Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

My nap felt good and my old idog s still snoring. Vet visits are tough.

How do I delete a PM from someone? I had a PM from a stranger and just wan to delete it. It is not obvious. I know the more experienced ones of you have the answer.
 
How do I delete a PM from someone? I had a PM from a stranger and just wan to delete it. It is not obvious. I know the more experienced ones of you have the answer.
At the top of the conversation on the right, there is button "Leave". You'll get 2 clearly explained options, the second being "Ignore future messages You will not be notified of any future responses and the conversation will remain deleted."
 
Good morning chaos! Anyone have coffee??
@AngelicaS1780 love to see you spreading the love!
@LupineOne tired post vacation is the perfect kind of tired! Hope you have a great day!
@Strixaluco may everything be better than you hope!
@Whiskeyjack good luck shaping the minds of our youth!
@Trubbycat watch that chubby 😜 sending you big hugs.
@BrendaD may today be filled with joy. You deserve it as you bring so much to others!
@rjr_1954 i thinking you and your wife each day. Sending healing energy to her.
@Cindy027 it isso nice to see your posts in the morning. You are thoughtful and funny!
@Azuldrgon you are always kind and supportive and there with a hug.
@PlanetaryNebula and @Indiesoul good morning ladies-where you at????

Happy Monday everyone!!! May it be the best day possible!
Good mor....afternoon, lovely! I miss your voice. Face. And tits.
 
Ah! Got it!! I thought that put people on your ignore list!
It just makes the msg disappear. But i like to just leave msgs now if its someone i dont want to talk to. Its weird i delete msgs from friends more to declutter. Creepers, i leave so ill remember if the same person msgs me again with a diff msg. It eventually moves torward the bottom anyway.
 
It just makes the msg disappear. But i like to just leave msgs now if its someone i dont want to talk to. Its weird i delete msgs from friends more to declutter. Creepers, i leave so ill remember if the same person msgs me again with a diff msg. It eventually moves torward the bottom anyway.
A bunch of us revealed our personal information to each other. We are just trying to get rid of that since we all value our anonymity.
 
Well, this went south in a hurry.

I heard from her last night, and she was mad, depressed, and self-harming over the fact she can't find a stable relationship with someone who wants to have a baby with her; she can't really have a baby because of certain medical issues. She kept asking what kind of fundamental/moral quality did she lack that was stopping her, etc. She's always in a relationship with someone or other, so she has no problem there.

I was woefully inadequate to handle this, but I did the best I could. I tried to reiterate that she was perfectly capable of having what she wants; it just hasn't happened yet. That wasn't what she wanted. She wanted someone to give her concrete steps on what to do, or tell her why she was unworthy. Which was impossible. I just tried to ride things out as best I could and listen. I went through every adjective I could think of to try to help, but I came up short, and it hurt my soul. The words would not come. 😢 I just wanted to cuddle her until the pain went away, but it's not that simple.

I'm a little concerned I said too much about my feelings last night, but I was doing it in the vain attempt to get her to understand that men can have mature feelings for her and what she wants; I made a real clunker at one point. Something like that. I kept saying, "I care," but it felt so impotent.

She did say that anything sexual wouldn't be satisfying right now. I said that she needed to take a step back and that I fully encouraged it. I'm just trying to be supportive and encouraging. I asked if she needed some physical support, like someone to sit with her, etc., and she said no.

Dear friends, please do not read too much into what I'm going to say here. I'm not trying to make this about myself, but I want to explain something. This is the kind of thing I've gone through in dating/sex all my life. Things just blow up in completely bizarre and unpredictable ways. I quit trying because it happened literally one too many times. So maybe this explains a little more about where I come from.
So, no blowjob? 🤷‍♂️
 
Good morning chaos! Anyone have coffee??
@AngelicaS1780 love to see you spreading the love!
@LupineOne tired post vacation is the perfect kind of tired! Hope you have a great day!
@Strixaluco may everything be better than you hope!
@Whiskeyjack good luck shaping the minds of our youth!
@Trubbycat watch that chubby 😜 sending you big hugs.
@BrendaD may today be filled with joy. You deserve it as you bring so much to others!
@rjr_1954 i thinking you and your wife each day. Sending healing energy to her.
@Cindy027 it isso nice to see your posts in the morning. You are thoughtful and funny!
@Azuldrgon you are always kind and supportive and there with a hug.
@PlanetaryNebula and @Indiesoul good morning ladies-where you at????

Happy Monday everyone!!! May it be the best day possible!
I love you @Photog1rl. You are a doll 🤗
 
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