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tim33

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I always cum within seconds, in the pussy I last a maximum time of 30 sec, but most of the times I cum within just 3 seconds, or even before entering her.

Can this be fixed or improved psychologically? My wife hasn't had sex with me for years, and that's one of the reasons.
 
tim33 said:
I always cum within seconds, in the pussy I last a maximum time of 30 sec, but most of the times I cum within just 3 seconds, or even before entering her.

Can this be fixed or improved psychologically? My wife hasn't had sex with me for years, and that's one of the reasons.
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Think about baseball. Classic tactic.
 
tim33 said:
I always cum within seconds, in the pussy I last a maximum time of 30 sec, but most of the times I cum within just 3 seconds, or even before entering her.

Can this be fixed or improved psychologically? My wife hasn't had sex with me for years, and that's one of the reasons.
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Numbing cream & condom?
Cheaper than shrink who will not help anyway...
 
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Practice. And by that, I mean masturbation. Get yourself very aroused, and then back off. After awhile, you will learn what it fels like as you approach your "tipping point." Then, when you are in your lover's pussy, you will know when you are approaching it, and you can back off/slow down for a bit.
 
I also cum too fast, but not that fast. Dont know how to help you. Gotta be tough.
 
Handeguy said:
Practice. And by that, I mean masturbation. Get yourself very aroused, and then back off. After awhile, you will learn what it fels like as you approach your "tipping point." Then, when you are in your lover's pussy, you will know when you are approaching it, and you can back off/slow down for a bit.
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I can masturbate, "edge" for hours. But as soon as a real pussy or real cock is in sight i cum extremely fast, cant last longer than 3 sec in a pussy.... so sad.
Maybe i should practice a lot more with real pussies!
 
tim33 said:
Yes, seems I am always too excited :-(
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you can try to think of something else but that could sexualize whatever you’re thinking about. I talked to a guy once you said that he thought of old ladies so he wouldn’t finish so fast. Now he posts on the GILFs tread.
 
Have you tried Cialis or Viagra? The Noble weed? Alcohol?
I usually only cum once or twice a night but with cialis and some Turkey 101 she might have 6-18 orgasms before I do or just quit! But I am a special case...
 
I started having this issue. Recently tried the Roman swipes. It really worked! I was able to bang my wife like the old days. She finally tapped out and jerked me off.
 
Well first of all I believe this problem is much more common than most will admit. Hard to stop the forces of nature and the heat of passion when fully engaged into a very warm n wet pussy! Not that I'm an expert or anything but, would suggest the old adage, "Practice makes perfect." And by that I mean, after a good open discussion with your partner, agree to get it done to get that 1st one out of the way. But plan for a 2nd and 3rd if thats what it (or he/she) takes. Then, as other's have suggested, Viagara, or Cialis should help facilitate getting it up again. You might try a cock ring to help keep the flow of blood to your unit and it helps to desensitize the big guy to soldier on. In addition to that, condoms, no matter how much the advertizing says they're "totally natural", are definitely effective at desensitizing.
Also the next chapter in a story I'm currently writing, (Skipper and the Cabin Gurl Chap 2) has a situation where this specific issue cums to the forefront (pardon the pun) and you might get some insight from that. I'm hoping it might be published sometime after Feb 14th. All the best to ya!!
 
SmokingFap said:
So you're really looking for advice on a site like this?
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Looking for sex advice on a “site like this” happens all the time. Questions are welcome in every forum, but there is a whole forum for asking for advice, incidentally. Way fewer assholes in that forum. (Hey @tim33, feel free to ask on the How To forum - you’ll get genuine responses from helpful people. It’s a slower moving forum, but a great place).

@SmokingFap, Are you incapable of scrolling past a thread or post? It’s unfathomable that you called this person a troll for a thread like this. Are you aiming for some sort of Lit Cred or something?
 
Handeguy said:
Practice. And by that, I mean masturbation. Get yourself very aroused, and then back off. After awhile, you will learn what it fels like as you approach your "tipping point." Then, when you are in your lover's pussy, you will know when you are approaching it, and you can back off/slow down for a bit.
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Practice. With pussy. Get a girlfriend or three. Or pay for lots of sex. Practice, practice practice.
 
ToPleaseHim said:
Looking for sex advice on a “site like this” happens all the time. Questions are welcome in every forum, but there is a whole forum for asking for advice, incidentally. Way fewer assholes in that forum. (Hey @tim33, feel free to ask on the How To forum - you’ll get genuine responses from helpful people. It’s a slower moving forum, but a great place).

@SmokingFap, Are you incapable of scrolling past a thread or post? It’s unfathomable that you called this person a troll for a thread like this. Are you aiming for some sort of Lit Cred or something?
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No, I don't give a fuck about "Lit Cred", whatever that's supposed to be. I just call people out when I think they're full of shit.
 
I just hate it when people ask rhetorical questions on here. Like, "Who Likes Oral Sex?" Or "Has anyone here ever masturbated?" Just clickbait, and ego-bating, I assume...
 
Masturbate more often and practice edging with it. At least once a day.
Think of not sexual things when you fuck.
Go slow when you fuck.
 
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