Sex & Shenanigans

I’m jumping in with almost zero context, but if I’m close to someone I view their partner(s) as off limits even if they’re not monogamous. If anyone is monogamous and I’m aware of if, that’s a no go for me as well.
Super true and important when it is serious. Some days teasing my bestie is top on my agenda. 😂🤣😜Thankfully she knows i respect her and her relationship.💕
 
So, when it comes to this Bro Code thing - does it matter when they're NOT your bro? Or when you don't know their spouse or significant other?

Because, I am sitting here thinking, if it wasn't for unhappily involved folks, there wouldn't be much of a Lit...and far fewer pickup's at the country club or local bar.

Just reflecting on the state of the world as it is - but if two people want to bone (or e-bone), they're gonna do - and find some way to justify it to themselves.
 
So, when it comes to this Bro Code thing - does it matter when they're NOT your bro? Or when you don't know their spouse or significant other?

Because, I am sitting here thinking, if it wasn't for unhappily involved folks, there wouldn't be much of a Lit...and far fewer pickup's at the country club or local bar.

Just reflecting on the state of the world as it is - but if two people want to bone (or e-bone), they're gonna do - and find some way to justify it to themselves.
And this is the exact kind of talk I kill the sexy with in my PM’s.
Reality-it’s a bitch and if we have ever really played you know we’ve talked about this first 🤷🏻‍♀️
#whenyouneedaconnectiontocum
 
So, when it comes to this Bro Code thing - does it matter when they're NOT your bro? Or when you don't know their spouse or significant other?

Because, I am sitting here thinking, if it wasn't for unhappily involved folks, there wouldn't be much of a Lit...and far fewer pickup's at the country club or local bar.

Just reflecting on the state of the world as it is - but if two people want to bone (or e-bone), they're gonna do - and find some way to justify it to themselves.
For me. Cause I don’t know about what others think/ feel about it
If I know the guy or least kinda know him. I’m not messing with his girl. If I don’t know if the girl is with a guy. If I make a flirty comment and I get dead quiet. I leave her be.
 
So, when it comes to this Bro Code thing - does it matter when they're NOT your bro? Or when you don't know their spouse or significant other?

Because, I am sitting here thinking, if it wasn't for unhappily involved folks, there wouldn't be much of a Lit...and far fewer pickup's at the country club or local bar.

Just reflecting on the state of the world as it is - but if two people want to bone (or e-bone), they're gonna do - and find some way to justify it to themselves.
All good points. With regards to unhappily involved folks here on Lit, everyone has their reasons for being here. I have made decisions that some people would find questionable, but I do so with as much integrity and honesty as possible given the circumstances. I would never knowingly violate any kind of unwritten code here.

I have also seen some ridiculousness where people here think if they had some kind of relationship with someone, no matter how long ago, that they are off limits to others for all of eternity it seems. The only time I would consider that as some kind of code is if it were someone I considered a good friend and they had a serious relationship with someone in the past and it would hurt our friendship for me to be involved with their former partner.
 
All good points. With regards to unhappily involved folks here on Lit, everyone has their reasons for being here. I have made decisions that some people would find questionable, but I do so with as much integrity and honesty as possible given the circumstances. I would never knowingly violate any kind of unwritten code here.

I have also seen some ridiculousness where people here think if they had some kind of relationship with someone, no matter how long ago, that they are off limits to others for all of eternity it seems. The only time I would consider that as some kind of code is if it were someone I considered a good friend and they had a serious relationship with someone in the past and it would hurt our friendship for me to be involved with their former partner.
I tend to keep things light and flirty with people my close friends have had or have ever had feelings for or are currently playing with. Basically, if it will hurt them then it's not worth it.
 
All good points. With regards to unhappily involved folks here on Lit, everyone has their reasons for being here. I have made decisions that some people would find questionable, but I do so with as much integrity and honesty as possible given the circumstances. I would never knowingly violate any kind of unwritten code here.

I have also seen some ridiculousness where people here think if they had some kind of relationship with someone, no matter how long ago, that they are off limits to others for all of eternity it seems. The only time I would consider that as some kind of code is if it were someone I considered a good friend and they had a serious relationship with someone in the past and it would hurt our friendship for me to be involved with their former partner.
Very well said
 
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