Bigtitsbitch1000x
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Ageism is worse than racism.Every time I read one of these age thread, I just shake my head. This is one place that I continue to have such a difficult time believing what Litsters post. I mean, usually I take what Litsters post at face value, because why would they lie here? There is nothing to gain at all. Or be afraid of.
I've read in numerous places (not to mention DMs) about younger guys really liking older women. And yet I can't believe it. I keep posting about my disbelief because maybe if I do so, I'll figure out why I'm having such a tough time.
And it's pretty hypocritical of me to boot - and I really don't like being hypocritical. I've always been attracted to older men, so why wouldn't I accept that a younger man would be attracted to older women? And why do I have such a difficult time making the leap when that woman is me? Mayb e because men age like fine wine and I think women tend to age like....well... maybe more like vinegar.
I have had a younger lover for 6 months now, and I'm still stunned that he keeps coming back. He's the most beautiful man I've ever had in my bed and I can't really figure out why he approached me. And then why he stuck around once he met me (I went arse over teakettle the first time I met him - not exactly a stellar first impression!). Of course, it doesn't help that he's the strong, silent type (definitely another trait that is out-of-the-box for me).
It's easier when I can see just two people - where age doesn't show itself in the interpersonal interaction. But when our schedules don't align, that's when the doubt creeps in. That I'm just some place for wick dipping that has advantages of 1) not costing him any $$ and 2) no by-products. And then I chide myself - I'm selling both of us short. Yet there it is.
So I guess this is my way of saying I appreciate that I get to read more posts where younger men like older women. Maybe it will sink in someday...
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