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butters said:
this.. so much this, lol

they don't seem to understand if we're enamoured of the person, then their cock is included in that. A cock is not a separate entity. Sure there can be 'pretty' cocks but what's a cock not attached to a warm and breathing person who cares for you? nada.

i sometimes wonder if the trauma a child suffers in circumcision at a very tender age makes them so obsessed by/protective of/insecure about their cocks?
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I have a lesbian friend who loves the cock, but can stand what it's attached to.
 
butters said:
this.. so much this, lol

they don't seem to understand if we're enamoured of the person, then their cock is included in that. A cock is not a separate entity. Sure there can be 'pretty' cocks but what's a cock not attached to a warm and breathing person who cares for you? nada.

i sometimes wonder if the trauma a child suffers in circumcision at a very tender age makes them so obsessed by/protective of/insecure about their cocks?
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Both of you have me picturing us as peacock bears, lmao.
 
BrightShinyGirl said:
Here's something I wrote a while ago after trying to explain shit like this to my (mostly understanding) husband.

Imagine living in a world where bears are as intelligent as humans. They walk around on two legs, and they wear clothes, and they can talk, and they’re NICE. They’re not like wild animals at all–they’re just regular people who happen have been born in bear bodies. And they’re everywhere. You work with bears, and you hang out with bears, and you’ve even dated a few bears. Living with friendly, intelligent bears is just a normal part of life.

Only … they’ve got those teeth, and they got those claws, and they weigh like 2000 pounds. On some level you know that if one of them ever decided to stop being nice–if it turned mean or violent–then it could really hurt you and you’d have a hard time fighting back. So your safety depends on the bears around you never ever exploiting how much stronger they are than you. The fact that most bears are nice and gentle and friendly doesn’t matter. There’s still a built-in asymmetry to the power arrangement. You have to trust them in a way that they don’t have to trust you. And whenever you're around a bear you're always a little on your guard just in case.

If you’re a guy and you want to know what it’s like to be a women, imagine living in a world like that.
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This makes perfect sense to me. I woman once explained that to me.
 
kinked_a_bit said:
Feel free to shove your “misogyny” buzzword right up your ass. All it really means is, “you dared to say something a woman might dislike.”

I’ve already ignored the creator of the thread, so I guess you can join her. It’s pretty clear that neither of you is ever going to say anything remotely interesting.
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It’s literally a thread FOR WOMEN TO POST OUR PERSPECTIVE.


Surely you can find one or two spots on lit that focus on men’s perspectives if you really search for it? Maybe?
 
kinked_a_bit said:
Feel free to shove your “misogyny” buzzword right up your ass. All it really means is, “you dared to say something a woman might dislike.”

I’ve already ignored the creator of the thread, so I guess you can join her. It’s pretty clear that neither of you is ever going to say anything remotely interesting.
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Here's an interesting little fact that you may appreciate, I looked at your posting history and really could not see anything that would make me think otherwise. Thanks for ignoring me, it is impossible for me to do that myself :ROFLMAO:
 
KatieDoes said:
It’s literally a thread FOR WOMEN TO POST OUR PERSPECTIVE.


Surely you can find one or two spots on lit that focus on men’s perspectives if you really search for it? Maybe?
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I don't think he's able to distinguish them.
 
Women often want men who understand subtleties. Especially when it concerns her. Words are often insufficient anyway.
 
If I may,

Many of us who choose not to identify as “men” are under no delusion what anatomy we were born with, but rather we have been told we aren’t “real men” and have been shown by example that “real men” aren’t who we want to be associated with.

At some point we’ve realized we aren’t part of the good-ole-boys and are absolutely fine with that.
 
In regards to this by @Lifestyle66

Women often use to vent about things to which there is no good solution to. She has most probably thought about the plausible options already, and as she has already deemed there's no good one doesn't even tell you all the details, so if you forcefully try to "solve" it, you are
1/ belittling her own efforts
2/ going into all sorts of wrong directions
3/ ignoring the fact that she wanted for you to LISTEN and care, not act.
 
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Strixaluco said:
In regards to this by @Lifestyle66

Women often use to vent about things to which there is no good solution to. She has most probably thought about the plausible options already, and as she has already deemed there's no good one doesn't even tell you all the details, so if you forcefully try to "solve" it, you are
1/ belittling her own efforts
2/ going into all sorts of wrong directions
3/ ignoring the fact that she wanted for you to LISTEN and care, not act.
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That, and why do they think they have the solution? Don’t listen to the entire issue, and then pop off with ‘well, just > insert thing that she’s already thought of and discarded<
 
KatieDoes said:
That, and why do they think they have the solution? Don’t listen to the entire issue, and then pop off with ‘well, just > insert thing that she’s already thought of and discarded<
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Lol! Right?

It’s not that they have “the solution” it’s just that’s “their solution”.
 
KatieDoes said:
That, and why do they think they have the solution? Don’t listen to the entire issue, and then pop off with ‘well, just > insert thing that she’s already thought of and discarded<
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Actually, a bad tendency to think he can solve my problems was one reason I was never quite relaxed with one man, and ended up dumbing him.
 
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