Why is it so arousing to talk to strangers on Lit about masturbating?

[nightowl75]

Having an outlet to explore new and varied things that otherwise wouldn't be spoken about. Knowing that both parties are fully enjoying their bodies and sharing thoughts that excite them and if they can put into words what's happening on their end is thrilling and excites me even more.

Finding that someone who is open and wanting to share is a treat in itself. If a connection is made it's just that much more special.

I wish this technology would have been around 30 years ago when I began to understand the arousal factor of hearing others talk about masturbation. I thought I was an odd duck back then. This site has opened my eyes to a lot.

 

[Easyvirtue]

Being hard as rock stroking needing someone who can sympathize since my wife won’t play along.

 

[Hedobloke]

Sharing with like minded people is always a good thing. There is no adverse judgement

 

[Handydan]

Sharing anything sexual is exciting in its self.

 

[ned63]

Yes knowing there is someone that wants to share such an intimate personal act of mutual masturbation through sex talking to each other. And hearing , seeing their moans as they release mmmmmm

 

[Cjbdd]

I love it when someone's words alone can get me off

 

[Hedobloke]

Depends on whom I'm chatting with. I would love to have deep intimate conversations about sex and masturbation. To indulge your kinky cravings and just freely talk nothing but lewd thoughts rummaging through our minds. Alas, I have yet to find that person.

Drop me a line anytime

 

[lit_ch3]

I get just as much a charge out of knowing my written words get someone off. And, the more detail the better....

Kinda like writing stories here, but much more direct response. Like a nipple hardening under your touch....

 

[SissyBJBitch]

So dirty, so slutty, but so hot. *blushes* especially when they cum.

 

[Imperfect_Guy]

I find it to be liberating and arousing to talk to other people about masturbating on here, men or women. I wish it could just be water cooler talk at the office! What is it for you that makes it exciting to just chat about masturbating with other people on Lit?

If it were water cooler talk at the office it wouldn't be nearly as exciting. It would almost become mundane like talking about the weather. The exciting part about it is that it's something we normally do in private and behind closed doors. The fact that we can discuss it here so openly and honestly is what makes it so incredibly exciting and erotic. And knowing someone else is doing the same thing while we're chatting is so arousing!

 

[Katch123]

I find it to be liberating and arousing to talk to other people about masturbating on here, men or women. I wish it could just be water cooler talk at the office! What is it for you that makes it exciting to just chat about masturbating with other people on Lit?

The 1st sentence is probably the best answer of the entire thread.

 

[la_ruche]

I get so hard and wet just formulating what I want to write in my mind. If the person at the other end responds with something that jives with my desires that is so great.

 

[LarryTee50]

I've always been into voyeurism and exhibitionism and mutual masturbation. The cyber world opened a whole new way to have fuck fun in a reasonably safe venue. Everyone is free to let their kink flag fly. It's excellent for edging.
I have to say, although I am straight, I love getting into cyber trysts with some of the CDs and Sissies on here......so nasty and so fun!!

 

[la_ruche]

although I am straight,

Some of the greatest chat sessions I’ve had have been with straight men here.

 

[Imperfect_Guy]

Some of the greatest chat sessions I’ve had have been with straight men here

I've had the same experience. Just because I'm straight doesn't mean I don't get aroused when chatting about fantasies and experiences. It doesn't matter if it's male or female or straight or not.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Not that it matters, but I don't think either of you is "straight". You like sex with females and males. So do I.

 

[la_ruche]

Can’t stress enough how sexy a hot chat can be!

 

[Eyelevel]

It’s a way to get your secret erotic thoughts out with people you think will understand.

 

[Imperfect_Guy]

Can’t stress enough how sexy a hot chat can be!

I couldn't agree more

 

[NEOhio1972]

Agree also!!! It is fun and arousing to share!! Fun to be open to whatever is hot to us at any given time!!! And life is short!!! Get all the good cums in you can!!! And share with friends!!!

 

[Sienna62]

I find it to be liberating and arousing to talk to other people about masturbating on here, men or women. I wish it could just be water cooler talk at the office! What is it for you that makes it exciting to just chat about masturbating with other people on Lit?

Me too . Pm me anytime .

 

[Katch123]

Not that it matters, but I don't think either of you is "straight". You like sex with females and males. So do I.

I'm not a fan of labels. Fear of being labeled and judged can cause you to hold back , break off a forming friendship or relationship.

 

[HoldYouDown]

I'm not a fan of labels. Fear of being labeled and judged can cause you to hold back , break off a forming friendship or relationship.

Amen to this. Sexuality doesn't need to be put in a jar on the shelf.

 

[NEOhio1972]

Amen to this. Sexuality doesn't need to be put in a jar on the shelf.

A men!! Totally

 

[cdstefi]

Some of the greatest chat sessions I’ve had have been with straight men here.

Yes! Egotistical maybe but I regard getting a straight guy off (i.e. by getting him hard to my pics and talk till he's stroking hard and has to cum) as a conquest. They usually disappear immediately after they've climaxed, shame probably, but I've had the odd one or two carry on talking post-orgasm and analysing why and how I managed to turn them on so much, and that's pretty gratifying.