Do you feel submissive when you suck a cock?

[2tallpaul]

I don't feel submissive, I feel empty if my back side isn't being filled at the same time. Call me greedy.

 

[stevieee74]

yes

 

[jayrath]

yes

me too

 

[Charlotte_Sin]

First off, a little background. I am 67 and happily married for over 40 years. My wife and I had an active sex life until about 7 or 8 years ago, when she became very disinterested in any form of sex. I tried to coax her into some unconventional avenues, like having sex with other men, if she wanted to. She rejected the idea straight away and insisted that she had just lost interest in sex, not in me. I accepted her explanation, even though I wish she had taken me up on my offer of being free to play around.

My fascination of imagining her having sex with other men did not end there. It was fueled by reading 'Hot Wife' and 'Cuckold' stories in various forums, like Literotica, and watching whatever porn vids that were related. It was a slow transformation, to where I soon began imagining myself injected into the whole scenario. I would jerk off while thinking about eating another man's cum from my wife's freshly fucked pussy, or sucking her lover hard before inserting him inside her. I was absolutely enthralled by this and fantasised about it a lot. Every time I stroked myself, this entered my mind and took control.

It came to me one day that I was becoming just as interested in the cock as I was the pussy. The stories, and the vids, and my fantasies were fairly centered around cock. My wife sucking on them, or being fucked was becoming secondary. I wanted the cock. I wanted to taste one, lick one and suck one.

Sucking cock was now my new obsession. After a few years of dreaming about it and wishing for it to happen, it did. I met with a guy from a chat site for coffee and we ended up engaged in mutual oral sex. He got the ball rolling, by sucking me off first, then my much anticipated debut went off perfectly. We met three times altogether and I found it thrilling, exciting, and all the things that sex is about. Above all, I found it quite natural to take a man's cock in my hands and mouth and make him cum.

I had always been the dominant partner in my marriage and took on a rather strong leading role wherever I worked. It was just who I was. The first time I sucked my buddy's cock I couldn't help but feel proud as he praised my efforts and refused to accept that his, was the first cock I had sucked. (At least that is what he told me). I was glowing. I then had an overwhelming compulsion to ask for him to call me a 'cocksucker'. He looked at me, smiled and called me a cocksucker. I loved it. Right then, I would have done anything that he asked me to, or told me to.

Now for the part about the question. I have found that over the past two years, I want the buddies I meet to take on a leading role in our adventures. I tell them it is okay to call me a cocksucker, to tell me what they want me to do, to take physical control of the moment and hold my head on their cock as I suck them. I want them to be in control, more and more. I have preferred to make all of my encounters to be about mutual satisfaction. I blow you, you blow me. The last two were not. The last one, I just sucked the guy off as he leaned back against a tree in an outdoor trail. When he finished and I swallowed, he suddenly became afraid of being caught and insisted we vacate the area. The one before that I was naked in bed with my buddy and he was like the puppeteer. He had told me to strip naked when I walked in the door, and I did. He told me to follow him to the living room where we kissed and felt each other up. Then he directed me to go wait for him on his bed, and I did. When he came in, he pretty much took control of all the action and had me crawl up from the foot of the bed and suck his cock as he held me there. When he filled my mouth, and I swallowed he pulled me up along side him and had me jerk off on his cock and balls, and I did. I loved it. He was definitely in charge and I loved it.

I felt like I had no choice in the way things happened during my last two meetings and it is truly an exciting prospect for me to feel this way. I am thinking that there is no way I would ever accept being humiliated or being made to call anyone 'Sir' or 'Master', but I do enjoy being told what to do and how to do it. It is almost a relief, not being in charge. Maybe it's a lowering of testosterone, or growing older. Whatever it is, I am finding that I enjoy being the submissive, when I know I am going to be sucking a cock.

What do you think guys?

I don't always feel submissive when sucking a cock because depending on the situation I cam somewhat control the pace of what's going on.

However when a guy bends me over and puts his weight on me and fucks me it's total submission.

 

[jammit]

I feel sexy when I’m sucking a cock. For me it’s thrilling to a have a pulsing cock in my mouth right as it starts shooting its cum.

 

[saintcero]

Agree. Even if I'm not 100% sure I want to have sex, when I feel a guy's cock pressing against my anus, I just go limp and submit.

Yes. Once you come to terms with being a bottom, submission seems to be the natural way for you. I have heard of Topping from the bottom but that would be beyond my capabilities

 

[Easyvirtue]

Yes daddy!

 

[Bisexguy70]

YES!! Especially if im dressed slutty just like i was this mid morning. I submitted to a BBC this morning. We ended up frotting with my back and legs in the air. I think i told him several times that i loved being his submissive cock sucking slut. It was bliss!!!! I came after he came all over my cock and shot huge ropes. Love being submissive to a dom guy. Especially sucking a big thick cock like his was

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

I feel submissive whenever I am around Men. I always am hoping they will know me and say those something like let's step over here and you can suck my cock, faggot.

 

[Bisexguy70]

I feel submissive whenever I am around Men. I always am hoping they will know me and say those something like let's step over here and you can suck my cock, faggot.

Hi faggot. Why dont you get on your knees and suck my hard cock. You know you want it baby. Ive seen you stating at my crotch. And i dont mean just suck it. Lick it, tease it, savor it. Make love to that cock like i own you. Oh and i better see you wearing some black thigh highs and silky top. Love how the silk fabric makes your nipples hard. Cuz im gonna need to taste your flesh and youll have to submit to my needs. Understand!!!

