Reject a sexual offer but turned on by idea of doing it?

[OlderFitterWiser]

When I was a very young man, an older man approached me and my girlfriend in a crowded pub.

He told us he had beer and a nice house and would we like to come with him to see it & stay over.

I was wary of him on my perv scale.

My girlfriend at the time was a slim red head wearing a white see through trousers and blouse and she was game to go. She was the very adventurous type of young girl.

I was fairly innocent at the time & declined, but wondered later what might have happened.

 

[mrsrobinsonxx]

When I was a very young man, an older man approached me and my girlfriend in a crowded pub.

He told us he had beer and a nice house and would we like to come with him to see it & stay over.

I was wary of him on my perv scale.

My girlfriend at the time was a slim red head wearing a white see through trousers and blouse and she was game to go. She was the very adventurous type of young girl.

I was fairly innocent at the time & declined, but wondered later what might have happened.

You say she was up for it. How did she react when you declined the offer? Did you chat about it afterwards? Did she know what it might have entailed? Was she turned on, at the time? I wonder if she ever thought about it in the coming days.

 

[OlderFitterWiser]

You say she was up for it. How did she react when you declined the offer? Did you chat about it afterwards? Did she know what it might have entailed? Was she turned on, at the time? I wonder if she ever thought about it in the coming days.

We were young & I had never considered what actually might happen.

I think what attracted him was our youth & the fact that in the pub light, you could see my girlfriends lacy underwear through her white trousers.

In the darker part of my mind I might have suspected, but there was so many other sexual things to explore at that age (19) that I didn't think much about it until years later.

I think my girlfriend was more mature than I, but she was also scared he might be a maniac.

We did have great sex later that night & even tried some new stuff.

 

[mrsrobinsonxx]

We were young & I had never considered what actually might happen.

I think what attracted him was our youth & the fact that in the pub light, you could see my girlfriends lacy underwear through her white trousers.

In the darker part of my mind I might have suspected, but there was so many other sexual things to explore at that age (19) that I didn't think much about it until years later.

I think my girlfriend was more mature than I, but she was also scared he might be a maniac.

We did have great sex later that night & even tried some new stuff.

All's well that ends well! I'm glad you enjoyed yourselves later that night. I rather suspect that, in the pub, you'd also had a few glimpses of her lacy underwear, too. My husband is a great fan of such displays.

 

[OlderFitterWiser]

Yes indeed. I'm a fan of such things. It's always nice to keep the fire stoked. I still enjoy such sights with my wife today.

 

[StudlyCowboy]

Have you ever rejected a sexual offer from someone but when you thought about it later, you were turned on by the idea of doing it?

One afternoon, I was approached by two gay men in a downtown park. They invited me to go back to their apartment. Maybe they were a gay couple or just two gay friends who lived together. But it felt like they were offering me a three-way. They were the femme gay type.

I’m not gay so I politely rejected their offer. But later when I thought about it, I imagined myself and the two gay guys going at it (sucking each other’s dicks, anal sex, etc.) and it aroused me to imagine myself surrendering to all that sex.

I'm not gay either, but I have been approached a number of times by gay men over the years. I'm addicted to women, and have had a few liaisons I probably should have passed on, but only a few. At lunch one day, we were doing some people-watching and I made a remark about a woman that was walking to her car. I was the youngest guy there. One of the old hats looked at me and said something I'll never forget and have lived by all these years. "Never turn a woman down, son. It might be the best piece you ever had."

Yes sir!

 

[canogagrizz]

Have you ever rejected a sexual offer from someone but when you thought about it later, you were turned on by the idea of doing it?

One afternoon, I was approached by two gay men in a downtown park. They invited me to go back to their apartment. Maybe they were a gay couple or just two gay friends who lived together. But it felt like they were offering me a three-way. They were the femme gay type.

I’m not gay so I politely rejected their offer. But later when I thought about it, I imagined myself and the two gay guys going at it (sucking each other’s dicks, anal sex, etc.) and it aroused me to imagine myself surrendering to all that sex.

Very exciting after reading this. I'm not into the femme-type boys either really. Best thing though that you said no because it sounds to me like these guys probably were very promiscuous in their encounters and not sexually safe seeing that they were seeking out an extra guy on the spot. The scenario though I can understand being an exciting thought. It's one of those "Wished I could have but not in a sexually unsafe situation with strangers I do not know." So that really stinks that that has to be the true matter of fact in those regards to on the spot decision making. Exciting thought though I agree. Femme gay or not.

 

[Tayloroc]

Have you ever rejected a sexual offer from someone but when you thought about it later, you were turned on by the idea of doing it?

One afternoon, I was approached by two gay men in a downtown park. They invited me to go back to their apartment. Maybe they were a gay couple or just two gay friends who lived together. But it felt like they were offering me a three-way. They were the femme gay type.

I’m not gay so I politely rejected their offer. But later when I thought about it, I imagined myself and the two gay guys going at it (sucking each other’s dicks, anal sex, etc.) and it aroused me to imagine myself surrendering to all that sex.

Ohh my. That happened to me once. I’ve regretted that I passed on the chance!

 

[shymalea]

i was asked by a neighbour a few years ago,he was 71yrs old,fat and ugly,but i didn,t mind to gave him french kisses sitting on his lap,he wanted i would move in with him,as his gurlfriend&housemaid etc,i rejected but i ,ve got still naughty fantasies about what would be going on if i said yes

 

[AlwaysDancing]

I’ve had my share of missed opportunities, but some of those were me being completely clueless at the time.

But two quickies.

