What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

I love a good sad song. They help me slow down and process my emotions which then helps me feel better afterwards.
Stupid ex wouldn't ever let me listen to them because, to him, I was deliberately making myself feel bad so that he'd "have to deal with me". He would break my cds to show me that he knew what was best for me.
Stopped listening to the music I enjoyed for years because I started to associate it with punishment.
Getting slowly back to myself now though and the monthly song thread has really helped with that.
I'm so sorry you went through that. I'm so glad you're getting back into listening to the music you love. ❤️

It's complicated to leave a situation like that and takes a long time sometimes to have the courage to do it but I'm so glad you did. You deserve respect. And to be able to listen to any fucking music you like.
 
The National’s Sad Songs For Dirty Lovers probably needs to be the official album for this subject. I could come up with others for fucking sure.

Now I forget how to think
So crack my skull
Rearrange me
Lover put me in your beautiful bed
And cover me
Lover put me in your beautiful bed

 
Speaking of ex's...I chopped all my hair off, for only one reason...my ex likes a girl with long hair.
Don't be just petty. Be hella petty.❤️
Reminds me of this song. Although I think this is about an ex and an abortion.

He said you’re going by Joy
cut your hair like a boy
And you dont talk to your old friends



 
I love a good sad song. They help me slow down and process my emotions which then helps me feel better afterwards.
Stupid ex wouldn't ever let me listen to them because, to him, I was deliberately making myself feel bad so that he'd "have to deal with me". He would break my cds to show me that he knew what was best for me.
Stopped listening to the music I enjoyed for years because I started to associate it with punishment.
Getting slowly back to myself now though and the monthly song thread has really helped with that.
I’m glad you’re getting back to yourself! Breaking your CDs because it took attention away from him? That’s some screwed up behavior.
Good for you getting out of that situation
🫂🫂🫂🥰🥰🥰
 
I am sure that some of these people are the same that bitch about thread drift elsewhere :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO:

A significant difference with a thread like this is that it’s literally about what people are thinking about…. It doesn’t have an intended singular topic. That said, thread drift is pretty understandable; the very same happens in day to day conversations for most of us.
 
Meanwhile, the saddest song what ever got wrote. Based on real events, it deals with a topic many don't want to face and hope they'll never have to. Guy couldn't even bring himself to write it for years after it happened. Despair, loss, anger, and ... a bit of hope. If you can get through it without being affected in one way or another, you have no soul; no heart.

'Somewhere In America' -- The Alternate Routes.


'You can fight to change
Or you can fight to stay the same.'


'Somewhere in America, a phone is about to ring.'
 
I love a good sad song. They help me slow down and process my emotions which then helps me feel better afterwards.
Stupid ex wouldn't ever let me listen to them because, to him, I was deliberately making myself feel bad so that he'd "have to deal with me". He would break my cds to show me that he knew what was best for me.
Stopped listening to the music I enjoyed for years because I started to associate it with punishment.
Getting slowly back to myself now though and the monthly song thread has really helped with that.
🫂 🫂
 
Goddammit NorCal, not every beer needs to be an IPA. How do you have such good wine and such crap beer everywhere? It’s Big Grape ain’t it?
 
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