Sex & Shenanigans

[vagrantx]

Exactly so.

That should be my picture from "Show your Face."

Found it.
Don't drink and rhyme!

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[SalaciousMonkey22]

Works sometimes, other times not.

the story of my chaotic libido

 

[BrendaBear]

I’m not against the idea of being submissive…just my brain can’t go along with it for long before I think, “fuck this shit. I’m going to do what I want.”

https://media1.tenor.com/m/tuWAr6v-GNgAAAAC/high-five-women.gif

Exactly!!

 

[UnquietDreams]

Found it.
Don't drink and rhyme!

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Yes, that is a direct quote.

You may have put me into a mood...

 

[BrendaBear]

Exactly. Especially when it is followed by giggling.

If I am there, giggling will happen, for sure.

 

[Bbl87]

Chiming in on the Daddy thing…

I used to think I wasn’t into it at all. Turns out I’m sometimes into it. In the right context, with the right person.
Not as a role play thing. It’s not in an incest “father” type way. It’s a submission thing. Power dynamic. Also represents some other elements of the relationship. Idk. Works sometimes, other times not.

I think that's what it comes down to for me. Would have to be the right person and right dynamic.

 

[vagrantx]

Chiming in on the Daddy thing…

I used to think I wasn’t into it at all. Turns out I’m sometimes into it. In the right context, with the right person.
Not as a role play thing. It’s not in an incest “father” type way. It’s a submission thing. Power dynamic. Also represents some other elements of the relationship. Idk. Works sometimes, other times not.

On the flipside... Mommy has worked for me, exactly once, when I met an woman in her 40s, and I was maybe... 23? 24? There was something about her. Never before, never since. One night and that was it.

 

[Bry1313]

Maybe just food in general... is that just me?

Definitely not just you

 

[morelikeasong]

On the flipside... Mommy has worked for me, exactly once, when I met an woman in her 40s, and I was maybe... 23? 24? There was something about her. Never before, never since. One night and that was it.

I could never. Lol.

I’ve had guys say they wanted to call me mommy, especially with the whole lactation thing…
I don’t kink shame but being called mommy is NMK. So I absolutely understand when others aren’t into that or the Daddy thing.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Haha, fair.

Bondage tends to help with that. That's what tends to get her into that mindset. And the struggle against the restraints reinforces it, or so I've been told.

I’m not against restraints. Those can be fun on both sides, but it doesn’t put me in a submissive mindset. I don’t think I’m ever in that mindset actually. I can let someone lead or take control for a while and enjoy it, but it’s more like…I’m temporarily restraining myself?

I don’t really want to be dominant to a submissive though either. I like equals, particularly with men. The push and pull of it without defined roles or power dynamics. I’m more lenient with women.

 

[morelikeasong]

I’m more lenient with women.

So you’ll be dominant with me?

 

[UnquietDreams]

Found it.
Don't drink and rhyme!

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[vagrantx]

I could never. Lol.

I’ve had guys say they wanted to call me mommy, especially with the whole lactation thing…
I don’t kink shame but being called mommy is NMK. So I absolutely understand when others aren’t into that or the Daddy thing.

Yeah it takes on a different tone when it's a straight coupling I reckon, more of an actual mom/son fantasy RP? Mommy for us was just a power dynamic, not incestuous, and she who brought it up so... what the hell, I'm a pleaser

 

[UnquietDreams]

I’m not against restraints. Those can be fun on both sides, but it doesn’t put me in a submissive mindset. I don’t think I’m ever in that mindset actually. I can let someone lead or take control for a while and enjoy it, but it’s more like…I’m temporarily restraining myself?

I don’t really want to be dominant to a submissive though either. I like equals, particularly with men. The push and pull of it without defined roles or power dynamics. I’m more lenient with women.

As someone who tends toward dominance, at least in the bedroom (I am pretty not, anywhere else) it does get fun to switch things up. To be out of control, at least once in a while.

 

[vagrantx]

https://voca.ro/12Teg77q0FsY

1) you have a wonderful voice and should definitely pursue the thing we talked about!
2) it's 3:30 in the morning and trying to follow along in a sonnet right now is.... a mountainous task.

 

[Bbl87]

I’m not against restraints. Those can be fun on both sides, but it doesn’t put me in a submissive mindset. I don’t think I’m ever in that mindset actually. I can let someone lead or take control for a while and enjoy it, but it’s more like…I’m temporarily restraining myself?

I don’t really want to be dominant to a submissive though either. I like equals, particularly with men. The push and pull of it without defined roles or power dynamics. I’m more lenient with women.

Ya, I'd prefer a more equal dynamic, and we don't do D/s stuff all the time, just more than I'd care for if I had the choice. But I try to feed the kink in hope of improving other aspects. I don't mind being dominant, but I also find a woman who takes what she wants very... enticing.

 

[UnquietDreams]

1) you have a wonderful voice and should definitely pursue the thing we talked about!
2) it's 3:30 in the morning and trying to follow along in a sonnet right now is.... a mountainous task.

Heh, it is what I am reading right now, so it was handy.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

So you’ll be dominant with me?

Bossy with lots of ideas is basically my default. So there would be no problem

 

[RaineDrops]

On the flipside... Mommy has worked for me, exactly once, when I met an woman in her 40s, and I was maybe... 23? 24? There was something about her. Never before, never since. One night and that was it.

Mommy apparently works with @jason28053 too

-runs and hides-

 

[LadyLascivious1]

As someone who tends toward dominance, at least in the bedroom (I am pretty not, anywhere else) it does get fun to switch things up. To be out of control, at least once in a while.

If I’m honest, I lean bossy and in control in all areas of my life

That said, I do thoroughly enjoy when I meet someone who can go toe to toe with me. It’s rather delightful

 

[Massive Grooves]

On the flipside... Mommy has worked for me, exactly once, when I met an woman in her 40s, and I was maybe... 23? 24? There was something about her. Never before, never since. One night and that was it.

If it works, it works.

It is not about role play.

 

[morelikeasong]

If I’m honest, I lean bossy and in control in all areas of my life

I’m so bossy and in control in just about every area of my life EXCEPT the bedroom lol. It’s the one place I like to let go of that control.

 

[UnquietDreams]

If I’m honest, I lean bossy and in control in all areas of my life

That said, I do thoroughly enjoy when I meet someone who can go toe to toe with me. It’s rather delightful

I have a friend who is a professional Domme. She is the most organized, in control person I have ever met in her regular life as well. And she is so good at it, she tends to get her way without anyone realizing they are submitting to her.

She is really fucking scary at times...

 

[HarryHill]

WTF is gynosexual?

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I’m so bossy and in control in just about every area of my life EXCEPT the bedroom lol. It’s the one place I like to let go of that control.

I’ve heard that’s a very common dichotomy. I can let go for a bit with the right partner. I’d still probably top from the bottom though

I have a friend who is a professional Domme. She is the most organized, in control person I have ever met in her regular life as well. And she is so good at it, she tends to get her way without anyone realizing they are submitting to her.

She is really fucking scary at times...

While I’m not a Domme, I resemble that description