Why is it so arousing to talk to strangers on Lit about masturbating?

[AnnaKahn]

Masturbation helps more than hurts sometimes. Like this for example- Wofe shuts down emotionally, physically, no sex. Ever. But you shouldn’t masturbate because it’s bad. Oh and you can’t stray from your marriage. But your never getting sex again at home. So what’s the fucking answer? Fuck it, I’m gonna stroke. People are really un-fucking- realistic when it comes to shit like this. It’s cruel, it’s a naive and just not grounded in reality. Wanna be a walking corpse fine, i still want something related to life and it’s enjoyable aspects. Everything has to be Fuckin miserable and out of reach or unobtainable with some people. Then cry foul because you are human and unapologetically so. WTF-ever. Enjoy wanking.

Absolutely! This really captures the fact that we're human and our sexual feelings are valid and normal. If masturbation was normalised we would fewer STDs, unwanted pregnancies etc. It's also crucial in knowing yourself so that when you are in a sexual situation with someone else, you know yourself and the other person well enough to know what works and what doesn't and in turn make the whole experience so much richer and enjoyable. It builds a greater connection with someone especially when it comes to being in love. Masturbation teaches you to love yourself and understand what it means to be human. People only see ugliness in it because of puritanical rules.
On Lit, I think being able to freely do it and talk about it with likeminded people is arousing because the space is safe. We feel seen, we arent shamed, and this makes us feel comfortable enough to feel aroused and excited. (Ps great topic!)

 

[itsnotthatsmall]

And its fun!

 

[Britva415]

If masturbation was normalised we would fewer STDs, unwanted pregnancies etc.

I doubt that. People want sex instead of masturbation, not because they can't have masturbation.

 

[Smarthomanid2]

Absolutely! This really captures the fact that we're human and our sexual feelings are valid and normal. If masturbation was normalised we would fewer STDs, unwanted pregnancies etc. It's also crucial in knowing yourself so that when you are in a sexual situation with someone else, you know yourself and the other person well enough to know what works and what doesn't and in turn make the whole experience so much richer and enjoyable. It builds a greater connection with someone especially when it comes to being in love. Masturbation teaches you to love yourself and understand what it means to be human. People only see ugliness in it because of puritanical rules.
On Lit, I think being able to freely do it and talk about it with likeminded people is arousing because the space is safe. We feel seen, we arent shamed, and this makes us feel comfortable enough to feel aroused and excited. (Ps great topic!)

Love your response.

We do it because it feels good.
Isn't it about time we stop telling people their bodies are bad, our thoughts are bad, feeling good is bad?
Yes, learn how to use the tools before you use the tools on someone else.

This place is full of cool people.

Smooches

 

[AnnaKahn]

I doubt that. People want sex instead of masturbation, not because they cant

I doubt that. People want sex instead of masturbation, not because they can't have masturbation.

Yep, people do want sex. I suppose maybe we should educate young people to try masturbation anyway for when they can't get sex?

 

[Smarthomanid2]

Yep, people do want sex. I suppose maybe we should educate young people to try masturbation anyway for when they can't get sex?

Wait you mean instead of pressuring someone to have penetrative sex to prove their love or some other goofy thing they learned from others, instead of it being ok to say "would you like to masturbate with me".

 

[AnnaKahn]

Actually asking someone to masturbate with you is a great idea as an alternative to sex. Sounds like it would be a lot of fun. Or even just helping each other masturbate instead of penetrative sex.

 

[Stoicbutfun]

I think it’s very freeing to be able to speak honestly about something that certainly my wife doesn’t like to talk about and the same for fantasies and anything else that leads me to stroke myself to orgasm. It’s a special place here on Lit, not too much judgement also helps, happy masturbating!

 

[Smarthomanid2]

Actually asking someone to masturbate with you is a great idea as an alternative to sex. Sounds like it would be a lot of fun. Or even just helping each other masturbate instead of penetrative sex.

It seems we do a lot of that in here even if it's not in person.

 

[AnnaKahn]

We do I love to help out where I can.

 

[Smarthomanid2]

We do I love to help out where I can.

I love giving a helping hand...

 

[Wag_that_tail86]

I'm here to serve

 

[Jcam1980s]

I love to masturbate while reading what others would do to/with my wife

 

[Sirlickalot77]

I find it to be liberating and arousing to talk to other people about masturbating on here, men or women. I wish it could just be water cooler talk at the office! What is it for you that makes it exciting to just chat about masturbating with other people on Lit?

I guess it's because we were taught it's not socially acceptable so it's naughty kinky and so fucking hot kinda even slutty but I love telling me and women both that I'm naked stroking my cock with one hand and stroking my ass with a vibrating dildo with the other kinda perverted but I'm a freak anyway anyday

 

[ManOSafety]

I always enjoy it when I find someone with similar fantasies, our conversation spurs one another on, adds a dimension to masturbation that makes it more fun.

 

[30bandits]

Actually asking someone to masturbate with you is a great idea as an alternative to sex. Sounds like it would be a lot of fun. Or even just helping each other masturbate instead of penetrative sex.

in a PM ?

 

[anniebaby10]

I find it to be liberating and arousing to talk to other people about masturbating on here, men or women. I wish it could just be water cooler talk at the office! What is it for you that makes it exciting to just chat about masturbating with other people on Lit?

because no one judges us here. I have learned about the Hitachi Magic Wand with a lady here and wow, it is my favorite sex toy now. And I have told others, both male and female, about getting one to use with their partner or alone. I share stories about my favorite lube, how to prep for anal sex, enemas, nipple rings and other sexual experiences that could never be talked about at work or in a restaurant. So ladies, open up and let us know what you like. We can all learn from one another and take it to the bedroom. Or wherever you like to have sex!
Feel free to send a private message with anything that helps you cum ladies. Or men. I will do the same

 

[anniebaby10]

But in RL people seldom talk about it.

girls do when they are all alone and had a glass of wine. At least my friends do.

 

[Lucien_Al]

girls do when they are all alone and had a glass of wine. At least my friends do.

The guys I have come across seldom make reference to it but I know my late wife told me her friends used to discuss it (particularly after a few glasses of wine)

 

[tnhardon]

It is fun to bring others in to an act that is otherwise very private

 

[screwher]

It's me!

Nice! If the opportunity was there, my wife would be quite excited and aroused as she lowered your pants!

 

[screwher]

When I enjoy talking about masturbation on here is when I’m chatting with other men about them screwing my wife. Numerous times they’ve admitted chatting about my wife has them hard and they’re stroking their cocks. Which then allows me to admit that I’m doing the same.

 

[goldenknights54]

The guys I have come across seldom make reference to it but I know my late wife told me her friends used to discuss it (particularly after a few glasses of wine)

I can tell you my wife loves mutual masturbation. We lay side by side and I will stroke my cock while she uses a variety of dildos and vibrators while we kiss. It is great to sit up in bed that way so we both get exactly what we want and she always wants me to finish with shooting cum all over her body which makes her cum even faster. A nice change of pace

 

[Jcam1980s]

I had a masturbation buddy on here via pm but she disappeared. Loved reading eachothers messages and getting off!

 

[Lulu_pleasing]

I can’t wait to explore the world of lit like you all did already!
And I hope to have many interesting conversations so I can share my experiences in this thread one day