Lootequiette: Pmann's Totally Original/Unaffiliated Thread

I also think in general women are less concerned that by interacting with the same sex that they’ll be automatically perceived to be sexually interested in them.
 
Because dudes are terrible at making friends in general.
Women are socialized to connect with other people from birth.

This is true. But what I find interesting is that the women-women relationships are so complex. Another thing I see here is that the girls are friends, until someone makes eyes at their e-man.

I also think in general women are less concerned that by interacting with the same sex that they’ll be automatically perceived to be sexually interested in them.

That is interesting. Because any time I see two women talking on here, I think they’re sexually interested in each other. Like… I sit and think about it. Like THINK about it think about it.
 
That is interesting. Because any time I see two women talking on here, I think they’re sexually interested in each other. Like… I sit and think about it. Like THINK about it think about it.
This made me laugh out loud because it’s so stereotypical Pmann e-personality. Sometimes I think you should come with a warning label that says, “Never take me seriously. Ever. No, really. Not ever.”
 
I think Lit has warped my mind because I don’t even find flashing cleavage or boobs here sexual much of the time.

Also…want to see mine? View attachment 2323045
I've fallen into friendly vag territory thanks to @Indie

Lit is destroying me for the "real world"

And yes. Of course. Always and forever
 
Why do you think that is? Why do girls have so many same sex friendships here and guys don’t seem to have that?

And before you come here and say, “Oh this guy talks to that guy occasionally,” think about the frequency and intensity.
Isn’t it just a simple matter of frequency and intensity (in friendships) aren’t all that important to us guys? Are we not a more basic sex?

I consider you, Pmann, a Lit friend, in that, I have yet to find anything I don’t like about you. You make me lol more than anybody on Lit. I know virtually nothing about you. We haven’t shared dick pics. We don’t talk in private. We barely talk on the boards.

Come to think of it, you may be the best friend I’ve ever had! 🤣


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Why do you think that is? Why do girls have so many same sex friendships here and guys don’t seem to have that?

My thought is that men fear rejection more than women so don’t tend to strike up the initial conversation that could lead to friendship. They also don’t share feelings well with other men for fear of being seen weak. If you aren’t sharing things then you close part of yourself off and that can bring feelings of guilt, suspicion, resentment and jealousy. Women are more insecure and need several people in their circle so they always have somebody to support them and assure them in areas where they feel insecure.

Because dudes are terrible at making friends in general.
Women are socialized to connect with other people from birth.

Do you think that there is a change coming with the next generation of men. My son is 20 and has lots of men friends who he shares the majority of his life with. His friends share with him too. They even talk about sensitive topics in front of me. If I think back to the guys I knew at that age, they would never speak to each other about relationships issues, mental health, sex worries, financial stresses.

I also think in general women are less concerned that by interacting with the same sex that they’ll be automatically perceived to be sexually interested in them.
We often ask our friends to check out a lump or a spot or a rash, etc. we show our bodies to each other a lot. We share beds without a care in the world.
This is true. But what I find interesting is that the women-women relationships are so complex. Another thing I see here is that the girls are friends, until someone makes eyes at their e-man.
e-men come and go but I have noticed that some people get more defensive over their other same sex friendships and will fall out over an e-friend getting another e-friend

That is interesting. Because any time I see two women talking on here, I think they’re sexually interested in each other. Like… I sit and think about it. Like THINK about it think about it

Your fantasy brain must be forever on overtime 🤣
 
I've fallen into friendly vag territory thanks to @Indie

Lit is destroying me for the "real world"

And yes. Of course. Always and forever
Does this mean what I hope it means?

*points to inbox*
She got me with that too! Last week I legitimately missed my train stop because I was laughing so hard at her friendly vag reaction 😂🙈
It was just so tiny!!! 😍
 
Why do you think that is? Why do girls have so many same sex friendships here and guys don’t seem to have that?
I assume it has to do with the venue. Do you assume that reaching out to other men on a sex site will make you seem interested in watching that person cum? Does it threaten your masculinity?
 
Women are more insecure and need several people in their circle so they always have somebody to support them and assure them in areas where they feel insecure.
Guys (generally) don’t have this. I think this answers the whole thing.

