Antinatalism and an anti-breeding kink.

[CatotheCat]

Hi guys, I wanted to ask about a strange kink I have that nobody else seems to have heard of. Essentially, I like the idea of lifestyle corruption, particularly the idea of a women, who due to either gooning or another form of corruption, chooses to never have kids, despite previously wishing to do so. I believe this comes from my cuckold/denial kink as I have a very big breeding kink. Also the idea of a woman who is very traditional in gender normal/ values being changed in such a way intrigues me. The idea of a woman going from broody to "my bloodline dies with me" is a strange fantasy I have and I'm hoping to see if anyone recognises it or I can discuss it with. I also wanna say that this isn't meant to be me sexualising women's decisions about their bodies, just something I'm curious about and wanna see what people think. Thank you

 

[CuttingEdge]

I am not sure.

I have been with a number of women who claim they love not being able to have kids, but under the surface it was because of some sort of medical condition, and so they were really trying to convince themselves as a sort of phycological defense mechanism.

But it does happen. My sister does not have kids although she certainly could. Her and her husband both have a VERY active lifestyle, however; we grew up in a VERY abusive home, and while I know my sister would NEVER be the type of mother our mother was, I can see why she just does not want to bring kids into the world just because of what one mother in this world did to kids.

On my end of things, in other words a male perspective, having only daughters and losing a son, it has affected me, because despite a long lineage in the same location that dates back generation after generation, I cannot continue the family name. Because my brother was like my sister, and never had kids, the family name is done. At the time it really bothered me, but 5 years after his death, I have accepted it. By that I mean, I have accepted that the family name will not continue, but of course a parent NEVER gets over the loss of a child. EVER. But by accept, I mean, I am getting married soon and plan to change my last name to my soon-to-be-wife's last name. What does my current last name matter at this point?

As for losing a child affecting the typical stuff, like me being so, so, so Pro-Life, in terms of sex I do have a semi-impregnation fetish. At least, in the many erotic stories that I write, the character's never use condoms or take the morning-after-pill, and thus flirt with potential pregnancy, it all stemming from my son's death. In real life my girlfriend and I do not use condoms or any sort of pregnancy prevention despite us being at the top of the child bearing window for a lady. Again, because I have had the sting of death with a child, and thus know the true value of life.

 

[ycym]

I cannot continue the family name.

Doesn't have to be like that. I don't know what the law is in the US, but in Germany it is definitely allowed for a woman to keep her birth name during marriage and children can then decide whether they want to take the father's or mother's name.

 

[mark_j]

Doesn't have to be like that. I don't know what the law is in the US, but in Germany it is definitely allowed for a woman to keep her birth name during marriage and children can then decide whether they want to take the father's or mother's name.

No law in the US says you have to legally take SO's name either. At least my wife didn't and no one has complained about it for 40 years.

 

[Bigtitsbitch1000x]

Hi guys, I wanted to ask about a strange kink I have that nobody else seems to have heard of. Essentially, I like the idea of lifestyle corruption, particularly the idea of a women, who due to either gooning or another form of corruption, chooses to never have kids, despite previously wishing to do so. I believe this comes from my cuckold/denial kink as I have a very big breeding kink. Also the idea of a woman who is very traditional in gender normal/ values being changed in such a way intrigues me. The idea of a woman going from broody to "my bloodline dies with me" is a strange fantasy I have and I'm hoping to see if anyone recognises it or I can discuss it with. I also wanna say that this isn't meant to be me sexualising women's decisions about their bodies, just something I'm curious about and wanna see what people think. Thank you

Sorry, but this is about as sexy as a whispered reading of an advertisement for used bicycles. And as ethical as a defense of bug chasing.

I keep any mention of minors away from discussions of sex.

Because:

I am a parent.

I have been slandered as a transwoman for allegedly being a pedo.

I cannot imagine sexualizing so vulnerable a person.

That said, it is obvious there is a dangerous worldwide pedo panic.

Further, I did sexual things voluntarily as a child and I believe pedos know that kids have sexual feelings because they did themselves. Whether most pedos were victimized as children is unclear.

But none of which would justify exploiting them in turn.

I am no censor. But some topics do not merit discussing in a nonclinical way. I cannot post descriptions of my sexuality as a minor, which bothers me. But it does not rank with book burning as a blow to freedom. We have the right of free expression but must accept recognition of its rational limits.

 

[CatotheCat]

Sorry, but this is about as sexy as a whispered reading of an advertisement for used bicycles. And as ethical as a defense of bug chasing.

I keep any mention of minors away from discussions of sex.

Because:

I am a parent.

I have been slandered as a transwoman for allegedly being a pedo.

I cannot imagine sexualizing so vulnerable a person.

That said, it is obvious there is a dangerous worldwide pedo panic.

Further, I did sexual things voluntarily as a child and I believe pedos know that kids have sexual feelings because they did themselves. Whether most pedos were victimized as children is unclear.

But none of which would justify exploiting them in turn.

I am no censor. But some topics do not merit discussing in a nonclinical way. I cannot post descriptions of my sexuality as a minor, which bothers me. But it does not rank with book burning as a blow to freedom. We have the right of free expression but must accept recognition of its rational limits.

Hi, I think you misunderstood what has been said. In no way does this call for the inclusion of minors. I have stated that I think it's attractive for women who do NOT wish to become mothers. I in no way mentioned the I inclusion of minors. This does not include minors in anyway shape and form in the same way that a breeding kink has nothing to do with minors. I'm going to sum up that this answer is a misunderstanding of the question and not a deliberate misinterpretation of what I have said.

