Sex & Shenanigans

My thing is I feel more comfy with my face because you're gonna see it anyway if I meet someone.
I have nothing to hide in that vein.
My bits, however , I am not as comfortable or confident with.

I guess for me, I generally assume I won't meet anyone from here IRL though I wouldn't be opposed to it.

And I've worked in/for the government/legal system for a little over a decade, so I'm just a little hesitant to let my face out on an erotica forum. I guess my thought is if someone came across my face here, they could identify me. Whereas nobody but my wife and relatively few people on here might be able to identify me by my wares.
 
I guess for me, I generally assume I won't meet anyone from here IRL though I wouldn't be opposed to it.

And I've worked in/for the government/legal system for a little over a decade, so I'm just a little hesitant to let my face out on an erotica forum. I guess my thought is if someone came across my face here, they could identify me. Whereas nobody but my wife and relatively few people on here might be able to identify me by my wares.
In cases like that, I totally understand.
Especially where it could call you into question for things.
 
I guess for me, I generally assume I won't meet anyone from here IRL though I wouldn't be opposed to it.

And I've worked in/for the government/legal system for a little over a decade, so I'm just a little hesitant to let my face out on an erotica forum. I guess my thought is if someone came across my face here, they could identify me. Whereas nobody but my wife and relatively few people on here might be able to identify me by my wares.
Well that is smart you know? Especially in your line of work. Oh no. God I hope you aren’t my cousin. Stephen is that you? 🤣
 
Are y'all more likely to share the bits or your face?

My face. In the event anybody recognizes me, nobody is going to care. I used to post pretty regularly in the show your face thread, but just sort of feel out of the habit.

My bits aren't noteworthy and make me awfully self-conscious. I've been known to send a chest or even an ass pic to friend-ish types when they ask, but it's never a thing I enjoy. It's often fair, if they have shared with me, and I suppose I am entirely too trusting.

Conveniently, it so rarely comes up that I don't really need to worry about it.
 
My face. In the event anybody recognizes me, nobody is going to care. I used to post pretty regularly in the show your face thread, but just sort of feel out of the habit.

My bits aren't noteworthy and make me awfully self-conscious. I've been known to send a chest or even an ass pic to friend-ish types when they ask, but it's never a thing I enjoy. It's often fair, if they have shared with me, and I suppose I am entirely too trusting.

Conveniently, it so rarely comes up that I don't really need to worry about it.
The part I like about this is when he said it's fair they share the same.
I dislike it when I show more than they do.
Especially if it's someone you are intimate with.
 
This prompts a question I wonder about.

Are y'all more likely to share the bits or your face?

For me, it's the bits. It's a select few who have seen my face. And to me it means more to me when someone shares their face, it's much more personal to me than dangly bits which sounds odd but it's my life, haha.
My face if we’re talking about the forum. I don’t post it often, but I’ve never shared nudes publicly. I’m not really shy about either though. It’s more that I think seeing someone’s face is more important to building relationships and connecting with people. Also, since there’s a risk in publicly sharing I’d rather it wasn’t my bits that were floating out there.

In private I’ll share some things pretty openly. I think a number of Litsters could easily identify me by my boobs 😂 Other things tend to be more personal and only get shared when I’m intimately involved with someone and I specifically know they’re interested in seeing more.

Easy, fur.

My face, nah too frightful.
Wrong! It’s one of my very favorite faces 😍

My thing is I feel more comfy with my face because you're gonna see it anyway
I don’t mind showing my face at all, but I do wish there were more safety measures in place on Lit.
 
I dislike it when I show more than they do.
Especially if it's someone you are intimate with.

See, that's actually something that hasn't bothered me.

When I share photos, it's because it makes me happy/excited/etc.. I'm not so much sharing for them as for me, though their enjoyment of it makes me happy.

I want them to get the same enjoyment and excitement, and if they don't then I don't want to receive anything. I've shared regularly with friends and gotten alot less in return, but I don't mind. I've told people not to send me things because they seemed hesitant or nervous.
 
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