Sex Clubs

[BackwoodsMama]

Any first hand experiences? I’m so intrigued. Seems there are some high end options, then your more general mature theater situations.

I’m talking about open to the public sex clubs, not private places.

 

[Hipshot1554]

I have to wonder if it would be like Baptists ignoring each other in a liquor store...? If you saw someone you knew.

 

[BackwoodsMama]

I have to wonder if it would be like Baptists ignoring each other in a liquor store...? If you saw someone you knew.

Likely!! My luck is that there are none local to me.

 

[Hipshot1554]

Likely!! My luck is that there are none local to me.

Side gig maybe...?

 

[canopy]

Does it have to be actually open for public? I was in a private one where I didn't know the full list of members. So during sessions there were new faces and some I only saw once. Almost like public clubs where you don't know who'll show up and what day

 

[rudrakshpathak]

This is a topic that has always intrigued me.
The concept of a physical space where your innermost and private desires are understood and accepted.
I've heard of the more famous ones: KitKatClub, Snctm and the likes.
I would like to know, what are the biases like, if any?

 

[Goldenfinger]

Only been to bdsm clubs. They are either members or invites only. Never been to a swingers sex club.

 

[canopy]

This is a topic that has always intrigued me.
The concept of a physical space where your innermost and private desires are understood and accepted.
I've heard of the more famous ones: KitKatClub, Snctm and the likes.
I would like to know, what are the biases like, if any?

Unless its a private club I doubt members can really live their truly private desires. Even then not everyone would be into the same fetishes so there were diff sessions for different fetishes. And even then not everyone is into the fetish to the same extent. So there were ways to indicate who is comfortable with what. At least that's how mine used to schedule events

 

[screwher]

I would love to take my wife to a sex club. But I have a feeling most clubs for married couples cater to swingers. But we aren’t swingers. Mrs. Screwher has sex with other men. So we would need a club that is open for single men. Or we’d have to meet a cuckquean couple. But the chances of these are slim.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Unless its a private club I doubt members can really live their truly private desires. Even then not everyone would be into the same fetishes so there were diff sessions for different fetishes. And even then not everyone is into the fetish to the same extent. So there were ways to indicate who is comfortable with what. At least that's how mine used to schedule events

Its usually a venue to meet like minded people to get together at some other time.

 

[HoldYouDown]

Any first hand experiences? I’m so intrigued. Seems there are some high end options, then your more general mature theater situations.

I’m talking about open to the public sex clubs, not private places.

Been to two swinger clubs. Once with a partner and once alone. Interesting experiences and I hope to go back with my current gf.

 

[Naughty_Natalie]

My husband and I have been to a few. I don't know that there are many, or any, that are public in the sense that you could just walk-in, but there are plenty that just require you to provide ID and some basic info to get a reservation. If they didn't do some basic vetting of people it would quickly turn into a creep show.

 

[Dcharger]

I used to go to them when I was in my early to mid 20s. I mainly went to one. I guess it was open to the public. W/ that I mean you didn't have to buy a membership like you do at the Golf Country Clubs out there. At this club, women were free, couples were a small fee, and single men had to pay more. What happened w/ me is I ended up just making friends w/ the regulars. 98% of the time, the ppl wanted nothing to do sexually w/ me cause I was 23-25 and I was there alone. So not having anyone to share / trade w/ made me out of luck. There was a 2nd club just down the street I only went to once and there you did have to buy a membership. I want to say it was like $80 to join and then a smaller fee to enter. That night I got in on some sort of buddy / trial pass. That night I did bring w/ me a gf. She was so afraid, that as soon as someone stopped to say hi, she's say, "nope, not interested". I was like it's ok to talk to these ppl. They won't bite. You don't have to be jumpy or nervous. Well I did run into the woman that conned me into going to the other club. She came from behind me and planned a BIG ol wet kiss slipping her tongue down my throat. My girl didn't like that 1 bit. I totally didn't know that was going to happen. Later on, my gal and I went into a private room w/ wall to wall mirrors and we hooked up. That was the 1 time I actually get somewhere at the adult club.

I've always wanted to see a Glory Hole & Adult Movie Theater but have yet to find one around here. Now that I'm in my late 40's, I don't believe those 2 clubs are still open. Not sure there are any in the city.

