No offense Justa. If you ran few things would happen
100%
The thing that throws some is suddenly an account shows up as the SO, but it just doesn't feel like that is really the SO and you wonder if the guy just created another account because of how much shit he got over whether or not she knows.
right. If I am running, I am probably about to intentionally injure someone.
Sometimes I can't help but laugh at these. A woman simply has to show a heel, or a calf, or a thigh and she is suddenly the best thing ever. Those pictures that you struggle to make out what body part that is, and yet the guys are falling all over themselves to tell her she is gorgeous.
Thank you.
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It's not mean over there, babe. Don't let a bad apple or two ruin the bunch for you. 99% of the time it's full of kind and fun people. I think the same of this thread.
What threads the mean Chaos thread, am I missing something?
Hey SassySometimes I can't help but laugh at these. A woman simply has to show a heel, or a calf, or a thigh and she is suddenly the best thing ever. Those pictures that you struggle to make out what body part that is, and yet the guys are falling all over themselves to tell her she is gorgeous.
But guys and pics. I honestly would much rather see a fully dressed guy, or a teasing guy over a dick. Show me the dick after I've seen the rest of you. Truth be told. Now a days. I often rarely comment on pics that are just a dick. If there is some creativity to it. Great. If it is more than just the dick. Great. But flop a dick out and snap a picture and I rarely comment. Even in my sexy men thread. I still like creativity. There was one guy that got SUPER butt hurt when I asked for less dick. Oddly enough. He was one of the people that actually took the most time to take great pictures, but even now. If he posts. He often says childish comments like "Since we aren't suppose to post dick, come over to my thread and I'll show you"
I said less. Not none. I also said to put some effort into it, and he always did. So go throw your tantrum elsewhere.
Thank you.
Thank you Lindi.Hey Sassy
I always love reading your comments, you are often able to articulate what I’m thinking. The guys here deserve all the love. It does make me sad that they don’t get it. I am guilty too. I don’t always comment on pics when I know I should be encouraging of others.
We all like the reassurance.Those undies ROCKED,...Thank you Lindi.
It's funny how we women often are afraid to post our pictures because of our own perceived flaws but if we express that. Guys are always willing to tell us we have nothing to worry about. Guys can say the same thing but either get ignored, or another guy will come along and say something like "well if you hate yourself so much, why are you posting?"
(Though I will admit that I roll my eyes when the women who obviously get a ton of attention and likes say that type of thing) I understand that we all have our insecurities and we accept others flaws, even if we have the same ones. But a pet peeve of mine is starting off with "Oh my. I look so horrible, but here is a picture"
uh. If you truly thought it looked horrible. You wouldn't post it. You just wanted to reassurance. Own it
I take 10 pictures to like 1. While I don't always love the picture or how it turned out. It must have been okay enough for me to post it, or I wouldn't have. We all have the power to pick and choose what we post.
You should try it, I'll never forget how nervous I was the first time I posted a pic and when I posted my first full-frontal nude. I've always loved erotic photography and I finally came to terms with if others can do it so freely then why not me? I long since came to terms with the fact that many will view and not comment simply because commenting can draw unwanted DMs from less well-intended pervs on here. So do what you want and don't worry about it.
I am definitely guilty of this and have pulled back big time. When I started I wanted to contribute and saw how incredibly stunning and real you all are, I’ve always used ‘disclaimers’ regarding myself so I don’t get too much negativity and here was no exception.Thank you Lindi.
It's funny how we women often are afraid to post our pictures because of our own perceived flaws but if we express that. Guys are always willing to tell us we have nothing to worry about. Guys can say the same thing but either get ignored, or another guy will come along and say something like "well if you hate yourself so much, why are you posting?"
(Though I will admit that I roll my eyes when the women who obviously get a ton of attention and likes say that type of thing) I understand that we all have our insecurities and we accept others flaws, even if we have the same ones. But a pet peeve of mine is starting off with "Oh my. I look so horrible, but here is a picture"
uh. If you truly thought it looked horrible. You wouldn't post it. You just wanted to reassurance. Own it
I take 10 pictures to like 1. While I don't always love the picture or how it turned out. It must have been okay enough for me to post it, or I wouldn't have. We all have the power to pick and choose what we post.
Thank you for the link Blue. I wasn’t surprised with your contribution
Lindi
Every word of this.
Not my intention
. Thank you Switchy. As always you are so kind and encouraging. I do wish you’d use it for yourself too 
What a discussion. I have thoughts and I'm really just commenting now cause I want to be tagged to this so I can respond later.Thank you Lindi.
It's funny how we women often are afraid to post our pictures because of our own perceived flaws but if we express that. Guys are always willing to tell us we have nothing to worry about. Guys can say the same thing but either get ignored, or another guy will come along and say something like "well if you hate yourself so much, why are you posting?"
(Though I will admit that I roll my eyes when the women who obviously get a ton of attention and likes say that type of thing) I understand that we all have our insecurities and we accept others flaws, even if we have the same ones. But a pet peeve of mine is starting off with "Oh my. I look so horrible, but here is a picture"
uh. If you truly thought it looked horrible. You wouldn't post it. You just wanted to reassurance. Own it
I take 10 pictures to like 1. While I don't always love the picture or how it turned out. It must have been okay enough for me to post it, or I wouldn't have. We all have the power to pick and choose what we post.
This pic is awesome!
Oh I use and abuse myself often.Not my intention
Oh beautiful. If you want to use and abuse yourself. Feel free.Something that you are quick to point out and discourage in others.
Oh boy. The latter part of that…Thank you Lindi.
It's funny how we women often are afraid to post our pictures because of our own perceived flaws but if we express that. Guys are always willing to tell us we have nothing to worry about. Guys can say the same thing but either get ignored, or another guy will come along and say something like "well if you hate yourself so much, why are you posting?"
(Though I will admit that I roll my eyes when the women who obviously get a ton of attention and likes say that type of thing) I understand that we all have our insecurities and we accept others flaws, even if we have the same ones. But a pet peeve of mine is starting off with "Oh my. I look so horrible, but here is a picture"
uh. If you truly thought it looked horrible. You wouldn't post it. You just wanted to reassurance. Own it
I take 10 pictures to like 1. While I don't always love the picture or how it turned out. It must have been okay enough for me to post it, or I wouldn't have. We all have the power to pick and choose what we post.
You look so cute at work todayOh boy. The latter part of that…
I really really try not to do that, I think I did say something similar on another thread not too long ago and I visibly cringed reading back.
But yes I take like 20 photos to post 2. It’s all angles and lighting at the end of the day. Bodies look different unposed
To add onto the other conversation I do try to comment and react to people’s photos and comments in general. I’m finding it hard to post here, feeling out of place is pretty common I find - not just on this thread but online spaces in general.
But what can be done
