Thoughts of an ex

[Ocean33]

I think back to the blowjobs I used to get from this one particular mom when I am not looking at a porno to get off.

I think of the way she would drink ice cold water swirl an ice cube around her mouth and then suck my cock

 

[Uncut1969]

I was 21 she was 31 black women taught me a lot not just sex but enjoying blues -outdoors -other city’s think about her all the time she was great! I was young and dumb diddnt know what I had! Great sex she was a squirter! I just got tired of interracial stereotype and seamed like every one hated us for it ! Black white diddnt matter! Was in early 90 so a lot different then now! Me also I would handle it better and wouldn’t bother me at all! Love the memories for sure and that was 30 years ago

 

[HampshireBoy]

It is entirely normal to remember the good times in your life and the people you shared them with. Just because a relationship may have ended, even ended badly, doesn't mean that there weren't good times. My ex wife and I initially split on bad terms, better now and we even had a brief time as fuck buddies after we split. I sometimes remember some of the fun we had, even masturbate thinking about them/her occasionally, but there is no chance we would get back together. I know that she has similar thoughts and can now get past the breakup to remember the fun times.

 

[Ocean33]

Bump

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

At the end of my final year of high school, I was going with a gorgeous girl. I used to worship the ground she walked on. She was stunningly beautiful, with amazing auburn hair (which she wore long), deep brown eyes which would melt my heart and two of the most kissable lips I ever encountered. Her shapely body used to turn all the boys' heads. Needless to say, she used to make me as horny as all get-out. I would have married her, if her family hadn't taken her overseas. We lost contact completely.

Fast forward 20 years and I was at a school reunion. I didn't know she was coming, so when I saw a group of classmates chatting together, I went over to join the conversation. I remembered them all apart from this slightly dumpy woman with short black hair and glasses. I had no idea who she was, but didn't ask in case she'd be offended because I'd forgotten her. She and everyone else kept looking at me as if they were expecting me to react in some way, so I kept prattling on obliviously.

Next moment the MC began reading out the list of people who were able to attend the reunion. As soon as he read out her name I had an "Oh shit!" moment. I apologised to her, trying to explain why I had not recognized her. She was very gracious and we chatted politely before moving on to talk to other guests.

For twenty years, I'd hoped we'd meet up again. I'd heard that when many old flames meet up again, the spark of passion remains very much alive. Sadly, for me anyway, there was absolutely nothing. That seemed really sad.

Have a similar story!

A girl I’ve known since third grade and just loved and lusted after all my life was at a mutual friends mothers funeral. She was more like a sister to me over the years. When we attended college together she’d come get me to go dance and if one of us hooked up we’d smile give the thumbs up a move on…next weekend do it all over! We never, sadly for me, ever hooked up. Platonic all the way! Hadn’t seen her in about 20+yrs though.

So we’re at this funeral and it’s a biggie. Church overflowing with mourners and well wishers. The line to greet the family was two that merged into one. As I’m standing and shuffling, I see a blonde girl grinning at me in the opposing line. I smile and look away. I look back up a she’s still grinning at me. I know I know her but cant place her. I’m thinking it’s a friends cousin or somebody.

When we merge, perfectly together, she greets me. I politely apologize and ask her her name…she slaps me on the arm and tells me. I was aghast! It all flooded back. As I was profusely apologizing fo not recognizing her, I had an alibi. Since third grade she had dark hair! It was the first I’d ever seen her blonde!

I have no excuse for not recognizing seeing her face and hearing her voice…

 

[Ocean33]

Have a similar story!

A girl I’ve known since third grade and just loved and lusted after all my life was at a mutual friends mothers funeral. She was more like a sister to me over the years. When we attended college together she’d come get me to go dance and if one of us hooked up we’d smile give the thumbs up a move on…next weekend do it all over! We never, sadly for me, ever hooked up. Platonic all the way! Hadn’t seen her in about 20+yrs though.