On a less accurate note, the only real reason we have guy friends at all is so we have someone to share our farts with. Someone who can truly understand and appreciate the power and beauty of what our ass can produce. 🫏💨🤢 🤣
 
Do you think that there is a change coming with the next generation of men. My son is 20 and has lots of men friends who he shares the majority of his life with. His friends share with him too. They even talk about sensitive topics in front of me. If I think back to the guys I knew at that age, they would never speak to each other about relationships issues, mental health, sex worries, financial stresses.
I do.
Young men are redefining and reclaiming what they want masculinity to be and it's really kind of beautiful. God knows society needs it.

Sounds like you're raising some great kids over there 😘
Thank you for that
 
Because dudes are terrible at making friends in general.
Women are socialized to connect with other people from birth.

I’m actually pretty decent at making friends. I’m not as outgoing as people would assume. But I do establish pretty deep connections. With that said, I find friendship with girls to be a bit more enjoyable, most of the time. Even more so at Lit.

This made me laugh out loud because it’s so stereotypical Pmann e-personality. Sometimes I think you should come with a warning label that says, “Never take me seriously. Ever. No, really. Not ever.”

Someone just the other day got on to me in one of the threads because they completely misunderstood my sarcasm. My humour is very sophisticated.

I think Lit has warped my mind because I don’t even find flashing cleavage or boobs here sexual much of the time.

Also…want to see mine?

This is a safe place, ladies.

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I love that the actual sign is some guy reaching around and grabbing tits. It can’t be any more perfect.


Isn’t it just a simple matter of frequency and intensity (in friendships) aren’t all that important to us guys? Are we not a more basic sex?

I consider you, Pmann, a Lit friend, in that, I have yet to find anything I don’t like about you. You make me lol more than anybody on Lit. I know virtually nothing about you. We haven’t shared dick pics. We don’t talk in private. We barely talk on the boards.

Come to think of it, you may be the best friend I’ve ever had! 🤣


https://i.stack.imgur.com/Vw4dD.png

You and @deefalttwunnyfor are my two best male friends here, by a mile. And I’ve never even exchanged a message with you. It’s perfect, right?

But I seriously do enjoy the banter here between some of the guys. There’s some really funny stuff. I just can’t imagine me messaging one and starting up a conversation that would last more than a few messages.



My thought is that men fear rejection more than women so don’t tend to strike up the initial conversation that could lead to friendship. They also don’t share feelings well with other men for fear of being seen weak. If you aren’t sharing things then you close part of yourself off and that can bring feelings of guilt, suspicion, resentment and jealousy. Women are more insecure and need several people in their circle so they always have somebody to support them and assure them in areas where they feel insecure

I don’t really fear rejection from guys. I don’t care much to speak to them. I have only a handful of guys in my life with whom I share feelings. I definitely have one good friend that knows all my demons and stuff. But that’s by design. I always say, Jesus Christ had 12 friends and one betrayed him. And that’s Jesus. So I must have less than 11 friends.
e-men cum and go but I have noticed that some people get more defensive over their other same sex friendships and will fall out over an e-friend getting another e-friend

I fixed your spelling. I do find the friendship dynamic between women to be fascinating. The layers of complexity just boggle my mind. The most interesting dynamic to me is the, “I don’t like this person so you shouldn’t like this person” mentality. Luckily not everyone has that idea, because I would be friendless.

Thanks for your post, Amber. It was really a good bit of input.



I assume it has to do with the venue. Do you assume that reaching out to other men on a sex site will make you seem interested in watching that person cum? Does it threaten your masculinity?

I wear pink shirts, have pink shoes, am more particular about my clothing than any other woman I know… I don’t think my masculinity gets threatened very easily.

I don’t assume that reaching out to a guy would necessarily seem inevitably sexual. In my mind, that isn’t what I intend so it’s unlikely I would impose that onto the interaction.



Wanna see the muff restoration project? I can provide a visual status update

What the fuck are you restoring?!? Are your parts all junked up? Is this like a Habitat for Humanity project?
 
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