Why is it so arousing to talk to strangers on Lit about masturbating?

[BusDee276]

It's just nice knowing the other person is aroused too possibly getting themselves off

 

[la_ruche]

I get oozing from knowing I may have made the other person horny. Also have had some good mutual masturbation sessions here. Have learned new techniques from other Lits.

 

[storyfan88]

I find it to be liberating and arousing to talk to other people about masturbating on here, men or women. I wish it could just be water cooler talk at the office! What is it for you that makes it exciting to just chat about masturbating with other people on Lit?

Its the idea of being open about something that's mostly hidden , Reading stories and RP in chat, who isn't masturbating on some level or thinking about it ?

 

[hulmule]

Its the idea of being open about something that's mostly hidden , Reading stories and RP in chat, who isn't masturbating on some level or thinking about it ?

its taboo, that's why it becomes stimulating

 

[Wonderer67]

We all do it but it’s a very personal, intimate act. Brining someone into your personal sexual world is trusting and sensual.

Love it.

 

[bi_cpl_with_crossdresser]

I used to enjoy talking to the wife about my fantasies but when her mojo dried up almost all talk of sex went out the window as well. I am not dead so I still feel the need to at least talk about it with someone. Lit does the trick and I can talk with other people that also like to talk about sex.

Its a WIN, WIN.

 

[BlueEyes1969]

When the writer explains the details of the process in terms that are seductive, suggestive and graphic, I am aroused and soon join in on the fun.

 

[ZfrkS62]

It's kind of freeing.

It's almost reaffirming to talk about sex in general with like minded friends or strangers.

Also adds a vouyer/exhibitionist by proxy element to the conversation.

 

[deltablues65]

We do I love to help out where I can.

Insightful answers Anna!

 

[stargame]

It's just nice knowing the other person is aroused too possibly getting themselves off

Yes, I admit I get aroused knowing someone else is aroused.

 

[la_ruche]

Yes, I admit I get aroused knowing someone else is aroused.

Me too! Talking about things that are secret from others is both thrilling and stimulating.

 

[nbsucked]

Yes, I admit I get aroused knowing someone else is aroused.

that is exactly the feeling for me too... sharing intense pleasure, even if it's just talking/writing about it is very exciting

 

[Katch123]

We all do it but it’s a very personal, intimate act. Brining someone into your personal sexual world is trusting and sensual.

Love it.

Mental and often physical masturbation.

 

[OlderFitterWiser]

It's simply the anonymity that does it for me. I like to think people masturbate over my stories or any other of my contributions.
Masturbation is a great tension release.

I love when I'm home alone and I get time to do it properly, lying on our double bed and imagining erotic thoughts. Then coming all over my tummy.

 

[stargame]

For me a large aspect is that it's so personal, I'm getting myself off and know exactly how I like it and telling someone exactly what you want from them or are doing to yourself is so arousing. I also love knowing I'm getting someone to masturbate to or for me which in turn makes me hornier

Perfect answer....we all here love being aroused and arousing others.

 

[la_ruche]

that is exactly the feeling for me too... sharing intense pleasure, even if it's just talking/writing about it is very exciting

Simply formulating the text in my head is so hot and then sharing it…. Mmmmm….

 

[Toffer_Guy]

I find it to be liberating and arousing to talk to other people about masturbating on here, men or women. I wish it could just be water cooler talk at the office! What is it for you that makes it exciting to just chat about masturbating with other people on Lit?

Western society has created such a level of guilt around sexuality - especially in the idea of women enjoying their sexuality. Part of the reason it can feel so exciting and liberating to talk to someone so openly about sex. A thrill of crossing the forbidden lines created by society.

Forums give a safe environment for people to express their ideas to people who more often share the same fetish/kink. Never having to worry about judgment or consequences in their real life. Unfortunately, some people use anonymity to work out their darker side. Not a fan of that.

There are a lot of kinks I enjoy in a fantasy that I know won’t/shouldn’t be expressed in reality. For example, I enjoy an intense mom-son fantasy. At the same time, I have zero interest in real world incest or my actual mother. For me it’s more about the thrill of doing something so taboo as a concept.
If I was to try and tell someone about that fetish to someone in the real world. Odds are they’d mistake me condoning the real thing. That’s because for a long time, popular fiction in shows and movies have said, “If you fantasize about it. You’re going to try to do it.” Which is utter bullshit. It’s no different than how violent video games don’t make people violent. A fantasy doesn’t always translate into reality.

Talking about sex with strangers can be fun because it frees us from some consequences. Which is fine, as long as people respect the limits of others.

 

[Timetotryagain]

It's exciting to know that as I'm stroking my cock, licking up my pre cum, the person I'm chatting with is doing the same.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

It's exciting to know that as I'm stroking my cock, licking up my pre cum, the person I'm chatting with is doing the same.

YES!!!!

 

[Erodicus]

I find it to be liberating and arousing to talk to other people about masturbating on here, men or women. I wish it could just be water cooler talk at the office! What is it for you that makes it exciting to just chat about masturbating with other people on Lit?

I agree that it's highly arousing to chat freely with strangers on Lit. For me, it not just about masturbation but to sex in general. It's even more exciting to receive a PM from somone interested in extending the conversation privately. The ultimate turn-on is to chat with a smart and articulate lady who revels in sex and can recreate her experiences in eloquent and graphic language.

 

[CuriousRick]

It has probably been said before. But knowing that your words are making a stranger excited . The anonymity of the situation, being able to be open and honest with your feelings and not being judged.

 

[LavenderIncense]

The chance of mutual enjoyment

 

[la_ruche]

I also like that most people here are so friendly and approachable when sending a PM. Also PM messages are more intimate and well written than public posts.
Thank y’all for that

 

[Jodaily]

I find it to be liberating and arousing to talk to other people about masturbating on here, men or women. I wish it could just be water cooler talk at the office! What is it for you that makes it exciting to just chat about masturbating with other people on Lit?

Yeah, I think it has a lot to do with anonymity plus the fact that most everyone here is typing one handed while trying not to get the keyboard too messy, and enjoying the encouragement of all our fellow jackers and jillers. Spank it baby!!

 

[falkor207]

Having an outlet to explore new and varied things that otherwise wouldn't be spoken about. Knowing that both parties are fully enjoying their bodies and sharing thoughts that excite them and if they can put into words what's happening on their end is thrilling and excites me even more.

Finding that someone who is open and wanting to share is a treat in itself. If a connection is made it's just that much more special.