Why are baby girls so disposable to Daddies?

[Chels37]

The title pretty much says it all.

If youre a little and have been ghosted or inexplicably dumped, please share your experiences so i know im not alone.

If youre a daddy and have done this to your little, what was the reasoning behind it?

You’re not alone and it’s not only the Daddy’s but some Mommy’s do it as well. Idk why they do it but it hurts. It’s even worse when you’ve grown comfy enough to be open and your full little self.

 

[SPARTAN047]

No real difference. I've had so many trans mommies and the occasional cute, sexy and mature (cisgender) MILF mommy vanish completely on me, or I regularly find them in other rooms and forums chatting to everyone else when they seemed to enjoy chatting to me and said we could make this regular, or that we could chat exclusively.

Same for daddies, granted, some of them were very good and some claimed to be part of a couple who played with baby girl sissies and cute trans girls. Inevitably, the ones I liked best, I never heard from again. They seem to make a habit of getting your hopes up and then dashing them to the ground so hard you never recover or trust anyone again. Both/all genders.

I know they don't owe me anything and they have their own lives, but boy does it hurt, and it cuts deep. This applies to real time dates as well and apart from being a cold, heartless, disillusioned player, I see no other solution.

 

[Strixaluco]

Inevitably, the ones I liked best, I never heard from again. They seem to make a habit of getting your hopes up and then dashing them to the ground so hard you never recover or trust anyone again. Both/all genders.

Too good to be true? I guess the honest ones are not purposefully trying to get your hopes up. They are slowly exploring if you it could work.

I know they don't owe me anything and they have their own lives,

Oh but they DO owe being truthful and not giving false impression, false hope.

 

[Missk_2022]

Too good to be true? I guess the honest ones are not purposefully trying to get your hopes up. They are slowly exploring if you it could work.


Oh but they DO owe being truthful and not giving false impression, false hope.

I have been i situations where I am honest and truthful and there has been ungodly pressure to meet.... I was told I was cruel because I wouldn't meet someone after a veey short time of talking. I tried and tried to tell him that I wasn't ready.... so I was honest and he was really mad....

 

[IrisAlthea]

I have been i situations where I am honest and truthful and there has been ungodly pressure to meet.... I was told I was cruel because I wouldn't meet someone after a veey short time of talking. I tried and tried to tell him that I wasn't ready.... so I was honest and he was really mad....

Then you have done your part and been honest and truthful.
How they react is on them.

Some people do not take it too well when you set boundaries and get emotional and/or pushy.
To some extent, that is a natural reaction and I have to admit that I’m not always at my most sunny, when someone tells me
”No.”.
If you think it is out of proportion or uncomfortable, remember it is really a good thing to find out how someone reacts to not getting their way and probably time for the next boundary to be set.

 

[Strixaluco]

I have been i situations where I am honest and truthful and there has been ungodly pressure to meet.... I was told I was cruel because I wouldn't meet someone after a veey short time of talking. I tried and tried to tell him that I wasn't ready.... so I was honest and he was really mad....

Definitely not someone I'd recommend anyone to have a relationship with.

Pressuring you into something is a HUGE red flag. Not accepting a no in a decent manner is a fatal red flag. That person is fake and/or lacking basic manners.

 

[Missk_2022]

Then you have done your part and been honest and truthful.
How they react is on them.

Some people do not take it too well when you set boundaries and get emotional and/or pushy.
To some extent, that is a natural reaction and I have to admit that I’m not always at my most sunny, when someone tells me
”No.”.
If you think it is out of proportion or uncomfortable, remember it is really a good thing to find out how someone reacts to not getting their way and probably time for the next boundary to be set.

Yep.... I just have to stick to my guns and I will address it ....but if behavior continues despite multiple attempts I say bye qnd block

 

[Strixaluco]

Yep.... I just have to stick to my guns and I will address it ....but if behavior continues despite multiple attempts I say bye qnd block

If one repeat is not enough, I probably already turn from nice to ice... And if the other person still doesn't get it, it's immediately blocking.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Too good to be true? I guess the honest ones are not purposefully trying to get your hopes up. They are slowly exploring if you it could work.

I suppose that's very much possible and maybe I'm the one who's pushy. It hurts so much though.

Oh but they DO owe being truthful and not giving false impression, false hope.

Which is a great point. Not that anyone cares about that nowadays.