Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

Crazy tired. 🤷‍♀️

I slept fine last night, but still fell asleep for an hour or more this morning… with my 87 pound dog in my lap… now I hurt too. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ehhh ..You will do just fine...and with that kind of weight,it has to feel more relaxing than something else😜 jokes apart, sleep is always good...prepare that hot water bath tub,put on some music and candle and give yourself the much needed break ...you will feel a whole lot better...and since ur Sin is Pepsi, a can of that tooo along with your fav book or the fantasy😋 It helps me ...try it ..might help you as well...
 
I would think the best tops are good and patient teachers. Nobody is born knowing this stuff.
Agreed, but I am a submissive all the way. But part of who I am is a person committed to service, which means professionally I am a teacher/educator/explainer. And I am highly verbal and I work things out for myself by talking things through and writing.
Agreed that for *me* a good top is kind, patient, a teacher but also a learner. Someone who recognizes he doesn't know everything and may not always be right.
 
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Agreed, but I am a submissive all the way. But part of who I am is a person committed to service, which means professionally I am a teacher/educator/explainer. And I am highly verbal and I work things out for myself by talking things through and writing.
Agreed that for *me* a good top is kind, patient, a teacher but also a learner. Someone who recognized he doesn't know everything and may not always be right.
I should have added that subs can teach too.
 
I was here for the first time yesterday,in this group atleast....stopped by for a cup of tea only to be surprised to find some fun people ...so came back for some more fun banter and in search of a smile for myself and possibly offer one to whoever needs it in the process....
Forgive me my skepticism. It is a rare *brand new* to Lit member who engages so many on this thread with such familiarity.
Hope your day is excellent
 
Agreed, but I am a submissive all the way. But part of who I am is a person committed to service, which means professionally I am a teacher/educator/explainer. And I am highly verbal and I work things out for myself by talking things through and writing.
Agreed that for *me* a good top is kind, patient, a teacher but also a learner. Someone who recognizes he doesn't know everything and may not always be right.
Haven't played in many years but consider myself a switch.
 
You know, I've been meaning to ask this person if they're really new around here since I saw the first posts.
Not new...I am reader who loves reading stories...
Had some rough time in the last few years...needed a place to let myself free and just forget the chaos of a totally broken head n heart...
Made an Id to find someone who can understand what i feel or going through,since where i come from the judgement is the only thing u get for being someone battling with anxiety and depression...Tried a a few groups...ddnt like them...not looking for something different but a genuine heart to heart conversation where i can forget my pain and just smile in the moment and make some friends who wouldn't judge me for being myself and offer the same in return...
The exploration ddnt go well.Was looking to deactivate the ID when saw the sign for a cup of tea.Couldmt resist myself from trying a cup of tea and landed here...was skeptical at first since the last few groups were not respectful or friendly or kind...
But having spent yesterday here ,loved the aura and the freedom and the people ...no one bothers judge...they just support and help out and have pure fun...Loved the group ..so decided to comeback for an hour of forgetting myself and escaping from the real world and just have fun in the moment ..
I hope that answers your question.
 
So what's the weekend looking like?
Mostly recovering from the workweek and tonight's date 🥰 Should try to do Valentines gift on Sunday, though.
Haven't read anything in this series yet 🤔
Yes, as far as I know. Though it's been awhile since I read any. There are some books done by other authors also in that setting that I have yet to catch up with. I have a short list. But Drizzt though? Great stuff.
...hmmm...should I? Would keep my reading list long enough for a while. I'm rather picky, though.
 
Not new...I am reader who loves reading stories...
Had some rough time in the last few years...needed a place to let myself free and just forget the chaos of a totally broken head n heart...
Made an Id to find someone who can understand what i feel or going through,since where i come from the judgement is the only thing u get for being someone battling with anxiety and depression...Tried a a few groups...ddnt like them...not looking for something different but a genuine heart to heart conversation where i can forget my pain and just smile in the moment and make some friends who wouldn't judge me for being myself and offer the same in return...
The exploration ddnt go well.Was looking to deactivate the ID when saw the sign for a cup of tea.Couldmt resist myself from trying a cup of tea and landed here...was skeptical at first since the last few groups were not respectful or friendly or kind...
But having spent yesterday here ,loved the aura and the freedom and the people ...no one bothers judge...they just support and help out and have pure fun...Loved the group ..so decided to comeback for an hour of forgetting myself and escaping from the real world and just have fun in the moment ..
I hope that answers your question.
Yes, and no... I still think this an alt account, but that is the end of my engagement on the topic.
 
Forgive me my skepticism. It is a rare *brand new* to Lit member who engages so many on this thread with such familiarity.
Hope your day is excellent
You are right to be skeptical. It's a personality trait of mine which came from learning to deal with My anxiety and depression. Growing up people haven't been kind...so it's been a life's mission to offer that non judgemental listening and support which i never got when i needed it the most.Its easy to be nice to someone you know. But sometimes it helps to be kind to a stranger and just have an open conversation with them without feeling at high alert or conscious.sometimes all you need is someone to listen to you or talk to you...I never ask for names.i offer full honesty and offer the same in return until u r respectful and mindful while we talk...i am no on to judge anyone.and try to find people who believe in the same concepts as me...so as hard as you would find it to believe ,i make friends easily...if u were kind to me ,i would always remember you...you saw me addressing the few ones i loved since yesterday...they ddnt bash me...they were fun n respectful...and thats why i remembered to ask them how they are today...i ddnt ask everyone since i dnt know everyone.whoever interested with me yesterday, has me as their friend for life now...and I am always available for my friends and family...I hope this answers your question and clears any doubts...if not , it's still fine ..it's just me...i can talk to a stranger about the world without making them feel unwelcomed or judged..and the few i met here yesterday made me smile.so it was a thank you from my side ..nothing else...
 
Not new...I am reader who loves reading stories...
Had some rough time in the last few years...needed a place to let myself free and just forget the chaos of a totally broken head n heart...
Made an Id to find someone who can understand what i feel or going through,since where i come from the judgement is the only thing u get for being someone battling with anxiety and depression...Tried a a few groups...ddnt like them...not looking for something different but a genuine heart to heart conversation where i can forget my pain and just smile in the moment and make some friends who wouldn't judge me for being myself and offer the same in return...
The exploration ddnt go well.Was looking to deactivate the ID when saw the sign for a cup of tea.Couldmt resist myself from trying a cup of tea and landed here...was skeptical at first since the last few groups were not respectful or friendly or kind...
But having spent yesterday here ,loved the aura and the freedom and the people ...no one bothers judge...they just support and help out and have pure fun...Loved the group ..so decided to comeback for an hour of forgetting myself and escaping from the real world and just have fun in the moment ..
I hope that answers your question.
Appreciate the candor. Sorry your heart was hurt.
And definitely chaos is a place for kindness, accepting each other and our weirdnesses, a fun place where silly and honesty are equally accepted.
 
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