Sex & Shenanigans

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

so is this where we are at?

talking to your first lit "dom"
making your first thread
Getting ghosted
Talking to an alt without knowing it
Posting your first risqué picture
Taking your first vacation from Lit and coming back
pissing someone off or instigating a dumpster fire
dealing with an emotional meltdown (yours or another's)
caught feelings
Genuinely saddened by the loss of a relationship with a litster
met a litster in person

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

I am really struggling with this. So you are telling me you honestly believe most of the men posting nude model and nude model in that the fetish threads had their heart broken on lit? Most of the dudes fighting over in politics had their heart broken on lit? Most of the fetish guys? Most of the lit welcoming committee. Most of the folks in the author section, most of the most dommy doms in bdsm. I am really struggling with imagining that many people are getting in that deep.

True, but then I don't think some of the other things listed would apply to those folks either. Maybe it could be a Playgrounder list.

 

[SixShooter14]

Maybe limit it to the PG.... Or frequent Chaosians

 

[Dubinsky]

so is this where we are at?

talking to your first lit "dom"
making your first thread
Getting ghosted
Talking to an alt without knowing it
Posting your first risqué picture
Taking your first vacation from Lit and coming back
pissing someone off or instigating a dumpster fire
dealing with an emotional meltdown (yours or another's)
caught feelings
Genuinely saddened by the loss of a relationship with a litster
met a litster in person

I'm at 9/11.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

so is this where we are at?

talking to your first lit "dom"
making your first thread
Getting ghosted
Talking to an alt without knowing it
Posting your first risqué picture
Taking your first vacation from Lit and coming back
pissing someone off or instigating a dumpster fire
dealing with an emotional meltdown (yours or another's)
caught feelings
Genuinely saddened by the loss of a relationship with a litster
met a litster in person

Yep! I got a coverall!
https://media.tenor.com/4-C47Bn_MUgAAAAM/friday-happy-dance.gif

 

[SixShooter14]

Could we clarify "talking"

As in does that mean having an actual conversation via PM or public post?

Or that you traded 2 posts in the NAL or Have You Ever threads...

 

[LupineOne]

I am really struggling with this. So you are telling me you honestly believe most of the men posting nude model and nude model in that the fetish threads had their heart broken on lit? Most of the dudes fighting over in politics had their heart broken on lit? Most of the fetish guys? Most of the lit welcoming committee. Most of the folks in the author section, most of the most dommy doms in bdsm. I am really struggling with imagining that many people are getting in that deep.

In the boards, yes. Those who aren’t complete narcissists are human, and, like everyone, crave connections here thatthey can’t get in some way elsewhere. I’m betting they have reached out, got emotionally attached in some way, and got hurt.

 

[SixShooter14]

I think I have 4

 

[crazychemgirl]

I'm at 9/11.

Same

 

[Dubinsky]

Same

Twinsies!

 

[neakman]

3,4,5,6,7

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

True, but then I don't think some of the other things listed would apply to those folks either. Maybe it could be a Playgrounder list.

I am not so sure though. Outside of playground and Ampics, the men I have talked to behind the scenes the most have been GBers, Authors, Politics, and sometimes the dudes with the bit tits fetishes, and most of the very long term can check most of the boxes except maybe how we define the catch feelings.

 

[SherlockianMan]

I would meet all you amazing fuckers but you all live so fucking far away

Distance like time is all relative.

 

[VoraciousValue]

Ok, I’ve run out of LOTR memes and Switzerland is lovely this time of year

Query time:

1) where would you travel in North America if you are playing choose your own vacation and why? (Or your home continent so I’m not seen as an American snob)

2) where do you want to go overseas and why?

3) power of flight or invisibility and why?

1. In North America, I'd love to take a road trip to Belize. Supposed to be a beautiful country and road tripping through Mexico would be a real blast!

2. Lots of.places I want to see overseas. Chile. South Africa. Egypt. Germany. Italy. Russia/Siberia (maybe someday). Japan. Australia/New Zealand. Why isn't really important.

3. Power of flight. I could get anywhere I wanted to go faster. Besides, I have the occasional strange dream where I have that ability.

 

[SixShooter14]

My 4:

Talking to an alt without knowing it
Posting your first risqué picture
Pissing someone off
Caught feelings

 

[SherlockianMan]

so is this where we are at?

talking to your first lit "dom"
making your first thread
Getting ghosted
Talking to an alt without knowing it
Posting your first risqué picture
Taking your first vacation from Lit and coming back
pissing someone off or instigating a dumpster fire
dealing with an emotional meltdown (yours or another's)
caught feelings
Genuinely saddened by the loss of a relationship with a litster
met a litster in person

I've got all but the last...but I've been on Lit waaay too long

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

In the boards, yes. Those who aren’t complete narcissists are human, and, like everyone, crave connections here thatthey can’t get in some way elsewhere. I’m betting they have reached out, got emotionally attached in some way, and got hurt.

I guess it is possible. I will admit I am basing on what people tell me, and trying to extrapolate it out further . However, since I am not so much touchy feely, could men around lit just be telling me what I want to hear? Guess I will never really know.

 

[crazychemgirl]

I've got all but the last...but I've been on Lit waaay too long

You and me both dude

 

[neakman]

I guess also 8 and very close on 9

 

[Dubinsky]

"Pissing someone off or instigating a dumpster fire."

I don't think I've ever done this. Maybe? And I've avoided the Dom Wars, but not the Domme Wars. Lol.

 

[SherlockianMan]

You and me both dude

You got me beat on post, though.

 

[Photog1rl]

Do we have an updated list? Because I think I got a Bingo coverall.

I’m wondering too

 

[SixShooter14]

I guess it is possible. I will admit I am basing on what people tell me, and trying to extrapolate it out further . However, since I am not so much touchy feely, could men around lit just be telling me what I want to hear? Guess I will never really know.

With such an active presence in AmPics, I absolutely think men will tell you what they think you want to hear.

 

[crazychemgirl]

You got me beat on post, though.

That’s cuz I’m a post whore

 

[Dubinsky]

I guess it is possible. I will admit I am basing on what people tell me, and trying to extrapolate it out further . However, since I am not so much touchy feely, could men around lit just be telling me what I want to hear? Guess I will never really know.

Oh yes. Men catch feels, and men get hurt.