 

[NTR_senpai]

Sorry, but this is about as sexy as a whispered reading of an advertisement for used bicycles. And as ethical as a defense of bug chasing.

I keep any mention of minors away from discussions of sex.

Because:

I am a parent.

I have been slandered as a transwoman for allegedly being a pedo.

I cannot imagine sexualizing so vulnerable a person.

That said, it is obvious there is a dangerous worldwide pedo panic.

Further, I did sexual things voluntarily as a child and I believe pedos know that kids have sexual feelings because they did themselves. Whether most pedos were victimized as children is unclear.

But none of which would justify exploiting them in turn.

I am no censor. But some topics do not merit discussing in a nonclinical way. I cannot post descriptions of my sexuality as a minor, which bothers me. But it does not rank with book burning as a blow to freedom. We have the right of free expression but must accept recognition of its rational limits.

There is absolutely wrong with any fetish or fantasy let’s be clear on that. Bug chasing is a huge fetish and with the creation of drugs like PrEP it can really be a much safer exercise if someone were crazy enough to do that. Although reading bug chasing literature really turns me on.

I know it’s not for everyone but so what, yeah. I like what I like and I don’t tell anyone else how to butter their toast.

 

[Bigtitsbitch1000x]

There is absolutely wrong with any fetish or fantasy let’s be clear on that. Bug chasing is a huge fetish and with the creation of drugs like PrEP it can really be a much safer exercise if someone were crazy enough to do that. Although reading bug chasing literature really turns me on.

I know it’s not for everyone but so what, yeah. I like what I like and I don’t tell anyone else how to butter their toast.

First, this post is illiterate.

Aspiring writers do not disregard such matters. Serious writers endeavor to attain clarity of language.

The right of participation in society precludes the notion that all fetishes and fantasies are good.

Nazi fetishes and fantasies were not good. Obviously.

The question of child sexuality and of the rights of transchildren is acutely important right now.

Those who accuse transfolk of grooming aren't looking for debate. They are looking for an excuse to murder a human being. Just like Nazi Jew-hatred.

I was a metro crime reporter at one of America's leading dailies. I have seen the effects of moral laxity about these issues.

The white, entitled, largely-male "liberal" élite that controls LGBTQ life in My City, San Francisco, tells us we have to protect trans kids.

This is a red flag for the fascists.

I was a trans kid. I was first taken to a doctor when i was six, in 1954, because of my uninterest in being male, which was expressed viscerally.

Nobody understood such things then.

Over decades i prospered in male disguise.

I had considerable success as a literary and political personality. While wearing black lace lingerie under my Brooks Bros outfits.

I married women i love, and became a parent. I made a great deal of money. I rose to the heights of political influence. Lately i even forced Wikipedia to cease using a male image on my page:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lulu_Schwartz

Digression: The role of Literotica as a purveyor of gross transphobia, particularly against me, is no more defensible than the use of a male image in my bio. I am determined to fix this. You will see how.

I was doxxed. I have nothing to hide and never did.

When you are doxxed, you will have to account for your online comments here.

The point: i was successful by society's standards until i revealed totally my authentic nature as an intersex child with a female inner life, now legally female.

Now i go out always prepared to defend myself, am protected by police, and am ready for jail.

I was never happy as a male. Now i am deliriously happy about my life and every aspect of it. I lived in the past for sedition. Now i live for Sephora.

I would have been happier in a society that understood and supported my female nature.

This Supreme UltraChud defames prom queens:

https://twitter.com/x/status/1872312139945234507

I defend prom queens. My Big Domme was a prom queen. She is a blonde with big boobs. She was expected to marry a slob male in the town where she grew up. She ran away and ended up working for Marty Scorsese and coproducing the first American art film on Frida Kahlo.

I am thrilled to be her little bitch, quiet in her presence, but sexy as hell in my lace and velvet. She likes that men fuck me. That kind of fetish only affects us.

I'm on PREP (Truvada). Bugchasers don't do PREP.

I watched this:

This Nazi incel is happy never having had sex. And wants to impose his fantasies on the world by violent means.

My reaction: humans are defined by sex. Even the renunciation of sex and procreation is sexual. The Russian Skoptsy and the American Shakers were sexual.

This is sexual:

Items of protoplasm without sex are not humans. From my perspective ambulatory turds that promote a fantasy of total asexuality are not human. How to deal with "Them" is a challenge.

Here's one possibility:

Like many '50s pix, this includes considerable hidden social criticism.

In the '50s i wish i had the opportunity to gain acceptance as a female. But i didn't then, and i don't intend to give the fascists a pretext to kill me by loose talk about kids.

I was denied innocence. I have a duty to protect the innocent.

It's Sunday. The Jewish shabbat has ended.

Still:

"If I am not for me, who will be for me? And when I am for myself alone, what am I? And if not now, then when?"

Sexuality isn't a card game. It isn't even a tarot. Though i accept being this:

https://www.alamy.com/tarot-card-th...33024afa65bac243e04b573d2885533d&searchtype=0

You're playing with death. Much more serious than playing with fire.

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[NTR_senpai]

Wow, always fun to see a note when someone just says “your post is illiterate”, kinda makes me want to stop right there. I suppose I should have included a long ass bunch of “except for’s”. I don’t think many people have really bad fantasies and if they do they sure don’t act on them. Like emotions it’s how you process them that mates them good or bad.