Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

I’m not. Everyone assures me I will someday. Thank you for asking.
Want some tea ? And some music ? It will be fun.
.we can talk if you like.or we can simply try to enjoy in this moment ...it's true...everyone gives me the same assurance that it will be fine someday....and i find it hard to believe too..but then worrying or thinking about it hasn't helped me so far.so trying a new approach....let's face it head on...it's this moment which would the future....so let's make the best of it...the power lies with you....u choose what it will be in this moment ? And that will be ur past for tomorrow....
So what do u say ?
Some popcorn and a movie sounds good to u ? Or we can dance ...
 
You are right to be skeptical. It's a personality trait of mine which came from learning to deal with My anxiety and depression. Growing up people haven't been kind...so it's been a life's mission to offer that non judgemental listening and support which i never got when i needed it the most.Its easy to be nice to someone you know.
Life can certainly be tough. There are a good number of folks here who have remarkable life stories. Also there are quite a few folks with anxiety/depression and who are neuro divergent.
There is even an ADHD support group thread here on the PG that may be of interest.

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Not new...I am reader who loves reading stories...
Had some rough time in the last few years...needed a place to let myself free and just forget the chaos of a totally broken head n heart...
Made an Id to find someone who can understand what i feel or going through,since where i come from the judgement is the only thing u get for being someone battling with anxiety and depression...Tried a a few groups...ddnt like them...not looking for something different but a genuine heart to heart conversation where i can forget my pain and just smile in the moment and make some friends who wouldn't judge me for being myself and offer the same in return...
The exploration ddnt go well.Was looking to deactivate the ID when saw the sign for a cup of tea.Couldmt resist myself from trying a cup of tea and landed here...was skeptical at first since the last few groups were not respectful or friendly or kind...
But having spent yesterday here ,loved the aura and the freedom and the people ...no one bothers judge...they just support and help out and have pure fun...Loved the group ..so decided to comeback for an hour of forgetting myself and escaping from the real world and just have fun in the moment ..
I hope that answers your question.
Not that experience is the same as yours, but a book I have read is "It's OK to not Be OK". It might help. BTW - I found my individual therapist to be great. And this group pf chaos denziens to be very supportive.
 
Want some tea ? And some music ? It will be fun.
.we can talk if you like.or we can simply try to enjoy in this moment ...it's true...everyone gives me the same assurance that it will be fine someday....and i find it hard to believe too..but then worrying or thinking about it hasn't helped me so far.so trying a new approach....let's face it head on...it's this moment which would the future....so let's make the best of it...the power lies with you....u choose what it will be in this moment ? And that will be ur past for tomorrow....
So what do u say ?
Some popcorn and a movie sounds good to u ? Or we can dance ...
I choose looking at pics of all the places I want to travel
 
Yes, and no... I still think this an alt account, but that is the end of my engagement on the topic.
Trust me.I do not have the energy or patience to maintain 2 accounts on any kind of websites...I already have enough to deal with in my personal and academic life...As I said, can only vouch for myself...not asking anyone for validation or believing me...the heart to heart convos doesn't work like that ...you are welcome to believe me...u r welcome to judge me ....I just indulge myself with people who vibe on the same frequency as me...You cannot make friends or have an genuine conversation on a platform when u have multiple accounts with no track of who said what and where....
I don't have the time or luxury or the energy....
I genuinely loved this group and thats why still here trying to know everyone as it feels everyone here vibes on the same frequency.so far i haven't seen anyone fighting and thats speaks for itself...it's my mind of group, calm ,cool,fun n supportive...
and even after this long message which u have made me type to explain and bore the others with this ,I hope i was able to clear your doubts and even if not , i tried my best , so thank you....
 
Trust me.I do not have the energy or patience to maintain 2 accounts on any kind of websites...I already have enough to deal with in my personal and academic life...As I said, can only vouch for myself...not asking anyone for validation or believing me...the heart to heart convos doesn't work like that ...you are welcome to believe me...u r welcome to judge me ....I just indulge myself with people who vibe on the same frequency as me...You cannot make friends or have an genuine conversation on a platform when u have multiple accounts with no track of who said what and where....
I don't have the time or luxury or the energy....
I genuinely loved this group and thats why still here trying to know everyone as it feels everyone here vibes on the same frequency.so far i haven't seen anyone fighting and thats speaks for itself...it's my mind of group, calm ,cool,fun n supportive...
and even after this long message which u have made me type to explain and bore the others with this ,I hope i was able to clear your doubts and even if not , i tried my best , so thank you....
 
Trust me.I do not have the energy or patience to maintain 2 accounts on any kind of websites...I already have enough to deal with in my personal and academic life...As I said, can only vouch for myself...not asking anyone for validation or believing me...the heart to heart convos doesn't work like that ...you are welcome to believe me...u r welcome to judge me ....I just indulge myself with people who vibe on the same frequency as me...You cannot make friends or have an genuine conversation on a platform when u have multiple accounts with no track of who said what and where....
I don't have the time or luxury or the energy....
I genuinely loved this group and thats why still here trying to know everyone as it feels everyone here vibes on the same frequency.so far i haven't seen anyone fighting and thats speaks for itself...it's my mind of group, calm ,cool,fun n supportive...
and even after this long message which u have made me type to explain and bore the others with this ,I hope i was able to clear your doubts and even if not , i tried my best , so thank you....
For someone with no energy or patience, and no interest in convincing, you sure like to type a lot and do a lot of explaining.

I personally have no time or energy for this, so I am done responding to you.
 
Looked that way, and I am not in a good place now, so really… me too. 🥰🥰🥰🥰
I believe i should leave your group, as I can see a lot of people are uncomfortable about me being here and troubled about my authenticity....I really did not mean to cause any trouble or listen to something like this....I have my brain and its condition to bash me enough and on top of it those around me....I really wanted to be friends but it seems its not allowed here as well.....
And I hope @BrendaD you are feeling better now...Let me know if I can help....
 
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