So we’re at this funeral and it’s a biggie. Church overflowing with mourners and well wishers. The line to greet the family was two that merged into one. As I’m standing and shuffling, I see a blonde girl grinning at me in the opposing line. I smile and look away. I look back up a she’s still grinning at me. I know I know her but cant place her. I’m thinking it’s a friends cousin or somebody.

When we merge, perfectly together, she greets me. I politely apologize and ask her her name…she slaps me on the arm and tells me. I was aghast! It all flooded back. As I was profusely apologizing fo not recognizing her, I had an alibi. Since third grade she had dark hair! It was the first I’d ever seen her blonde!

I have no excuse for not recognizing seeing her face and hearing her voice…

Hey a new hair color can really change a person's appearance

 

[Erodicus]

Have a similar story!

A girl I’ve known since third grade and just loved and lusted after all my life was at a mutual friends mothers funeral. She was more like a sister to me over the years. When we attended college together she’d come get me to go dance and if one of us hooked up we’d smile give the thumbs up a move on…next weekend do it all over! We never, sadly for me, ever hooked up. Platonic all the way! Hadn’t seen her in about 20+yrs though.

So we’re at this funeral and it’s a biggie. Church overflowing with mourners and well wishers. The line to greet the family was two that merged into one. As I’m standing and shuffling, I see a blonde girl grinning at me in the opposing line. I smile and look away. I look back up a she’s still grinning at me. I know I know her but cant place her. I’m thinking it’s a friends cousin or somebody.

When we merge, perfectly together, she greets me. I politely apologize and ask her her name…she slaps me on the arm and tells me. I was aghast! It all flooded back. As I was profusely apologizing fo not recognizing her, I had an alibi. Since third grade she had dark hair! It was the first I’d ever seen her blonde!

I have no excuse for not recognizing seeing her face and hearing her voice…

I can relate to how you felt.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I don’t think back. The past is the past. I regret some things I did but I try to live for tomorrow and try not to repeat the past.

 

[Justfantasies]

There is a woman who I had a relationship with in my 20s and adored. Sadly she didn't adore me back. More than 50 years later, we are still in touch intermittently and she is never far from mind. I have seen her in 45 years, but she knows how I feel.

Any other men have similar "relationships?"

 

[PMarky2]

My mind often strays back to making out with my first girlfriend. It was a longish relationship - almost four years - we were well matched apart from the serpent in the garden which was that we had met too soon. When we were alone together, we'd catch up, maybe watch a little TV, but sooner or later we'd start kissing, which would lead to groping, then clothing would start to be removed, and I would often find delightful lingerie concealed beneath her usual modest clothing. We would very often end up horizontal with me on top sliding my cock head along her slit until she came. I would be just behind. She was the mistress of the demure orgasm - finger nails would dig into my back, there would a delighted sigh or three, and then she would relax completely.

 

[call_me_sarge]

I sometimes think of the older woman I dated when I was younger. Sex was a big thing between us, she was always wanting to try new things. My wife knows and now and then asks for me to recount some of those experiences, and was even a little giddy when she learned that we ran into each other at work recently.

 

[PMarky2]

Not really an 'ex' thing, but I remember what a good fuck my wife was before she became ill. She was not a technically accomplished lover, but she was warm, wet, and willing.

 

[Asian_Young_Couple]

My Ex and I have a un-usual relationship. We broke up but we still think about each other and keep each other in our lives. I still sleep with each other and when I am in a mfm with my current bf my ex is usually the other guy.

 

[RIPAphrodite]

I think about my cousin…life’s too short not to enjoy a mental indulgence

 

[UtilityCurve]

Not really an 'ex' thing, but I remember what a good fuck my wife was before she became ill. She was not a technically accomplished lover, but she was warm, wet, and willing.

Same here. She's been gone almost 10 years (and sick a few before that).

 

[Katch123]

I sometimes think of an ex I'll refer to as "Ginger" ( no she wasn't on Gilligan's Island ). Still no boner emoji?

It was a long time ago and I sometimes wonder how her life turned out,