Malbec_Girl
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Yeah I know, I was amazedWow -- the Mousetrap is still on!
I am from the UK originally and saw it when I was a kidYeah I know, I was amazed
Have you seen back to the future?I am from the UK originally and saw it when I was a kid
Thanks for the welcome. Yes I will update this thread soonWelcome! You are gorgeous
Love to hear what else happened.. at your pace though! Totally get the conflicts and churn inside you... been and held hands through this a few times...![]()
Good evening,
About me:
Age 31
Married for 8 years
From UK
About my life:
Married but unhappy. I have been unhappy for about 2 years now. I love my husband of course, however, we don't have the same relationship we used to.
I have been looking for a home of sorts online. This is the 3rd site today. I will see which site is best for me as I don't have any interest in juggling multiple sites.
What's going on in my life:
For the first time I cheated on my husband
Saturday 23rd.
Christmas party.
We went to a place where multiple groups seem to be having a late Christmas party. Probably because it fell on a weekend.
About 30 mins into the evening, I noticed a guy to my left about 20 feet away. He was in a large group of guys who. I noticed him because as the group as loud, he was the only one who was quiet. He was sipping on a glass of red wine, and I noticed him glancing over at me.
I looked away pretty sharpish and continued my night.
As the evening wore on and the drinks flowed, periodically I noticed him glancing over at me, the glances becoming longer and more lingering, I must admit, on both sides.
For the first time in ages, I felt something in the pit of my stomach. A feeling of raw attraction.
He was dressed in black Chinos and a light blue smart dress, a sliver watch was glimmering in the light as he picked up his drink, looking at me.
As the night wore on, the glances turned to looks to staring. Then it happened, he smile at me.
My god, at the moment, I had to gather myself. I looked away without smiling back.
I resisted the urge to look at him again. I needed the bathroom.
I got up and made my way up the stairs of the venue towards the bathrooms. As I approached the door, I heard footsteps behind me. I instinctively, held the door open, as you do, I looked back. It was him,. He smiled again. I looked back as quick as I could.
The hallway was long, it seemed like forever but I made it to the bathroom. My heart was pounding, and more so, I was soaking wet. I shook my head as I looked at myself in the mirror, trying to compose myself.
I cleaned up. I was good. I made my way to the exist, he was standing in the hallway.
My heart started beating again. As I had to walk past him I heard him say excuse me.
I stopped and he asked me if I was having a good night. I replied politely, trying not to make eye contact with him.
As I opened the door, he asked my name. I turned around and said I was married. And walked out the door as fast as I could.
My knickers were getting wet again. I couldn't believe what was happening. ...
Can't wait until you do!As soon as I got to my table, I was feeling hot and flustered. It had been so long since I last felt like this.
After a few mins, I noticed he was coming down the stairs. He didn't look at me once. In fact, he stopped looking at all. He was going about his night as normal.
This upset me. Here, I was, all wet under my dress after what I thought was a intense exchange and there he was just acting like nothing happened. It annoyed me.
I started thinking, was I too blunt? Did I come across as ride? Then I thought, wait ... what am I thinking, I'm married, I did the right thing. Forget him. I decided to carry on with the night. Which I did.
Towards the end of the night, after the meal and a lot of drinks, I noticed there were only 3 of us left on my table. One of my friends was at the bar talking to a man who was from the same table as the guy who approached me.
Then she turned and pointed towards our table. He nodded and she walked back.
She told us that the man at the bar had offered to buy her a drink and she said she's buying 3, to which he replied I will buy all 3 if we can join you.
She agreed. I looked over and there was 3 of them left including the man who had approached me earlier in the day.
I told my friend off half heartedly but then I saw the man make his way to our table followed by his friends.
He sat next to me and his friends sat around the other 2.
I gave a nervous smile. The first nothing I noticed was his aftershave, it was lovely. He looked at me and smiled. He joked he knew me from before and everyone one just stared chatting.
Before long everyone was having their own conversations. He turned to me and apologised for his behaviour earlier.
I didn't actually nothing he had anything to apologise for as he wasn't rude and I told him that.
We chatted, he asked about me, and told me about himself. He brought another round of drinks for the table.
