Chaos: Don't Stress, Undress

[Deleted member 6568729]

I was going to post a piccy of me washing the dishes again this time wearing a little more, but one of my cats decided it would be a better pic with her in it !!!
So we can all have a giggle at my outtake.
I having a shower later, let me know if you want me to see that , minus the cat !!!!

https://imgur.com/fCmPTYM

What a fantastic pussy shot!

 

[Joxlrg]

I was going to post a piccy of me washing the dishes again this time wearing a little more, but one of my cats decided it would be a better pic with her in it !!!
So we can all have a giggle at my outtake.
I having a shower later, let me know if you want me to see that , minus the cat !!!!

https://imgur.com/fCmPTYM

Try taking the cat in the shower with you.. That will make for an interesting pic

 

[SassySheDevil]

I am definitely guilty of this and have pulled back big time. When I started I wanted to contribute and saw how incredibly stunning and real you all are, I’ve always used ‘disclaimers’ regarding myself so I don’t get too much negativity and here was no exception.
Valid and interesting chat as always my friend x

I think we've all done it at some point. I remember times of doing this. When I saw others do it. I realized how cringe it was and made it a point to stop putting myself down before posting. I have also seen your confidence levels grow with the more compliments you've gotten, which is nice to see. You truly are beautiful. We often just struggle to look in the mirror and see what others do. We deal with the demons in our own head.
I've had 2 C sections. I look at the mirror and think "damn that pooch just wont go away!!" But will look at someone elses and say "look at that beautiful body that brought life into the world"
Demons!!

Lindi
If I may chime in. You’re beautiful inside and out. No disclaimer needed.

Every word of this.

See. Look at these examples. It isn't just about an outter beauty. Sometimes it is simply the beauty of a person. Who they are. You've earned that.

You should try it, I'll never forget how nervous I was the first time I posted a pic and when I posted my first full-frontal nude. I've always loved erotic photography and I finally came to terms with if others can do it so freely then why not me? I long since came to terms with the fact that many will view and not comment simply because commenting can draw unwanted DMs from less well-intended pervs on here. So do what you want and don't worry about it.

This has sadly become true too. Old Lit. I left my PMs off a lot. New Lit. I rarely have them off. So. I tend to get more PMs if I comment on some. "ooohh you liked that one huh? How about I send you more!!"

Oh boy. The latter part of that…
I really really try not to do that, I think I did say something similar on another thread not too long ago and I visibly cringed reading back.
But yes I take like 20 photos to post 2. It’s all angles and lighting at the end of the day. Bodies look different unposed

To add onto the other conversation I do try to comment and react to people’s photos and comments in general. I’m finding it hard to post here, feeling out of place is pretty common I find - not just on this thread but online spaces in general.
But what can be done

Yes. Reading others doing this is what made me cringe too. I looked back on the times I did it and wanted to slap myself.
That's part of what I like about pics. I can often hide the lumps and bumps or find better angles or lighting to hide the things I'm most insecure with. Video. Hell no. WAY too chicken.

 

[Lindi37]

I have also seen your confidence levels grow with the more compliments you've gotten, which is nice to see.

It’s grown big time and it’s mainly due to everyone here and a few special friends. Not being ‘seen’ at home has had a massive toll. This is something that I worry about for the men as many are here for the same reason and they deserve to have that same boost I’m confidence.

I've had 2 C sections. I look at the mirror and think "damn that pooch just wont go away!!" But will look at someone elses and say "look at that beautiful body that brought life into the world"

Yes! 3 sections here, then a hysterectomy and my belly is all sorts of gross not where it used to be. Someone is helping we see it’s beauty. And you’re right, I would never say the things I say about myself to others.

This has sadly become true too. Old Lit. I left my PMs off a lot. New Lit. I rarely have them off. So. I tend to get more PMs if I comment on some. "ooohh you liked that one huh? How about I send you more!!"

Mhmm. PMs off
I felt like I needed to respond the every one, it was time consuming

 

[Saltfountain]

I'm not the usual chaos crew. I've only ventured into the mean chaos thread twice. I was chewed out the first time and called a bully the 2nd
I now tend to post my pics elsewhere. I think the expectation that the guy has to get his dick out online to get attention (and that dick is an expectation) whereas girls get pages of comments telling them they're the hottest thing ever if they post fully clothed is slowly but surely putting me off.
I'm aware that's how the internet works, but it still sucks ass

I apologise for calling the other thread the mean thread.
This is my issue, not anything to do with them

I'm sorry I've been such a cunt to people today

 

[Photog1rl]

They’ve grown big time and it’s mainly due to some everyone here and a few special friends. Not being ‘seen’ at home has had a massive toll. This is something that I worry about for the men as many are here for the same reason and they deserve to have that same boost I’m confidence.

