Chaos: Don't Stress, Undress

[Trubbycat]

Trust me. For men. Lit is hard. It is a lot of work. While men are much more likely to comment on all body types and support pretty much all women. Women are often a little more picky. If a guy has a great body. He will often get tons of likes/comments. If he is super interactive, has a good following, has a great personality. He will get more comments and likes. But if he is shy, doesn't interact as much. Sadly. he wont get much attention. If I was a guy. I'd be pretty bummed out about how hard I had to work to get the same type of attention. I'm a fucking attention whore damn it.
I myself rarely wander into random threads anymore because if it is a guy. I got tired of my simple compliments getting passed up for the ones where ladies were offering all the things, they'd do to them. I don't want to offer to fuck him sideways just to get a thank you. For the ladies. I will often go in when I know someone is real (they've been around a little while and proven to be real) and compliment them. But some women only like the compliments from men. Generally, women are better about accepting compliments from either sex. But there are a few who don't reply to women.
When I first started posting in this thread, I was happy to have a place to post random pics since I don't post as often anymore, but it also didn't take long to realize that a lot of the people stick to their usual Chaos crew, so I quickly felt out of place. I still lurk, and I will still occasionally post because I do love the idea of the thread and some of the interactions. But it is easy to feel out of place too.

Yes, Lit is hard for us guys. I've had a few conversations with sassy and I've noted that I'm old, I'm bald, I'm fat, my cock isn't porn star material, etc etc and she has reiterated that it's the attitude that matters, how it makes you feel.I flirt and play with my female friends and it's all a lot of fun, and yes, I do get jealous when they flirt with the six-foot whatever Adonis with a cock the size of a Pringles can. It's amazing how high school can come roaring back. But on the whole I've had a pretty good time here. I've had a surprising number of compliments from men, which is oddly flattering. I've been welcoming to people popping in to the group and I've PMed a few, not all of whom were interested. But one thing I will not do is pretend the be someone else.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Trust me. For men. Lit is hard. It is a lot of work. While men are much more likely to comment on all body types and support pretty much all women. Women are often a little more picky. If a guy has a great body. He will often get tons of likes/comments. If he is super interactive, has a good following, has a great personality. He will get more comments and likes. But if he is shy, doesn't interact as much. Sadly. he wont get much attention. If I was a guy. I'd be pretty bummed out about how hard I had to work to get the same type of attention. I'm a fucking attention whore damn it.
I myself rarely wander into random threads anymore because if it is a guy. I got tired of my simple compliments getting passed up for the ones where ladies were offering all the things, they'd do to them. I don't want to offer to fuck him sideways just to get a thank you. For the ladies. I will often go in when I know someone is real (they've been around a little while and proven to be real) and compliment them. But some women only like the compliments from men. Generally, women are better about accepting compliments from either sex. But there are a few who don't reply to women.
When I first started posting in this thread, I was happy to have a place to post random pics since I don't post as often anymore, but it also didn't take long to realize that a lot of the people stick to their usual Chaos crew, so I quickly felt out of place. I still lurk, and I will still occasionally post because I do love the idea of the thread and some of the interactions. But it is easy to feel out of place too.

yeah, men here have it hard. I feel your attention whoriness and resemble that. I appreciate the lopsided men to women ratio. Hell, my perfect relationship would probably be multiple partner relationships because I am apparently high needs. Can I have like 2 husbands please lol. Compliments from women can be awkward. I actually think trying to compliment women is way more awkward. I rarely see women that way. Like um hi, you have exposed tits, but that skirt is super cute . I don't think you are out of place here at all. Mostly I think this is a collection of people who don't really have a place.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

Cause it’s Monday…
And sorry I borrowed your mug @OrdinaryPerson

https://imgur.com/a/yrSxhq1

*gulps*

 

[Trubbycat]

Um hi, you have exposed tits, but that skirt is super cute

Absolutely love this. Missed you Justa.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

Ladies first

If you're still walking after I've fisted your holes, you can fist mine

Challenge. Accepted.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Yes, Lit is hard for us guys. I've had a few conversations with sassy and I've noted that I'm old, I'm bald, I'm fat, my cock isn't porn star material, etc etc and she has reiterated that it's the attitude that matters, how it makes you feel.I flirt and play with my female friends and it's all a lot of fun, and yes, I do get jealous when they flirt with the six-foot whatever Adonis with a cock the size of a Pringles can. It's amazing how high school can come roaring back. But on the whole I've had a pretty good time here. I've had a surprising number of compliments from men, which is oddly flattering. I've been welcoming to people popping in to the group and I've PMed a few, not all of whom were interested. But one thing I will not do is pretend the be someone else.