We sat for just under an hour. It was pleasant. I felt really attracted to him. Whenever he spoke to me, I melted. I could feel my knickers getting wetter. I was the most aroused that I'd been in a long, long time.
The time had come for us to leave. My friend ordered an Uber and me and one of my friends made my way to the bathroom. Again, I noticed footsteps behind me.
It was him. I held the door open for him and me and my friend headed to the ladies bathroom. As she went into the cubicle, I headed to another at the end . I stopped. I ran the tap if one of the sink and I headed back outside. He was waiting.
He explained that he knew I wasn't going to give him my number as I was married, but he wanted to give me his. I knew I was short in time as my friend would be out soon.
Without saying anything, I reached into my handbag, unlocked my phone and handed it to him. He handed it back after calling his number.
He thanked me and said it would be nice to hear from me in the future. He looked me up and down, glancing a second or 2 at my chest before someone came out the gents which ruined a moment.
I gathered myself and said, don't count on it and smiled as I headed back downstairs.....
With that I returned back to the table
(Sorry I have a few things to do ...will continue this later )
((Also, I'm not proof reading these. I'm just writing it. I will check for mistakes later))
Thanks for sharing your experience, I hope it has helped process things.As soon as I got to my table, I was feeling hot and flustered. It had been so long since I last felt like this.
After a few mins, I noticed he was coming down the stairs. He didn't look at me once. In fact, he stopped looking at all. He was going about his night as normal.
This upset me. Here, I was, all wet under my dress after what I thought was a intense exchange and there he was just acting like nothing happened. It annoyed me.
I started thinking, was I too blunt? Did I come across as ride? Then I thought, wait ... what am I thinking, I'm married, I did the right thing. Forget him. I decided to carry on with the night. Which I did.
Towards the end of the night, after the meal and a lot of drinks, I noticed there were only 3 of us left on my table. One of my friends was at the bar talking to a man who was from the same table as the guy who approached me.
Then she turned and pointed towards our table. He nodded and she walked back.
She told us that the man at the bar had offered to buy her a drink and she said she's buying 3, to which he replied I will buy all 3 if we can join you.
She agreed. I looked over and there was 3 of them left including the man who had approached me earlier in the day.
I told my friend off half heartedly but then I saw the man make his way to our table followed by his friends.
He sat next to me and his friends sat around the other 2.
I gave a nervous smile. The first nothing I noticed was his aftershave, it was lovely. He looked at me and smiled. He joked he knew me from before and everyone one just stared chatting.
Before long everyone was having their own conversations. He turned to me and apologised for his behaviour earlier.
I didn't actually nothing he had anything to apologise for as he wasn't rude and I told him that.
We chatted, he asked about me, and told me about himself. He brought another round of drinks for the table.
We sat for just under an hour. It was pleasant. I felt really attracted to him. Whenever he spoke to me, I melted. I could feel my knickers getting wetter. I was the most aroused that I'd been in a long, long time.
The time had come for us to leave. My friend ordered an Uber and me and one of my friends made my way to the bathroom. Again, I noticed footsteps behind me.
It was him. I held the door open for him and me and my friend headed to the ladies bathroom. As she went into the cubicle, I headed to another at the end . I stopped. I ran the tap if one of the sink and I headed back outside. He was waiting.
He explained that he knew I wasn't going to give him my number as I was married, but he wanted to give me his. I knew I was short in time as my friend would be out soon.
Without saying anything, I reached into my handbag, unlocked my phone and handed it to him. He handed it back after calling his number.
He thanked me and said it would be nice to hear from me in the future. He looked me up and down, glancing a second or 2 at my chest before someone came out the gents which ruined a moment.
I gathered myself and said, don't count on it and smiled as I headed back downstairs.....
With that I returned back to the table
(Sorry I have a few things to do ...will continue this later )
((Also, I'm not proof reading these. I'm just writing it. I will check for mistakes later))
Don't worry about proofing it. No serious errors, and the way you wrote it captures your feelings in the moment.As soon as I got to my table, I was feeling hot and flustered. It had been so long since I last felt like this.
After a few mins, I noticed he was coming down the stairs. He didn't look at me once. In fact, he stopped looking at all. He was going about his night as normal.
