and you ARE sexy!!

 

[hotoldrguy]

Ok … as someone who is not interested in any of you sexually …. I find you sexy!!
@UnquietDreams you are funny, interesting and have a nice face!
@hotoldrguy you are friendly, funny and willing to have a bit of fun with your dick
@Whiskeyjack I’m sure you looked bomb AF in your kilt and you are witty and fun.

I appreciate you all.. and you ARE sexy!!

Sweet of you to say.

 

[crazychemgirl]

Sweet of you to say.

It’s the truth dude. You should feel sexy because it’s an attitude .. the way you feel about yourself … happy that you’ve had a positive impact on others.

 

[dawn_of_night]

ok all … bringing sexy back.


When was the last time you felt really sexy and what got you feeling that way?

Today.... The new hair cut got a complement and that really felt good, I hope he saw that in my smile...

 

[UnquietDreams]

Ok … as someone who is not interested in any of you sexually …. I find you sexy!!
@UnquietDreams you are funny, interesting and have a nice face!
@hotoldrguy you are friendly, funny and willing to have a bit of fun with your dick
@Whiskeyjack I’m sure you looked bomb AF in your kilt and you are witty and fun.

I appreciate you all.. and you ARE sexy!!

Okay, am going to jump into the TMI pool with both feet here, though I have posted most of this other places.

I am a year and change out of a 29-year marriage in which passion died a long time ago, and took a back seat to raising my kid in some level of stability. Being told no, a lot, kills something. I am getting better. I even have a bit of crush, which seems a silly little thing, but I honestly thought that part of my soul was deadened as well, so it feels wonderful.

I no longer refer to myself as ugly. But it may be a while, if ever, if I think of myself as sexy.

 

[crazychemgirl]

Is there a better term for men than sexy… should it be .., desired? .., wanted? Needed? … appreciated? … attractive?

 

[crazychemgirl]

Okay, am going to jump into the TMI pool with both feet here, though I have posted most of this other places.

I am a year and change out of a 29-year marriage in which passion died a long time ago, and took a back seat to raising my kid in some level of stability. Being told no, a lot, kills something. I am getting better. I even have a bit of crush, which seems a silly little thing, but I honestly thought that part of my soul was deadened as well, so it feels wonderful.

I no longer refer to myself as ugly. But it may be a while, if ever, if I think of myself as sexy.

I can understand that 100% … I think we all take it horribly if we aren’t valued sexually in our lives .., and it can turn internal even if it has absolutely nothing to do with us and it’s more about the other person.

Thanks for sharing and I hope your spark grows bigger and you start to get back to yourself and begin to feel what you deserve to feel about yourself

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Okay, am going to jump into the TMI pool with both feet here, though I have posted most of this other places.

I am a year and change out of a 29-year marriage in which passion died a long time ago, and took a back seat to raising my kid in some level of stability. Being told no, a lot, kills something. I am getting better. I even have a bit of crush, which seems a silly little thing, but I honestly thought that part of my soul was deadened as well, so it feels wonderful.

I no longer refer to myself as ugly. But it may be a while, if ever, if I think of myself as sexy.

Dude. I'm hitting year 20 of that situation. It fucking sucks.

 

[UnquietDreams]

I can understand that 100% … I think we all take it horribly if we aren’t valued sexually in our lives .., and it can turn internal even if it has absolutely nothing to do with us and it’s more about the other person.

Thanks for sharing and I hope your spark grows bigger and you start to get back to yourself and begin to feel what you deserve to feel about yourself

Thank you. And I appreciate the compliment.

And sorry for killing the Shenanigans. Let's go back to making fun of math.

 

[jason28053]

ok all … bringing sexy back.


When was the last time you felt really sexy and what got you feeling that way?

In person, it’s been a really long time.
Confirmations here have been good to hear and affirming

 

[vagrantx]

What’s wrong with math??

Everything!! Up is down, left is somehow not around anymore, and one is two.

If a = b then

https://www.math.toronto.edu/mathnet/falseProofs/fallacies_hlimgs/image1.gif
https://www.math.toronto.edu/mathnet/falseProofs/fallacies_hlimgs/image2.gif
https://www.math.toronto.edu/mathnet/falseProofs/fallacies_hlimgs/image3.gif
https://www.math.toronto.edu/mathnet/falseProofs/fallacies_hlimgs/image4.gif
https://www.math.toronto.edu/mathnet/falseProofs/fallacies_hlimgs/image5.gif
The previous step can be written as
https://www.math.toronto.edu/mathnet/falseProofs/fallacies_hlimgs/image6.gif
And if that is true then
2=1