For me it definitely is. I appreciate all the hard work that goes into that Adonis body. But I know I am not willing to do that much work. I like food too much. I'm far from perfect. I am quite overweight myself. I have saggy tits and jiggly bits, but half the battle is just putting yourself out there. I like the ones who interact. Who talk to you like normal. Who don't ignore you just because the hot chick complimented them.

 

[SassySheDevil]

yeah, men here have it hard. I feel your attention whoriness and resemble that. I appreciate the lopsided men to women ratio. Hell, my perfect relationship would probably be multiple partner relationships because I am apparently high needs. Can I have like 2 husbands please lol. Compliments from women can be awkward. I actually think trying to compliment women is way more awkward. I rarely see women that way. Like um hi, you have exposed tits, but that skirt is super cute . I don't think you are out of place here at all. Mostly I think this is a collection of people who don't really have a place.

LOL me too!! Give me a couple husbands.

 

[Trubbycat]

Challenge. Accepted.

I'd like to see a picture of Indie's fist with some size reference...

 

[Joxlrg]

For me it definitely is. I appreciate all the hard work that goes into that Adonis body. But I know I am not willing to do that much work. I like food too much. I'm far from perfect. I am quite overweight myself. I have saggy tits and jiggly bits, but half the battle is just putting yourself out there. I like the ones who interact. Who talk to you like normal. Who don't ignore you just because the hot chick complimented them.

I think all of your bits are sexy.. I truly do

 

[Saltfountain]

Challenge. Accepted.

Thems big words

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

Thems big words

Lucky for you, thems small hands

 

[LupineOne]

Lucky for you, thems small hands

The sass!

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Trust me. For men. Lit is hard. It is a lot of work. While men are much more likely to comment on all body types and support pretty much all women. Women are often a little more picky. If a guy has a great body. He will often get tons of likes/comments. If he is super interactive, has a good following, has a great personality. He will get more comments and likes. But if he is shy, doesn't interact as much. Sadly. he wont get much attention. If I was a guy. I'd be pretty bummed out about how hard I had to work to get the same type of attention. I'm a fucking attention whore damn it.
I myself rarely wander into random threads anymore because if it is a guy. I got tired of my simple compliments getting passed up for the ones where ladies were offering all the things, they'd do to them. I don't want to offer to fuck him sideways just to get a thank you. For the ladies. I will often go in when I know someone is real (they've been around a little while and proven to be real) and compliment them. But some women only like the compliments from men. Generally, women are better about accepting compliments from either sex. But there are a few who don't reply to women.
When I first started posting in this thread, I was happy to have a place to post random pics since I don't post as often anymore, but it also didn't take long to realize that a lot of the people stick to their usual Chaos crew, so I quickly felt out of place. I still lurk, and I will still occasionally post because I do love the idea of the thread and some of the interactions. But it is easy to feel out of place too.

I think you nailed it.
I’ve not been around as long as lotta people here. I’m pretty shy. Well smartass shy.
And yeah I don’t get a lot of attention. I come in and kid around. I have fun fun for me.
If I make a comment/ joke and get crickets. Whatever. I think lotta people don’t totally get my humor.

 

[Saltfountain]

Trust me. For men. Lit is hard. It is a lot of work. While men are much more likely to comment on all body types and support pretty much all women. Women are often a little more picky. If a guy has a great body. He will often get tons of likes/comments. If he is super interactive, has a good following, has a great personality. He will get more comments and likes. But if he is shy, doesn't interact as much. Sadly. he wont get much attention. If I was a guy. I'd be pretty bummed out about how hard I had to work to get the same type of attention. I'm a fucking attention whore damn it.
I myself rarely wander into random threads anymore because if it is a guy. I got tired of my simple compliments getting passed up for the ones where ladies were offering all the things, they'd do to them. I don't want to offer to fuck him sideways just to get a thank you. For the ladies. I will often go in when I know someone is real (they've been around a little while and proven to be real) and compliment them. But some women only like the compliments from men. Generally, women are better about accepting compliments from either sex. But there are a few who don't reply to women.
When I first started posting in this thread, I was happy to have a place to post random pics since I don't post as often anymore, but it also didn't take long to realize that a lot of the people stick to their usual Chaos crew, so I quickly felt out of place. I still lurk, and I will still occasionally post because I do love the idea of the thread and some of the interactions. But it is easy to feel out of place too.

I'm not the usual chaos crew.
I now tend to post my pics elsewhere. I think the expectation that the guy has to get his dick out online to get attention (and that dick is an expectation) whereas girls get pages of comments telling them they're the hottest thing ever if they post fully clothed is slowly but surely putting me off.
I'm aware that's how the internet works, but it still sucks ass

 

[Saltfountain]

I'd like to see a picture of Indie's fist with some size reference...

