Ladies, condom or no condom when giving head?

I love giving and receiving oral sex but I have been married for the past 19 years and according to the marriage contract, my BJ’s are limited to only one person. Assuming a better answer would be going back to pre-marital days (a few more options then) I will say that I never wanted or required anybody to put on a condom to receive a BJ from me. I dated guys I felt were not bi-sexual, wildly promiscuous, or into drugs or risky behavior, and so potentially narrowed the likelihood of regretting going bare orally.
 
A tale of two lovers.

One Lady I dated a few times told me that she abided with a mantra that my orgasm was a waste if it wasn't in her vagina. Read 'a few times' again...that narrowed things down too much and we went our ways.

Another Lady had tried to like the taste of cum but just couldn't. She was creative, which is very attractive to me. She sooooo liked giving head too. The solution she had was to slip a non-lubricated condom on me, add some sort of tasty lube and go down. She soooooo liked feeling me cum. Some times she would orgasm when I did. This was HER solution and made for some wonderful sex. Sometimes her going down on me was foreplay so when she was ready the condom would get slipped off and we'd carry on.

In roughly fifty years of relationships these two had unique solutions to what to do with my cum from a blowjob.
 
no, ive never sucked a guy when hes worn a condom,

Only with one lover in my life.

Wearing a condom was a simple solution for an issue that she had. This was her solution.

She had tried for a long time, way before we met, to get over cum in her mouth. All without success. She soooooo liked every other part of giving a blowjob. So, like it or not, it was glove-up or no BJ. Easy answer for me!

She was sooooooo good too. She liked the feeling of my ejaculation and held me tight in her mouth while I got through the tender pain. Then she would move back and take off the condom. She would do various things with my cum. Sometimes gently rub...milking out the last drops to rub on her breasts...lotion her face.

Her solution was fine. It was practical for both of us and still very sensual.

It was either her way or no BJ...but she never played it as an ultimatum.
 
So obviously we don't want condoms and won't use them with hubby. I mean more on randos?

What are your thoughts, safety, etc?
Will always suck bareback when possible as have a slight semen fetish and as a sub like to swallow my reward and show my appreciation x Would never have sex or oral sex with a dirty or smelly guy anyway. have regular sex health checks and all sex parties I've attended, condoms have been mandatory, though on a couple of occasions guys have broke the rules x 'Morning After' pill x x x
 
Will always suck bareback when possible as have a slight semen fetish and as a sub like to swallow my reward and show my appreciation x Would never have sex or oral sex with a dirty or smelly guy anyway. have regular sex health checks and all sex parties I've attended, condoms have been mandatory, though on a couple of occasions guys have broke the rules x 'Morning After' pill x x x
I've been there!
 
Will always suck bareback when possible as have a slight semen fetish and as a sub like to swallow my reward and show my appreciation x Would never have sex or oral sex with a dirty or smelly guy anyway. have regular sex health checks and all sex parties I've attended, condoms have been mandatory, though on a couple of occasions guys have broke the rules x 'Morning After' pill x x x
No need to worry about morning after with me heh
 
My wife required condoms for sex with anyone other than me, but the few times she sucked other cocks, she did not use a condom. She was confident they were safe.
 
I have never, in all my years and partners, had a woman want to have me cover when she gave me head
 
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