One, a gal and I were standing on a ski jump in summer time … just before dawn, watching the fog peel off the forest floor. All I had to do was lean into her like she was leaning into me. But I chose to be faithful in a relationship that was ultimately a disaster. I’m retrospect, it’s damn hard to justify being faithful.

Another time, I was messaged by someone who I believe thought I was a woman. I let him know up front. Is it deranged that I wonder about playing along?

 

[Wildfly11]

I was driving with a girl I knew...we were in our early 20's. We were not dating but had got together in the past. It was winter and we had stopped to pee on a side road. We ended up kissing and making out for some reason while we were outside the car. She wanted me to fuck her in the snow bank..not sure which one was on the bottom. I didn't want to as it was cold out. I look back and kick myself for being such a stick in the mud.

 

[Susscrofa]

Have you ever rejected a sexual offer from someone but when you thought about it later, you were turned on by the idea of doing it?

Looking back to my younger days, I kick myself for rejecting sexual opportunities from various women who I thought were plain-looking, since I probably missed out on some great times and would have spared myself long dry spells. I have a pretty good memory for faces and situations, so I've sometimes reconstructed the scenarios in my mind and thought about what fun I could have had if I wasn't such a jerk.

It wasn't as though I was the greatest looking or most suave guy even in my youth. Sure, once in a while I'd have an opportunity with a very attractive woman, but that tended to be few and far between. What I didn't realize then was that when I did, they were broad-minded enough to say, "OK, this guy isn't a GQ cover model, but maybe he's more interesting to be around than somebody who has those looks." I should have kept the same open mind.

 

[shinybikiniwife]

 

[Redrose1000]

At first I thought no, as I have not turned down very many offers for sex. Yes is almost always the answer. One situation does come to mind, however.

My last year of college I lived in a house quite a way from campus. The closest bar was decidedly not a student hangout. My housemates and I were usually the only students there, but we were there quite often. One Friday evening a buddy and I started drinking at happy hour and continued until almost midnight. At that point we were sitting at the bar and an older woman bought us a round of drinks. We were poor students and in no position to turn down free drinks, so we accepted. She joined us at the bar and continued buying rounds for the three of us. Eventually we were ready to go, and she asked if we would like to continue the party at her place. My buddy and I looked at each other, thought about it, and told her no thank you. Why did we say no? Well, that year I was having my best year ever sexually. And the women I was enjoying were 21-22 year old coeds. I was not interested in a woman in her mid 40s. And to tell the truth, she was only average looking at best. Today I would not say no to her, but 22 year old me was not interested. In the years since I have wondered many times what would have happened. Probably nothing, as I was way too drunk to perform, but in my fantasies I stopped drinking hours earlier and we had a hell of a time taking turns with this horny cougar.

I'm in my late 50s and I am still into guys in their mid 20s to mid 30s. My age changed but not my preference. Unfortunately most guys feel the way you did.

 

[usse]

Twice, once a beautiful black woman said, “take me however you want right here” and the other, a guy walked up to me at an event, pointed to his wife who is standing a few feet away and said to me, “My wife would like to fuck your brains out”!

 

[Redrose1000]

I rejected the offer to have sex with 2 bro. I regret it. Theyre both married now

I've had that offer twice. Didn't say no but logistically we could work it out.

 

[Redrose1000]

I've had that offer twice. Didn't say no but logistically we could work it out.

*couldn't
I'd let them go bareback too

 

[StrongMaster7]

My last gf before my wife was a purely sexual relationship for me, but the gf was head-over-heels in love with me. I told her I was just using her for sex and she was willing to accept that, but I wasn't.

One of the last things she said to me was, "If you ever want to cheat, call me!" And she totally meant it.

As it turns out, ironically, my wife has little interest in sex. And I've had to take care of my own needs 90% for the last 30+ years. There was a time when I used to fantasize about nothing so much as calling that old gf and screwing her three times a week.

 

[AmandaKellyUK]

Propositioned for a 3 sum at festival - a guy basically asked if he could join me and my bf, I said no reflexively, later that night I was still thinking about it - no idea what my bf at the time would have said if I'd have said sure lets give it a try

 

[Redrose1000]

All's well that ends well! I'm glad you enjoyed yourselves later that night. I rather suspect that, in the pub, you'd also had a few glimpses of her lacy underwear, too. My husband is a great fan of such displays.

My ex husband and I would be out in public and I'd whisper in his ear that I wasn't wear any underwear and he'd get hard. And he'd say he could smell me

 

[gtnlynn]

Not me, but my wife tells about the time she was at a medical convention and two casual acquaintances tried to convince her to do a threesome with them. She turned them down, but later did admit that she wishes she had tried it.

 

[Jeb56]

My ex husband and I would be out in public and I'd whisper in his ear that I wasn't wear any underwear and he'd get hard. And he'd say he could smell me

An attractive female co-worker once stared intently at the front of my trousers early one morning when we were alone, and I could definitely smell that she and her husband had been enjoying a last-minute romp. Alas, I was married at the time and faithful, but still fantasize about what might have followed. And no, my trousers were clean.

 

[twister947]

I've turned down a few, simply because I didn't want to fuck'em.

 

[BongoGal]

My ex husband and I would be out in public and I'd whisper in his ear that I wasn't wear any underwear and he'd get hard.

I’ve told a few of my dates that I removed my panties during a recent visit to the ladies room. It was, well, a lie, but they believed it and responded accordingly. They got a kick out of being in on a naughty secret even though it was made up.

 

[Shenanigans90]

I’ve told a few of my dates that I removed my panties during a recent visit to the ladies room. It was, well, a lie, but they believed it and responded accordingly. They got a kick out of being in on a naughty secret even though it was made up.

I’m surprised they didn’t ask to see them for proof.