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hotwords229_A said:
This may be because she wants a guy who is totally devoted to her exclusively OR because she fears a bi guy will be more inclined to cheat.

What are your thoughts?
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This is actually a massively shitty stereotype. Bi men don't cheat any more than anyone cis het.

Indie said:
I absolutely agree. I think hot boy anal is, well... hot! But I'm also an insecure little bitch and want to feel like I'm enough for someone.
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Why would you feel like you're not enough?
 
NRJLIVES4ever said:
Why would you feel like you're not enough?
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That's just who I am, babe. And it's like Wand3r said... I'd feel the same regardless of gender make up. Basically if they need someone else, then I'm not enough. I rarely feel like I'm enough without there being a third involved 🤣
 
Wand3rlust said:
I think it takes a really secure couple to introduce a 3rd regardless of the gender make up. Insecurities will always be present.
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Yeah its not a gender or orientation thing at all. Insecurities are going to pop up no matter what. This is why communication is key.

The healthiest way to approach bringing in a third is to frame it as you two as a couple exploring together.

No bi person is actually thinking "My partner isn't enough to satisfy my feverish, insatiable bisexual ways, so I have to fuck this other person along with every other hole that isn't attached to my completely inadequate parter."
 
NRJLIVES4ever said:
This is actually a massively shitty stereotype. Bi men don't cheat any more than anyone cis het.
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I know, but it’s still a concern. If your partner is worried about cheating then she’s worried about cheating. Stereotype or not.
HappyToBeAlive said:
Already tried it. Well, did not go all the way and told her “I want to suck cock”, lol… but she set up some quick barriers…

I will never act upon any of my fantasies in my current arrangement (monogamous)… but would love if we could talk about it… or at the very least that she knew!
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Not being able to talk about everything is a major problem in relationships. The sad reality is that, in my opinion, this is what leads to cheating. Not being able to talk leads to resentment, which leads to wandering, etc.

The issue, it seems, and I’m talking about bi guys who lean straight (or straight guys that lean bi?🤷‍♂️), is that it seems to come on with age—the desire to suck cock. Not that you have to be old, but something about hitting your 30’s you start wondering “Hmmm, I wonder what cock is like?” 🤣 even if you never have thought that before.
 
hotwords229_A said:
I know, but it’s still a concern. If your partner is worried about cheating then she’s worried about cheating. Stereotype or not.

Not being able to talk about everything is a major problem in relationships. The sad reality is that, in my opinion, this is what leads to cheating. Not being able to talk leads to resentment, which leads to wandering, etc.

The issue, it seems, and I’m talking about bi guys who lean straight (or straight guys that lean bi?🤷‍♂️), is that it seems to come on with age—the desire to suck cock. Not that you have to be old, but something about hitting your 30’s you start wondering “Hmmm, I wonder what cock is like?” 🤣 even if you never have thought that before.
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Mortality is real and wondering what it is you’re missing out on as the grave accelerates closer is real yo!
 
hotwords229_A said:
The issue, it seems, and I’m talking about bi guys who lean straight (or straight guys that lean bi?🤷‍♂️), is that it seems to come on with age—the desire to suck cock. Not that you have to be old, but something about hitting your 30’s you start wondering “Hmmm, I wonder what cock is like?” 🤣 even if you never have thought that before.
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I think, except in very rare cases, age brings a comfortableness in yourself. You've had experiences, you've read more, talked more. I think you become at ease with yourself and who you are and what you like. I think again that's true regardless of gender.
 
Wand3rlust said:
I think, except in very rare cases, age brings a comfortableness in yourself. You've had experiences, you've read more, talked more. I think you become at ease with yourself and who you are and what you like. I think again that's true regardless of gender.
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One of the better things about getting older is it really does help with insecurity much of the time. Learning who you are and what really matters ain’t guaranteed but it’s more likely with time.
 
Indie said:
That's just who I am, babe. And it's like Wand3r said... I'd feel the same regardless of gender make up. Basically if they need someone else, then I'm not enough. I rarely feel like I'm enough without there being a third involved 🤣
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I definitely can understand that. Really, it's part of the reason I've never seriously suggested a threesome to my wife. I think she would think she's not enough, which is 100% not the case. I'm more interested in it to try to find a spark for her, see if it might ignite that fire she seems to have lost. But I know thar isn't how it would be perceived.

hotwords229_A said:
Not being able to talk about everything is a major problem in relationships. The sad reality is that, in my opinion, this is what leads to cheating. Not being able to talk leads to resentment, which leads to wandering, etc.
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Spot on. I'm very open about a great many things in life, including sex. I'm very comfortable talking about it, my wants and needs, etc.. She is not, and it's led us to a very dysfunctional sexual relationship at the moment. She is starting to communicate more, which is helping, but there's alot of resentment on my side from years of declining to address it that I need to get through. Hell, the hopelessness that brought about is a big part of the reason I'm here.
 
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