Sexless Marriages

[NightOfPassion2]

I'm still deciding whether she doesn't like sex...with me, men...or at all. Married 37 years...good and bad times.

Not empty nesters but words like sex..pussy...cock...etc....nope...like being embarrassed about sex..

 

[Britva415]

She says she’s not good at sex, so has no interest.

That doesn't follow.

She's got it backwards - she doesn't care about being good at it because she has no interest.

 

[AspiringAuthor]

I've been reading through the responses and wondering if there are other women that are in sexless marriages. No I'm not bi or asking for my inbox to fill up. Just wanting to see if I'm on an island by myself.

You're not nearly on an island by yourself. I've been completely sexless for the best part of 16-17 years, and if I'm honest, almost my whole marriage (will be 27 years if we make it to May... divorce pending.) My sweet boyfriend is 1k miles away as the crow flies, so until we get together, color me a 55-year-old near-virgin...

I've been cheated out of so much; love, sex, intimacy, safety, trust. I can't wait to be free.

 

[CliimaxForYou]

That doesn't follow.

She's got it backwards - she doesn't care about being good at it because she has no interest.

Very astute of you. I’d say you have it right.

 

[PersonalFavors]

I'm thinking I would love to spend some time on this island of women. I am sure with my listening skills one would find me irresistible.
I would love to be able to chat one of you up at the grocery store....

 

[Hapril]

I'm thinking I would love to spend some time on this island of women. I am sure with my listening skills one would find me irresistible.
I would love to be able to chat one of you up at the grocery store....

This island of women are likely at the grocery store all the time. I am!

 

[happyhouror2]

This island of women are likely at the grocery store all the time. I am!

approach me please

 

[Hapril]

approach me please

You know I would! Especially you, mb!

 

[Hapril]

This thread hits very close to home…

It's a tough club to be a part of. Supporting each other here on this thread.

 

[Anchor10]

In the same boat. It has been a very long time. Would love to find a lady near me to chat with if there are any out there

 

[Deepdesrp]

Hi All - Love the threads here. Seems I'm part of the 50 yr old masses. Not a sexless marriage but practically zero. There is so much more to explore and try yet - why stop now? It is so frustrating - literally. So more than happy to sex chat and share horny thoughts. A bit of a tease but a turn-on still. I love making connections with women who are also fed up with being incredibly patient - but we all have needs

 

[Travelinman926]

I’m part of this club as well. I still love my wife, but it seems that sex was simply a function for having children. As far as it being an enjoyable part of the relationship….i truthfully believe that she could take it or leave it. In the meantime…I envy the couples that have a fantastic/active sex life and can only dream of something similar.

 

[Hapril]

Hi All - Love the threads here. Seems I'm part of the 50 yr old masses. Not a sexless marriage but practically zero. There is so much more to explore and try yet - why stop now? It is so frustrating - literally. So more than happy to sex chat and share horny thoughts. A bit of a tease but a turn-on still. I love making connections with women who are also fed up with being incredibly patient - but we all have needs

Welcome to Lit. And unfortunately, welcome to our clubhouse. Needs... Yes. Frustrated... Yes. We are here to support one another for sure!

 

[LustyScribe]

I've been reading through the responses and wondering if there are other women that are in sexless marriages. No I'm not bi or asking for my inbox to fill up. Just wanting to see if I'm on an island by myself.

From my experiences here, I can say you are not alone. I've had conversations with several in the same situation.

 

[Hapril]

From my experiences here, I can say you are not alone. I've had conversations with several in the same situation.

And I hate having company on that topic! I hope others are having lots of great sex! Gives me hope!

 

[Thom_the_gleeman]

https://i.ibb.co/Kz14CCJ/0e7cdac765181685f083714e2d6b5da0.gif
Cheers to all of us who didn't get laid, touched, kissed or hugged again this weekend!
Double cheers to those who do NOT get depressed over that shit LOL!

Cheers to you as well! And cheers to the escape that is Lit!

Love,
Thom

 

[PersonalFavors]

This island of women are likely at the grocery store all the time. I am!

I believe you are correct. Problem is here in Fairfax VA no one is approachable in the grocery store.
When I lived in South Jersey or Main Line Philly a totally different story.
10 years and only twice have I "found" someone at the grocery store.

 

[Okiemale66]

Ditto. It's a bummer, isn't it?

VERY much so!

 

[sht4brains]

Lol. Actually quite sick of talking if you know what I mean

Time for talking is over

 

[cypressknee]

Sadly I’m here…it’s not sex less…just not sex filled

 

[sht4brains]

K

Sadly I’m here…it’s not sex less…just not sex filled

 

[sht4brains]

Welcome to my world

 

[terriblesecrets]

Sadly I’m here…it’s not sex less…just not sex filled

Greedy

 

[Roswellcurious]

Yep. Same situation over this way. Husband has t been intimate (not even hugs or kisses) for a bit over six years when he told me he’s now asexual.

I’ll go with others and say that while I abstained and behaved for six years... not so good a behavior as of this year. I have needs and not ready to live a life without sex.

VIVA LA SURGE!

I don’t think anyone, male or female, should be forced to live a life without sex!

 

[CliimaxForYou]

I don’t think anyone, male or female, should be forced to live a life without sex!

Agreed. And I’d include touch and physical intimacy (hugs, kisses, holding hands, etc) as well. I’ve never been able to wrap my
Mind around why a spouse thinks that’s ok?