This upset me. Here, I was, all wet under my dress after what I thought was a intense exchange and there he was just acting like nothing happened. It annoyed me.
I started thinking, was I too blunt? Did I come across as ride? Then I thought, wait ... what am I thinking, I'm married, I did the right thing. Forget him. I decided to carry on with the night. Which I did.
Towards the end of the night, after the meal and a lot of drinks, I noticed there were only 3 of us left on my table. One of my friends was at the bar talking to a man who was from the same table as the guy who approached me.
Then she turned and pointed towards our table. He nodded and she walked back.
She told us that the man at the bar had offered to buy her a drink and she said she's buying 3, to which he replied I will buy all 3 if we can join you.
She agreed. I looked over and there was 3 of them left including the man who had approached me earlier in the day.
I told my friend off half heartedly but then I saw the man make his way to our table followed by his friends.
He sat next to me and his friends sat around the other 2.
I gave a nervous smile. The first nothing I noticed was his aftershave, it was lovely. He looked at me and smiled. He joked he knew me from before and everyone one just stared chatting.
Before long everyone was having their own conversations. He turned to me and apologised for his behaviour earlier.
I didn't actually nothing he had anything to apologise for as he wasn't rude and I told him that.
We chatted, he asked about me, and told me about himself. He brought another round of drinks for the table.
We sat for just under an hour. It was pleasant. I felt really attracted to him. Whenever he spoke to me, I melted. I could feel my knickers getting wetter. I was the most aroused that I'd been in a long, long time.
The time had come for us to leave. My friend ordered an Uber and me and one of my friends made my way to the bathroom. Again, I noticed footsteps behind me.
It was him. I held the door open for him and me and my friend headed to the ladies bathroom. As she went into the cubicle, I headed to another at the end . I stopped. I ran the tap if one of the sink and I headed back outside. He was waiting.
He explained that he knew I wasn't going to give him my number as I was married, but he wanted to give me his. I knew I was short in time as my friend would be out soon.
Without saying anything, I reached into my handbag, unlocked my phone and handed it to him. He handed it back after calling his number.
He thanked me and said it would be nice to hear from me in the future. He looked me up and down, glancing a second or 2 at my chest before someone came out the gents which ruined a moment.
I gathered myself and said, don't count on it and smiled as I headed back downstairs.....
With that I returned back to the table
(Sorry I have a few things to do ...will continue this later )
((Also, I'm not proof reading these. I'm just writing it. I will check for mistakes later))
So I see! Kinda miss being a virgin though....Nice thread and nice picture.
You're *experienced* now.
Thanks so much. I'm not a writer so glad you can make sense of it xDon't worry about proofing it. No serious errors, and the way you wrote it captures your feelings in the moment.
But you must be used to guys looking at your chest.
Nothing would be better than the picture you posted yesterdayOh and someone told me I can get an avatar at 100 plus posts...
Give me some suggestions please what I should have as my avatar!
You can borrow mine lolOh and someone told me I can get an avatar at 100 plus posts...
Give me some suggestions please what I should have as my avatar!
You can borrow mine lol
i have a problem with how knee jerk the term “ cheating” is used. To me, if affection, respect, warmth, etc, is not provided, or willing to be provided by the partner, then finding the needs elsewhere to fill the gap just seems logical…how is the partner being cheated out of something ? It’s like if you put an old couch you didn’t need out on the curb for trash, and someone took it, how is that stealing?Thanks for this.
I really appreciate it.
Absolutely, I know it's much easier to cheat now with everything being so much smaller and tight knit. There are so many more opportunities.
I never thought of myself as being the one to cheat.
Of course I have no idea what my husband has been up to throughout the years but he hasn't given me any reason to think otherwise.
LolYou can borrow mine lol
Just let me know
Oh yeah, it works...it works very well!
So similar my feelings and pangs of guilt, etc but the excitement and lust and sense of fooling aroundThanks for your post.
I'm not sure if I'm looking for confirmation of validation. Maybe more just somewhere to share my feelings without the stigma of being judge?
After all, I know no one here and no one knows me, so I can be free and open.
OMG I would have glanced or stared at you as well…WOW!!!Thanks to jack for the suggestion x