I'll never forget the woman that conned me into going to the Swingers Club. We met in a Chat Room. In this room, I'd never really talked to someone from my area. We hit it off and chatted a few times. She told me to come meet her at her favorite club so I did one night. She never told me it was a Swingers Club. This place didn't serve alcohol either. Just soda, water, and snacks like chips. I was 23 and she was 39, there w/ her bf. Little did I know she had a bf, just knew about the Hubs. Later in life, she had 2 bf's and even later in time after I lost contact w/ her, I heard she became an escort. Life sure can make some funny turns.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

Unless the club is a private membership club, sexual activity on the premises is illegal. You can be arrested for indecent exposure, public indecency, or other similar crimes. I'm not saying it doesn't happen at some establishments like theaters and strip clubs, but if you engage in sexual activity you are doing so at your own risk. And the risk of the proprietors.
Private membership clubs can make their own rules because they are not open to the public.

 

[policywank]

I would love to take my wife to a sex club. But I have a feeling most clubs for married couples cater to swingers. But we aren’t swingers. Mrs. Screwher has sex with other men. So we would need a club that is open for single men. Or we’d have to meet a cuckquean couple. But the chances of these are slim.

Swingers clubs aren't all limited to full sip scenarios. There may not be single men there, but your wife could fuck other married men while you do not partake.

 

[screwher]

Swingers clubs aren't all limited to full sip scenarios. There may not be single men there, but your wife could fuck other married men while you do not partake.

Yeah, that’s what I’m thinking. While his wife is off with another man.

 

[policywank]

In this context private doesn't necessarily mean exclusive or expensive. It just means some degree of controls regarding who gets in and comfort that some basic parameters will be respected. If anyone could truly just walk in off the street I think there would be more douche-baggery problems. That would drive away most of the people you want to meet.

 

[sea7688]

I'd love to take my wife to a club. She is turned on by porn and loves strip clubs. She would love seeing people playing. I expect she would let me play with her or she would masturbate watching......then let me eat or fuck her. no way she would let someone fuck her though she might enjoy being fondled and fingered.....maybe stroke or suck a cock

 

[Nudist_Couple]

We have been to a few places as guests. They are all over the USA.

My wife is a party hostess for swing events in Vegas. She was also a hostess for parties (part of the older Playboy porn) called swingRAW. She no longer does anything for them directly.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

In this context private doesn't necessarily mean exclusive or expensive. It just means some degree of controls regarding who gets in and comfort that some basic parameters will be respected. If anyone could truly just walk in off the street I think there would be more douche-baggery problems. That would drive away most of the people you want to meet.

In Hartford, Connecticut, there is an "adult" movie theater that only allows couples onto the balcony, while the single men are downstairs. If a woman wants to engage in sexual activities with other men, she can go downstairs, usually with her partner to direct traffic.
This is about as public as this kind of establishment can get.

 

[StrongMaster7]

Like others on the thread, I have always been fascinated by the idea of sex clubs. Plato's Retreat was the famous one I heard of back in the 70s.

I was in a strip club years ago and overheard a chat between a stripper and some dude about how the club was raided late one night because when the dancing stopped, the swingers started swinging and some "professionals" started doing business. Local law enforcement was right there.

In a perfect world, sex work would be held in high esteem and sex clubs would be no big deal.

 

[Katch123]

Any first hand experiences? I’m so intrigued. Seems there are some high end options, then your more general mature theater situations.

I’m talking about open to the public sex clubs, not private places.

I think they are hard to find because of politics. I remember years ago when I lived in FL, there was a club called the Trapese. It was a private sex club but the local city kept after them and eventually they were closed down. That's probably why it's mostly underground with few exceptions. JMO.

 

[millieteases]

Have been to a few - typically they are subtle, but not hard to find with a basic internet search. Require filling out an application online, perhaps paying a membership fee, always paying a party fee/making a contribution towards the expenses of the event. The ones I have been to were held in hotel suites or in private homes with play areas set up. It takes a few visits to get to know folks, but once you do it can be a great deal of fun.

Some clubs are more public. A number are largish establishments, usually located in industrial districts or areas zoned for adult entertainment. Where I live that's a county-by-county decision.

They all tend to charge single males a bit more and regulate the number of single males who can attend any given event.

 

[womaneater58]

I would like to find one near me but don't know how/where to start looking.

 

[easyoff]

I would like to find one near me but don't know how/where to start looking.

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