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Hi faggot. Why dont you get on your knees and suck my hard cock. You know you want it baby. Ive seen you stating at my crotch. And i dont mean just suck it. Lick it, tease it, savor it. Make love to that cock like i own you. Oh and i better see you wearing some black thigh highs and silky top. Love how the silk fabric makes your nipples hard. Cuz im gonna need to taste your flesh and youll have to submit to my needs. Understand!!!

Oh yes sir, I say as I sink to my knees for you. I lower your pants exposing your magnificent body to my sight. Leaning in I gently lift your cocktail and nuts so I may kiss and worship your perineum then kiss each ball as they deserve. Feel my lips fold into a count for your cock. Feel me worship you as I mumble a constant stream of contentment and thanks to you, my superior man. I tilt my head back mouth open so you may spit into me from time to time as I moan in ecstacy needing your cum Sir.

 

[Petedb529]

I once had a guy record me sucking his cock. It was amazing. Had to delete it, but if and when I see him again, I want him to record it again. He was rather large and enjoyed rubbing it all over my face. One of my more memorable encounters.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Hi faggot. Why dont you get on your knees and suck my hard cock. You know you want it baby. Ive seen you stating at my crotch. And i dont mean just suck it. Lick it, tease it, savor it. Make love to that cock like i own you. Oh and i better see you wearing some black thigh highs and silky top. Love how the silk fabric makes your nipples hard. Cuz im gonna need to taste your flesh and youll have to submit to my needs. Understand!!!

Please cum in me and call me your slut.

 

[Biguy77578]

I think the act of sucking cock is submissive by the act itself. The sucker is submitting by opening his mouth and taking a mans sex organ in it. The cock could pissb or shoot cum in your mouth and you have no control over that. Now personally i love sucking cock and swallowing cum but i do not care to be disrespected.

 

[PG564E]

Later in life I turned totally queer. I fucking love being this way. I can't please other males enough sexually. A cock deserves a tremendous amount of sexual pleasure. I'm a natural submissive who loves taboo gay sex.

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

I really do until I feel that familiar pulse...and then I feel like the most important girl in the world, I'm going to make him so weak

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

I enjoyed your write up and question. I think sucking cock is very much a submissive act if it is to you. How and why someone is in that emotional and mental head space can vary. What role they feel they are playing or fulflling can vary from person to person, gender to gender. Like cunnilingus, what is going on in your head at the time. What brought you there? That too can be a submissive act if it feels so to you. Or not. I feel submissive when i perform oral sex. Enjoyably so.

WOW! oK

 

[Reggie2xx]

I think the act of sucking cock is submissive by the act itself. The sucker is submitting by opening his mouth and taking a mans sex organ in it. The cock could pissb or shoot cum in your mouth and you have no control over that. Now personally i love sucking cock and swallowing cum but i do not care to be disrespected.

I feel submissive while sucking cock you are pleasuring the man you are sucking even if you totally enjoy sucking you are submissive to him.

 

[Twincam1550]

I love being a submissive cock sucker. I tell them "pinch my nipples and I'll do almost anything that pleases you"

 

[JusticeGrey]

Being on my knees pleasuring my partner makes me feel very submissive but also powerful. I'm in control of how much pleasure they receive. The sub is in charge, if you think about the dynamic. Even though you are being used, you are only used as far as you'll allow yourself to be (barring something illegal or abusive)

 

[sterculius]

Being on my knees pleasuring my partner makes me feel very submissive but also powerful. I'm in control of how much pleasure they receive. The sub is in charge, if you think about the dynamic. Even though you are being used, you are only used as far as you'll allow yourself to be (barring something illegal or abusive)

This is true up to a point. I have been in situations where a group of men were fucking my throat and were vying with each other in order to be the next to ravage me. I'm not sure that I could have stopped them if I wanted to. I pride myself on my ability to withstand such savage treatment.

 

[JusticeGrey]

This is true up to a point. I have been in situations where a group of men were fucking my throat and were vying with each other in order to be the next to ravage me. I'm not sure that I could have stopped them if I wanted to. I pride myself on my ability to withstand such savage treatment.

If you tried to stop them and they continued, that would be illegal.

Very good thing for all involved, you didn't want them to stop Good cocksuckers never want their men to stop

 

[Brd609]

usually feel at least a little submissive which is what want to feel. I like to switch between being A dom and a submissive cocker sucker.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I feel submissive while sucking cock you are pleasuring the man you are sucking even if you totally enjoy sucking you are submissive to him.

A little playful sense of submission can be a powerful aphrodisiac, when you role-play it right as you squat down and take that cock into your mouth for the first time it provides a delicious sense of shared eroticism between the two participants involved in the blowjob.

 

[sterculius]

If you tried to stop them and they continued, that would be illegal.

Very good thing for all involved, you didn't want them to stop Good cocksuckers never want their men to stop

The situations in question were events, set up for the specific purpose of fucking my throat. I had admitted to my then, boss, that I enjoyed being throat fucked. He responded by offering to invite friends of his to test my resolve and my endurance. He ended up arranging 4 or 5 sessions in all, with the number of attendees varying from 3 on up. The most guys I ever sucked off were 6 in a row at one event where they fucked my throat for almost 2 hours straight. A few guys went twice. (or came twice?) I really miss those days!