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Why is it so arousing to talk to strangers on Lit about masturbating?

BiWifeMyrtleBeach said:
I find it intensely exciting to know someone on the other end is masturbating. Either from chatting with me or from something I have posted. To know a guy has his hand wrapped round his hard cock, bringing himself off, or another womans pussy is wet, her fingers soaked from some little inspiration I have given her is hot. Sometimes my husband will join me, urging me, giving me ideas. Others, its just me and my naked self having sexy fun.
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This is true
 
i’d love to talk to a woman about masturbating, especially as we both masturbate. There is something particularly intense about sharing what is normally a private activity, especially if we are voicing, and can hear the needs, desire and lust in one another’s voices.

The sensation is heightened when I am in the office and the act is forbidden. I am currently sitting in a conference room with a window open looking New York City, and would love a conversation with a woman that would help get us both off
 
I used to really struggle with extreme shame when it came to my body and my sexuality. I always watched porn, read erotica, and masturbated, but I felt guilty afterward. Lately, I've been working through that and it's really encouraging to read about other people enjoying and loving their bodies. Feeling good about what I do, either to myself or with my husband, is a new experience for me, and I love it.
 
For me - like many others - it's the ability to retain my anonymity when discussing masturbation or kinks that helps so much. I feel I'm unburdening myself in a way that's impossible with my wife, my regular friends and coworkers. I wish I could be so open in real life. Chatting with others perpetuates it and makes me even hornier. It's like a feedback loop I can't break out of!
 
Mutual_Mast_83 said:
So many great answers and insights in this thread. I know I’ve found my people…and that we’re all probably touching ourselves while reading this thread!

I agree with so many of y’all, masturbation is so intimate and personal. Not just taking the time to understand your body and its needs, but intentionally giving yourself pleasure. It’s incredibly erotic to open up about that to someone else. Sharing something so sensual and personal with someone while knowing they want to know about it and feel the same. It’s that exhilarating feeling of “OH MY GOD YES!” you get when someone types out the exact feelings and desires you’re experiencing. Feeling seen is always incredible, it’s just magnified when it’s your love for something personal and socially taboo like masturbation. The fact that I’m opening up to a stranger and getting so much shared validation from a person I don’t even know…it’s intense in the most beautifully perverted way.
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Agree with all of it, and yes!!very erotic to open up and share what we all have going through our heads!!!!
 
I'm on these boards and elsewhere because sex has become a forbidden topic. I get it. Consent is really important, even around topics of conversation, but it seems like people are so afraid of offending each other that they can’t admit that they like to fuck, let alone get into specifics. This prudery seems to come from all sides. Evangelicals, the me too movement, workplace harassment laws etc. I’m on this site to admit that I like to fuck, and suck, and lick, and get into specifics, because sex is one of the greatest things in the world. And yes I like to masturbate. Some of my favorite methods start with a fresh shave of my cock and balls followed by lotion or oil to leave me feeling sensitive. Sometimes I use a vibrator, a small plug or feathers. Sometimes I will spend time nude with a full length mirror so I can see myself as lovers do. It helps me to love my body and my sexuality. I really recommend masturbating in front of a mirror. It's good for your mental health.
 
Grey Shadow said:
I'm on these boards and elsewhere because sex has become a forbidden topic. I get it. Consent is really important, even around topics of conversation, but it seems like people are so afraid of offending each other that they can’t admit that they like to fuck, let alone get into specifics. This prudery seems to come from all sides. Evangelicals, the me too movement, workplace harassment laws etc. I’m on this site to admit that I like to fuck, and suck, and lick, and get into specifics, because sex is one of the greatest things in the world. And yes I like to masturbate. Some of my favorite methods start with a fresh shave of my cock and balls followed by lotion or oil to leave me feeling sensitive. Sometimes I use a vibrator, a small plug or feathers. Sometimes I will spend time nude with a full length mirror so I can see myself as lovers do. It helps me to love my body and my sexuality. I really recommend masturbating in front of a mirror. It's good for your mental health.
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I also like to start by shaving my sack and shaft. Then lotion, and then the mirror....
 
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