I just can’t get in the headspace for it. I’m a worshipper, not the other way around*starts shuffling around awkwardly cause I love degradation (degradee) but apparently no one else does*
Whatever floats your boats and flicks your beans or chokes your chickens I guess
Like don’t get me wrong, I wouldn’t let someone just call me any name under the sun.
I get that. A lot of people don’t enjoy it. And like I could never degrade someone lmao my heart doesn’t work that way, I only ever want to tell people what I like about them (cue incessant need for everyone to see themselves as beautifully as I see them) and I would only ever allow degradation with someone who I know doesn’t actually think I’m a pathetic little so and so, ya know?I just can’t do it
Whatever physical pain you want, I can do, but…
I get you. My heart works the same way. I’m a worshipperI get that. A lot of people don’t enjoy it. And like I could never degrade someone lmao my heart doesn’t work that way, I only ever want to tell people what I like about them (cue incessant need for everyone to see themselves as beautifully as I see them) and I would only ever allow degradation with someone who I know doesn’t actually think I’m a pathetic little so and so, ya know?
I love it so much. Like yes, ignore the rest of my humanity and solely focus on my skin color. *sarcasm. All the fucking sarcasm*Is there anythinf sexier than being objectified for your race?
I just fucking can’t lmao
And this, right here, is why I hate people sometimesI love it so much. Like yes, ignore the rest of my humanity and solely focus on my skin color. *sarcasm. All the fucking sarcasm*
It happens like once a week though I get a message “hey I’ve never been with a black chick before but I have suuuuuuch a fetish for you dark goddesses”
I think they think my pussy taste like systemic oppression and watermelon
I mostly just laugh it off
Some folks are awfully sheltered and it shows. It’s also not taboo or anything for me. My hubby is white and so I don’t get the same zing of excitement they do. welcome to the internet
Yes. This.
The reverse is no better.... I've had a few women ask if I like "dark pussy" or tell me they've want some "white meat"I love it so much. Like yes, ignore the rest of my humanity and solely focus on my skin color. *sarcasm. All the fucking sarcasm*
It happens like once a week though I get a message “hey I’ve never been with a black chick before but I have suuuuuuch a fetish for you dark goddesses”
I think they think my pussy taste like systemic oppression and watermelon
Of! How awkward. Ya know…some people are really into it. It makes no sense to me but I have friends who love race play and it does it for them. I just say NMK and keep it pushing
I usually try to frame it in a larger social context; interracial marriage has only been legal for 57 ish years (well within some of our lifetimes). Societally it still holds a lot of weight and assumption so in the natural way of humanity/the human condition we found a way to make it a fetish and sexualize it
doesn’t excuse it as being gross if one party isn’t consenting, morally it’s dubious at best but also par the course for where society currently stands.
...fair
I have a love / hate relationship with my brain. When it's firing on all cylinders, I feel like Pinky: "Ooh! Nice one, Brain!" When it won't let me sleep...fucker.
Well fuck it’s been a while since I had to google a word
“apophasis” is a new one for me lol
Awwww … brain … so smart … love thisI usually try to frame it in a larger social context; interracial marriage has only been legal for 57 ish years (well within some of our lifetimes). Societally it still holds a lot of weight and assumption so in the natural way of humanity/the human condition we found a way to make it a fetish and sexualize it
I've turned down a few requests to write IR / BBC stories. When I do, I usually attach an essay explaining why I won't.I usually try to frame it in a larger social context; interracial marriage has only been legal for 57 ish years (well within some of our lifetimes). Societally it still holds a lot of weight and assumption so in the natural way of humanity/the human condition we found a way to make it a fetish and sexualize it
That’s the fucking money combo right there babesBig tiddies and brains *waggles eyebrows*
I enjoy leaving race and body descriptions out of my writing. Makes it easier (IMO) for people to imagine themselves in the scenarios. People complain about it but I’m not writing others fantasies
Very true. I was raised in a biracial household and my first serious gf was African American. The thing about porn sites with sections separated by race is that it's almost always just women of that race, which somehow makes it feel more of a fetishization. If it were only say, Asian couples, I feel like that wouldn't be as bad. But that's just my opinion.I usually try to frame it in a larger social context; interracial marriage has only been legal for 57 ish years (well within some of our lifetimes). Societally it still holds a lot of weight and assumption so in the natural way of humanity/the human condition we found a way to make it a fetish and sexualize it
Those are honestly the best …. Cuz then you can imagine yourself … my novel will try to be racekessI enjoy leaving race and body descriptions out of my writing. Makes it easier (IMO) for people to imagine themselves in the scenarios. People complain about it but I’m not writing others fantasies
