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[Lifestyle66]

Yes. I forget who did a study were 18% of women admitted there is a chance their husbands are raising another mans child. It is believed that it may actually be 36% of women that cheated but half will not admit to it. I get that.
Realistically however society has always encouraged long term monogamy in every relevant society. Im speaking from the rule not some random obscure culture that no one knows about. I also have a half brother and know firsthand the counter productive effects caused by promiscuity.
You could be proud of your grandmother or daughter slutting around. Im not sure you understand simple economics. Supply and demand determine somethings value. Its easy for women to acquire sex so easy women command less value. Where as an exclusive woman particularly virgins have always been viewed as treasures worth a small fortune.

Should we assume that both you and your spouse were virgins when you married, and that neither of you has ever experienced sex with anyone else?

Or are you still single and a virgin?

Because if you are single and not a virgin, then you have already cheated any future spouse of that treasure! And you have robbed your temporary sex partner of their treasure.

 

[K0fcali]

Marriage as an institution was created to secure inheritance for direct descendants. And you said it yourself, a woman, especially a virgin, was worth a fortune. Marriage made women property and not viewed or treated as any better than livestock. That set the groundwork for a lot of the sexism and gender roles in modern society.

You know the expression "it takes a village to raise a child"? That's because that's how it used to be. People slept with who they wanted and everyone shared the responsibility of raising the children. It's when people started wanting to own things for just themselves and accumulate wealth that marriage became more common.

From an evolutionary perspective, non-monogamy is the way humans are wired. Monogamy hasn't been around long enough on the relative evolutionary scale to be our default. It is a learned and taught behaviour, not an inherent one. It's kind of like how it's normal to use utensils when we eat food - that is a learned behaviour and not how we evolved to do it, but we do it for societal and cultural reasons, as well as convenience.

First of all evolution isnt real. I understand our nature is lustful. Just because we have those desires doesnt mean we should act on them. That is exactly the point i was trying to make. Culture and society promote monogamy because its what is best for all of us. Selective

 

[K0fcali]

Should we assume that both you and your spouse were virgins when you married, and that neither of you has ever experienced sex with anyone else?

Or are you still single and a virgin?

Because if you are single and not a virgin, then you have already cheated any future spouse of that treasure! And you have robbed your temporary sex partner of their treasure.

Yes i get that. Im not saying i have made the wisest choices sexually. Im saying the ideal relationship would be longterm monogamy. You know it makes sense. I dont necessarily want that either. But i know its better than what i have done.

 

[goldenpalomino]

Marriage as an institution was created to secure inheritance for direct descendants. And you said it yourself, a woman, especially a virgin, was worth a fortune. Marriage made women property and not viewed or treated as any better than livestock. That set the groundwork for a lot of the sexism and gender roles in modern society.

You know the expression "it takes a village to raise a child"? That's because that's how it used to be. People slept with who they wanted and everyone shared the responsibility of raising the children. It's when people started wanting to own things for just themselves and accumulate wealth that marriage became more common.

From an evolutionary perspective, non-monogamy is the way humans are wired. Monogamy hasn't been around long enough on the relative evolutionary scale to be our default. It is a learned and taught behaviour, not an inherent one. It's kind of like how it's normal to use utensils when we eat food - that is a learned behaviour and not how we evolved to do it, but we do it for societal and cultural reasons, as well as convenience.

Exactly, the book "sex at dawn" makes this point.

 

[K0fcali]

Realistically, even the Bible describes non-monogamous relationships thousands of years ago, such as when Abraham's wife told him to take her handmaid.

Monogamous relationships have always been about control and ownership. And those control freaks are the first to have a meltdown, when they discover the reality that their spouse actually admits to WANTING to try someone else.

yes society is depraved and full of manipulative abusive people. That doesnt mean we should encourage the further degradation of society. Im not concerned with mentally unstable freaks. Obviously we will want other partners but thats why we learn discipline as children. To conduct ourselves properly as adults.

 

[Lifestyle66]

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Yes i get that. Im not saying i have made the wisest choices sexually. Im saying the ideal relationship would be longterm monogamy. You know it makes sense. I dont necessarily want that either. But i know its better than what i have done.

Culture and society promote monogamy because its what is best for all of us. Selective

Will you admit to your spouse that you've cheated them of your treasure? Or if you are married or in a relationship, does your significant other know you frequent this porn story web site?