Yes! 3 sections here, then a hysterectomy and my belly is all sorts of gross. Someone is helping we see it’s beauty. And you’re right, I would never say the things I say to myself to others.

Mhmm. PMs off
I felt like I needed to respond the every one, it was time consuming

Such great conversations happening here today! @SassySheDevil you bring what I think is a unique perspective having both a long history and posting with a partner.
The collective of experiences and wisdom is amazing to see. I wish I had time to engage and perhaps I will later but for now, I’m just stopping in to say that I appreciate these discussions.
We all should feel loved and appreciated and I’m stoked when this thread is a space for that

 

[LittleSwitchy]

I think we've all done it at some point. I remember times of doing this. When I saw others do it. I realized how cringe it was and made it a point to stop putting myself down before posting. I have also seen your confidence levels grow with the more compliments you've gotten, which is nice to see. You truly are beautiful. We often just struggle to look in the mirror and see what others do. We deal with the demons in our own head.
I've had 2 C sections. I look at the mirror and think "damn that pooch just wont go away!!" But will look at someone elses and say "look at that beautiful body that brought life into the world"
Demons!!



See. Look at these examples. It isn't just about an outter beauty. Sometimes it is simply the beauty of a person. Who they are. You've earned that.


This has sadly become true too. Old Lit. I left my PMs off a lot. New Lit. I rarely have them off. So. I tend to get more PMs if I comment on some. "ooohh you liked that one huh? How about I send you more!!"

Yes. Reading others doing this is what made me cringe too. I looked back on the times I did it and wanted to slap myself.
That's part of what I like about pics. I can often hide the lumps and bumps or find better angles or lighting to hide the things I'm most insecure with. Video. Hell no. WAY too chicken.

Sassy you’ve nothing to be worried about. You’re beautiful. Post whatever pics you are comfortable with. We will enjoy seeing your pics.

 

[SiFi]

Try taking the cat in the shower with you.. That will make for an interesting pic

If I did that we would be back onto scars theme, our other pussy cat was infested with fleas when we rescued her, I was given the task of shampooing her with special stuff to get rid off them (many hundreds) I was covered in cuts and scratches and the cat is still very wary of me to this day, 7 years later, if I walk into a room she will walk out.

https://imgur.com/Fsu462Z

 

[LittleSwitchy]

I apologise for calling the other thread the mean thread.
This is my issue, not anything to do with them

I'm sorry I've been such a cunt to people today

Can we use twat? Cunt is so harsh. Twat is like a term of endearment.

 

[Saltfountain]

Sorry.

I can't even apologise correctly

 

[Thom_the_gleeman]

Can we use twat? Cunt is so harsh. Twat is like a term of endearment.

Trying to figure out if this is a joke... dude, hoe is twat better,

 

[SassySheDevil]

Mhmm. PMs off
I felt like I needed to respond the every one, it was time consuming

I did too. For many years. But then realized that I will only respond to those I am comfortable with. I don't respond to those asking if i want more pictures anymore. I don't respond to crude or overly sexual PM's anymore either. I don't respond to simple PM's that simply say "Hey" I treat lit differently as a whole now vs how I used to.
You get to a point where you figure out what is worth your energy, and what is not.
I'd simply rather put my energy towards someone or something that genuinely cares about me as a person.

 

[CthuluLives]

Can we use twat? Cunt is so harsh. Twat is like a term of endearment.

Cunt isnae a harsh word, it's a term of endearment where I come fae

 

[Lindi37]

I apologise for calling the other thread the mean thread.
This is my issue, not anything to do with them

I'm sorry I've been such a cunt to people today

You have nothing to apologise for!

Sorry.

I can't even apologise correctly

 

[Trubbycat]

Can we use twat? Cunt is so harsh. Twat is like a term of endearment.

I know it's different in the UK and territories, but to American ears it's like the most verboten thing to say to or about a woman. I like twat or pussy.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I apologise for calling the other thread the mean thread.
This is my issue, not anything to do with them

I'm sorry I've been such a cunt to people today

I am not a part of the other Chaos thread because like you. I had popped in a couple times and got ignored, so I left. But I know that those who are part of that group will not take kindly to the "mean" comment. But if that is your perception of it. So be it. We all have our good days and bad days but I know enough to know that if we feel left out, ignored, etc. That is our feeling and no one can tell us differently. Just like sweet little Mr Switchy telling me "we all enjoy your pictures" I know HE does. But I also know that many do not. So, I am careful about speaking for others. If I feel like I don't belong. There is no one that can tell me differently. We can't change someone elses feelings just because we perceive it as different than they do.