I'm guessing her fists are 2/3 the size of mine

 

[Thom_the_gleeman]

Trust me. For men. Lit is hard. It is a lot of work. While men are much more likely to comment on all body types and support pretty much all women. Women are often a little more picky. If a guy has a great body. He will often get tons of likes/comments. If he is super interactive, has a good following, has a great personality. He will get more comments and likes. But if he is shy, doesn't interact as much. Sadly. he wont get much attention. If I was a guy. I'd be pretty bummed out about how hard I had to work to get the same type of attention. I'm a fucking attention whore damn it.
I myself rarely wander into random threads anymore because if it is a guy. I got tired of my simple compliments getting passed up for the ones where ladies were offering all the things, they'd do to them. I don't want to offer to fuck him sideways just to get a thank you. For the ladies. I will often go in when I know someone is real (they've been around a little while and proven to be real) and compliment them. But some women only like the compliments from men. Generally, women are better about accepting compliments from either sex. But there are a few who don't reply to women.
When I first started posting in this thread, I was happy to have a place to post random pics since I don't post as often anymore, but it also didn't take long to realize that a lot of the people stick to their usual Chaos crew, so I quickly felt out of place. I still lurk, and I will still occasionally post because I do love the idea of the thread and some of the interactions. But it is easy to feel out of place too.

I find it hard to imagine e you as "out of place" here, Sassy.. and am sorry that it still feels like that for you! I thi know as a Lit person, you belong with this crew!
Love,
Thom

 

[Thom_the_gleeman]

well that seems two different topics. like the male versus female ratio means men will have much less reaction. or do you mean 3 pages on a fake man? I haven't seen that. I don't see fake dudes too often surprisingly. It has been a few months since I've thrown shade a man using another man's pictures. Stunt cocks, so rude lol.

I was actually talking about fake women

 

[LittleSwitchy]

I'm not the usual chaos crew. I've only ventured into the mean chaos thread twice. I was chewed out the first time and called a bully the 2nd
I now tend to post my pics elsewhere. I think the expectation that the guy has to get his dick out online to get attention (and that dick is an expectation) whereas girls get pages of comments telling them they're the hottest thing ever if they post fully clothed is slowly but surely putting me off.
I'm aware that's how the internet works, but it still sucks ass

TBH. I blame lots on some of the guys. Stop being a simp. If you like what the person said/ pic posted. Sure make a comment. If you don’t. No one says you have to comment. Just guys be yourself and be honest.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

I'm guessing her fists are 2/3 the size of mine

I don't mind...

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

The sass!

Would you expect anything less?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

For me it definitely is. I appreciate all the hard work that goes into that Adonis body. But I know I am not willing to do that much work. I like food too much. I'm far from perfect. I am quite overweight myself. I have saggy tits and jiggly bits, but half the battle is just putting yourself out there. I like the ones who interact. Who talk to you like normal. Who don't ignore you just because the hot chick complimented them.

indeed. moreso even. after the initial, oh hottie.... I see the actual work, and then the work overflow. Like, the work in dating a man that looks like that. Dude wants to be all athletic dates like hiking and biking. Then you have to attending all the sportsball games the sport in and pay attention and cheer. Then spend time being amazed at how much weight they can lift, often. Then comes are you sure you should eat/drink that is so unhealthy/high whatever. and then hey how about we start training and you can run that charity marathon with me. Oh no, fuck that. Now it is like oh damn hottie, such dedication and hours in gym, nope fuck running I'm out lol. Give me the out of shape dude who brings me tacos, and says run, fuck that, how about some throw back Killer Instinct, you can be Cinder.

 

[LupineOne]

Would you expect anything less?

Nope

 

[Pikemaster41]

The funny thing is. When I first started posting pictures (before Lit) my husband and I posted together, and he loved the attention I got. So, I do understand that this can genuinely be a turn on. Same when we first came to lit. We posted together and as most guys know. Guys don't get the same kind of attention that women do, so he quickly lost interest and just left it as my thing. But now I worry more about if the SO knows her pics are being posted.

I understand that, every time I see a rate my wife or here’s my girlfriend, I got an uneasy feeling. Do they agree with them? Know they’re being posted?

 

[Saltfountain]

I don't mind...

At least I'm going first...

 

[draconus_infernus]

Honestly. I think it is simply lack of attention. Look at how hard guys have to work to get the same kind of attention that women do. Women usually just have to say hi and guys are all over them. Guys have to work so much harder. Most women like the guys who interact and not all guys want to put forth that effort.
Many of those fakes pretend to be bi/lesbian. So. They get women to interact with them and that simply feeds their need for woman interaction. but even if only the guys respond. I think it's a power thing. I think it still feeds their hormones. Sexual talk. They can use their own imagination. Look how many guys will post their SO and ask guys to tell them what they would do to their wife/gf. That's guys telling him all the sexual things and him getting off on it.

And that, my friends, is called hitting the nail squarely on the head.