Do you keep ANY secrets from your partner?

Which is best for society: relationship built on honestly admitting desires? Or those which demand suppressing and hiding those desires?

 

[Lifestyle66]

yes society is depraved and full of manipulative abusive people. That doesnt mean we should encourage the further degradation of society. Im not concerned with mentally unstable freaks. Obviously we will want other partners but thats why we learn discipline as children. To conduct ourselves properly as adults.

The Bible is describing Abraham and his wife as mentally unstable freaks? That doesn't sound like a good basis for insisting that everyone else should not follow their examples.

 

[Moon Glade]

Has this thread been hijacked?

 

[fma20fma]

I think so too.

 

[K0fcali]

Ah... so if I'm understanding correctly, you don't believe in the science of evolution? Does that mean you think all science is fake and believe in divine creation? If you have such strong religious beliefs, I'm not sure a sex forum is the place for you

im not religious. No offense but im sure there are many things you are not sure of. I love science but evolution is an outdated theory. I used to think dogs evolved from wolves until i realized wolves domesticated humans not the other way around. I sent you a message if you want to talk?

 

[K0fcali]

Has this thread been hijacked?

Sorry about that. I will use private messages instead.

 

[kccasey]

I love being mouth - fucked. I had four guys at once and yes, it was intense and it was a lot of work. Definitely different than in porns, takes a lot of consideration from the guys and planning.

I was face fucked by TS girl, she had a small cock, but long enough to gag me a little. I really enjoyed it,

 

[K0fcali]

Ah... so if I'm understanding correctly, you don't believe in the science of evolution? Does that mean you think all science is fake and believe in divine creation? If you have such strong religious beliefs, I'm not sure a sex forum is the place for you

Dont put words in my mouth. Evolution has nothing to do with science. The word divine means having two parts. Creation is real but not in the supernatural way we were told it is.

 

[Moon Glade]

In keeping with the title of this thread. There are many clubs in Europe that cater to the desire in a secure and anonymous manner. Some have weekly events, some nightly and some (my favorite in northern Holland) monthly. Couples often get free entry if the wife or girlfriend intends to actively participate and in the case of the club in northern Holland the woman can set out her parameters in advance when reserving for the evening.

 

[tristantrotsky]

God, I don't know of a woman in the world who would actually like being involved in this. Sex with multiple men can be great but the one thing I hate is being mouth-fucked.

Getting mouth-fucked is the very best part of it...!

 

[Moon Glade]

There is a sex club in Toronto that I'm on the email list for and they often send out emails about a gangbang Sunday. Something worth seeing if I could sign up to participate in some day.

There is a sex club in Toronto that I'm on the email list for and they often send out emails about a gangbang Sunday. Something worth seeing if I could sign up to participate in some day.

The club I mentioned in northern Holland actually has so many women signing up for the monthly event that space is actually limited and it can be difficult to get a place.

 

[Moon Glade]

Yeah, hence the seeing about it part. I have no idea what the popularity is like or if it's even open to signups. It's usually more mature women in the ads, so since I'm young they might like to have me. Who knows! I'll have to check it out before making any decisions... nothing wrong with watching!

Fun 4 Two (near Gouda of cheese fame but the club is not) has a GIGOLINA'S night for single women and couples where the boyfriend or husband wants to treat his women.. The ''gigolina's'' are recognizable by the nice outfits and golden bows they introduce them at around 22:45. Years ago my wife and I went for one of their evenings. She really enjoyed the evening and I really enjoyed watching her enjoy the evening before participating in her enjoyment.

 

[JenniZinc]

Getting mouth-fucked is the very best part of it...!

I'm taking it you have experience in that?

 

[HockeyShark]

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[tristantrotsky]

I'm taking it you have experience in that?

You've been reading my posts, Jenni...?

 

[JenniZinc]

You've been reading my posts, Jenni...?

Sorry, no, I literally do a few replies each morning and that's it. I have a winery to attend to

 

[tristantrotsky]

Sorry, no, I literally do a few replies each morning and that's it. I have a winery to attend to

In that case... yes, I have been face-fucked, and very much enjoy it, thank you!
I love good Australian wine too...

 

[HockeyShark]

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[HockeyShark]

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[HockeyShark]

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