Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I think a Florida hooker or a robber are redundant in this case.

guess both ways you get screwed, but one is more fun than the other.

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

Personally, I have always been drawn to older people, as I get older, so do the people I am drawn to.

But you like MEEEEE Brenda Bear!

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

2 more years?

Yes.

No.

Maybe.

 

[Dionysian Beast]

Biases aside, thank you. It's hard not to compare. I'm pretty sure it's been ingrained in me since I was old enough to talk.

New rule: No comparison allowed.

 

[Deleted member 3321814]

So you are saying I am a… tit tease?

I’m good with that.

You're a tease, you tit!

*runs and hides*

 

[jason28053]

Yes.

No.

Maybe.

You’re as old as you feel babe

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

…and making sure you didn’t go to school with his mother.

oh good point. will add quiz about mother to the todo list after verifying wallet is in an inside pocket.

 

[Deleted member 3321814]

Maybe some guys are like that, Indie. Some just want affection, friendship, and good sex like anyone else.

One out of three ain't bad?

 

[BrendaBear]

But you like MEEEEE Brenda Bear!

I love you, Nebs!

 

[Deleted member 3321814]

I’m not a young guy (42), but I’ve always found maturity/confidence very attractive

I think I’m more likely to connect with someone in their 50s than their 20s, but it’s not about age per se

Amen to that!

 

[Rapharider]

For me, someone’s attractiveness is directly related to their confidence and how comfortable they are in their own skin. I’m sure there are some women in their 20s who’ve got that but in my experience it comes with age.

I work with a lot of people much younger than me and whilst I enjoy their company, there’s no fucking way I could have a relationship with any of them.

 

[MedicalMuse]

I’m not a young guy (42), but I’ve always found maturity/confidence very attractive

I think I’m more likely to connect with someone in their 50s than their 20s, but it’s not about age per se

I just walked into this, so I’m probably piping in where my opinion isn’t warranted, but personally, older is better. Less drama, usually, someone you can talk to about all kinds of things, and I’ve only met an occasional asshole who thinks he deserves a Barbie. Over all positive experience. 10/10 would recommend.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

New rule: No comparison allowed.

Yes sir.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

Well, since I do agree that confidence is fucking sexy...I should probably stop talking about my lack of it

 

[Mrtenant]

One out of three ain't bad?

Yea, perhaps so. Circumstances and all

 

[Dionysian Beast]

Yes sir.

Good girl.

 

[Photog1rl]

Thank you But I keep getting closer and closer to 40 and these guys in their 20s? I just don't compare with girls their age. It's not me being hard on myself, it's just a fact. I'm not against it completely, though. It just makes me feel a little skeptical and insecure. I guess in the same breath, I don't want to be someone's 'older woman' kink.

I **may** have had some of the hottest, let’s call them chats, with a younger guy. I was skeptical at first but he is so hot and willing and open. And it’s not cause he’s young that I enjoy it-that isn’t my thing AT ALL!

It’s that he is confident and engaged. Wants to please and be pleased and is funny AF.
Am I his older lady kink…maybe. Do I mind?? Not at all. Chase the pleasure and enjoy it as it comes.

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

Guys in their 20s look like babies. Even if they have a hot body, i cant get over a baby face. I guess i dont feel like someone is an adult until they are at least as old as I am.

 

[Photog1rl]

New rule: No comparison allowed.

Thank you DB!

 

[Rapharider]

Guys in their 20s look like babies. Even if they have a hot body, i cant get over a baby face. I guess i dont feel like someone is an adult until they are at least as old as I am.

I still don’t feel like an adult at 43 so god knows what that makes anyone younger than me!

 

[MedicalMuse]

Also, good afternoon

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

I don't know.. Hit close to home?

Closer than you think. And I’m younger than you!

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

I still don’t feel like an adult at 43 so god knows what that makes anyone younger than me!

Oh mentally, I’m still a child.

 

[Mrtenant]

Also, good afternoon

Hiya Musey, good to see ya.

 

[Rapharider]

Oh mentally, I’m still a child.

So long as you’re physically an adult, we’re all good. At least that’s what my lawyer says.