Such great conversations happening here today! @SassySheDevil you bring what I think is a unique perspective having both a long history and posting with a partner.
The collective of experiences and wisdom is amazing to see. I wish I had time to engage and perhaps I will later but for now, I’m just stopping in to say that I appreciate these discussions.
We all should feel loved and appreciated and I’m stoked when this thread is a space for that

Thank you. Certain topics I get a little overly passionate about.

Sassy you’ve nothing to be worried about. You’re beautiful. Post whatever pics you are comfortable with. We will enjoy seeing your pics.

as stated above. I know that you do, and I fully appreciate that.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Sorry.

I can't even apologise correctly

Salty don’t worry. You are fine.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Trying to figure out if this is a joke... dude, hoe is twat better,

Guess it depends where you’re from. In UK cunt is widely used. Personally not something I’d say to someone. Granted it’s a context, tone of voice thing.
And yes I was joking. Most of what I say here is kidding around. Though lot of what I’ve said in here today is straight up. It’s hard to pick up on humor online. If y’all want to know if I’m kidding. I probably am but feel free to ask

 

[SiFi]

I apologise for calling the other thread the mean thread.
This is my issue, not anything to do with them

I'm sorry I've been such a cunt to people today

Hey we all have bad days and sometimes better days, you don't have to apologise for anything, you were just being you.
I could always buy you a coffee to cheer you up ...

 

[zhutt]

I think we've all done it at some point. I remember times of doing this. When I saw others do it. I realized how cringe it was and made it a point to stop putting myself down before posting. I have also seen your confidence levels grow with the more compliments you've gotten, which is nice to see. You truly are beautiful. We often just struggle to look in the mirror and see what others do. We deal with the demons in our own head.
I've had 2 C sections. I look at the mirror and think "damn that pooch just wont go away!!" But will look at someone elses and say "look at that beautiful body that brought life into the world"
Demons!!

I do wish you would be as kind to yourself as you are to others, but I guess this is something we all struggle with every day. Keep working on it.

I was delivered by C section. Took me years to figure out why I always preferred leaving a house through a window.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I do wish you would be as kind to yourself as you are to others, but I guess this is something we all struggle with every day. Keep working on it.

I was delivered by C section. Took me years to figure out why I always preferred leaving a house through a window.

I'm trying. I'm not sure I will ever get there, but I try.

 

[zhutt]

I'm trying. I'm not sure I will ever get there, but I try.

I know, fighting the same struggle. And your trying is something else that makes you so wonderful and beautiful.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I know, fighting the same struggle. And your trying is something else that makes you so wonderful and beautiful.

Thank you. Always a sweetheart.


okay folks. I'm done with the men vs women love lol

Thank you for letting me ramble.

 

[kdunn762012]

indeed. moreso even. after the initial, oh hottie.... I see the actual work, and then the work overflow. Like, the work in dating a man that looks like that. Dude wants to be all athletic dates like hiking and biking. Then you have to attending all the sportsball games the sport in and pay attention and cheer. Then spend time being amazed at how much weight they can lift, often. Then comes are you sure you should eat/drink that is so unhealthy/high whatever. and then hey how about we start training and you can run that charity marathon with me. Oh no, fuck that. Now it is like oh damn hottie, such dedication and hours in gym, nope fuck running I'm out lol. Give me the out of shape dude who brings me tacos, and says run, fuck that, how about some throw back Killer Instinct, you can be Cinder.

I figured you for an Orchid or Sabrewulf kinda gal. Oh and soft shell or hard for those tacos?

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

Thank you. Always a sweetheart.


okay folks. I'm done with the men vs women love lol

Thank you for letting me ramble.

i find that you always have something interesting to say. Thanks for today's picture and your thoughts.

None of us look like movie stars and i think we learn to be more accepting of oursleves when we stop looking at the movie stars and assuming thats the standard and actually concentrate on the inner and outter beauty of real people.

@Lindi37 i was going to respond to one of your posts but i lost it and i think it fits here... youve always been one of my favorite posters here. Not just because of your pictures but because you seem like a genuinely good person. And thats worth more than all your hot looks. Often by the time i scroll the thread, your picture has turned into a flower (or butthole? ), but your beauty is still here in the comments.