Litiquette VII

My ability to provide high quality sex to my partner is:

  • I am without a doubt the highest quality sex partner there is. I will make you cum and I will cum, a

    Votes: 54 25.2%
  • I have more kinks than most, nothing inappropriate but you’ll be shocked at what I like

    Votes: 107 50.0%
  • I’m good. I get the job done, not much flair but there’ll be no need for masturbation after

    Votes: 46 21.5%
  • I mostly provide sex as a service. I’ve never really enjoyed it so I won’t seek it out, but when ask

    Votes: 1 0.5%
  • I’m as vanilla as it gets. I hope you have a great imagination, you’ll likely need it to keep things

    Votes: 6 2.8%

  • Total voters
    214
Why do people say this?!? It’s urine! It’s bodily waste. It isn’t sterile!
You are correct, however the generally accepted paradigm (that urine is sterile) by medical professionals and others has only shifted in the recent past.

When I was a new nurse, the MD I worked with would often say that pre availability of quick dip testing strips, physicians were taught to taste the urine of patients for sweetness in order to diagnose diabetes. Yes, that was serious old school. He was a great MD, employer and friend.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/257...lso shown by,diseases of the urogenital tract.
 
You are correct, however the generally accepted paradigm (that urine is sterile) by medical professionals and others has only shifted in the recent past.

When I was a new nurse, the MD I worked with would often say that pre availability of quick dip testing strips, physicians were taught to taste the urine of patients for sweetness in order to diagnose diabetes. Yes, that was serious old school. He was a great MD, employer and friend.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25766599/#:~:text=Conclusions: As also shown by,diseases of the urogenital tract.
Yep. ☝️☝️
 
Happy New Year!!!!

Quick hitter - how do you define prosperity for yourself? Is it tied to overall health and well-being or is it purely financial?
This joint still hangs on I see 😉

And with a question to boot....

Prosperity...it used to be money, then it was love...but now, in my wisdom, it's being able to live one's truth...in every way.
 
The thread maintains it’s ability to go off the rails if not properly tended to. Like a rogue garden on growth hormones, unable to distinguish weeds from veggies.

While some would enjoy the citation book coming out, the thread’s police force has been defunded with monies going toward mental health help. That’s a serious win for this group….;)

A topic for the late night crowd, when will you decide to walk away from Lit? Will it be a person that shoves you away, a partner that tells you your time here is up? Maybe dementia will catch-up with you and you’ll post the same pick-up lines to every person in the place multiple times? Or will you just fade away?
 
A topic for the late night crowd, when will you decide to walk away from Lit? Will it be a person that shoves you away, a partner that tells you your time here is up? Maybe dementia will catch-up with you and you’ll post the same pick-up lines to every person in the place multiple times? Or will you just fade away?
I leave for a while and come back and then leave and then come back and then leave and then come back...

I used to have a "just in case I die" plan for lit.

Now I'll likely fade away.
 
While I hate to break up a good banter, to & fro, exchange, if I’m going to be true to the thread it is time for a new topic.

The pandemic. I know I just heard a collective groan, I know we are all tired of it, even those of us that have lost people we love as a result, it is incredibly draining.

That said, here’s a something I haven’t read about. The impact of the pandemic on sexuality. Obviously it put a stop for awhile to casual sex, illicit affairs and the like.

But did it actually improve sexuality? Did partners have more sex during the pandemic than prior? Are people now sex crazed and fucking anything that moves? Did online sex increase dramatically?

How did the pandemic affect your sex life?
Not much changed for me and I'm sure the people that wanted to have affairs still found a way, maybe just had to be a little more creative. I think in general, it tested relationships. Some relationships that survived due to the distance that work provided discovered that being together 24/7 was unacceptable. DV calls were up, as were divorces. However, some folks that hadn't been close, rediscovered their love. I know people on both sides. Me, I discovered how much I love shopping for alcohol inside the store vs just placing an order and waiting for it in the parking lot. I also discovered who I trusted to be safe. Our friend circle tightened and much of the get togethers were outside. The best part about it for me was it was the last time I will ever have all my kids living under my roof, so as horrible as the pandemic was, I can at least find that one silver lining.

After all that babble, I realize I never answered the question. My answer would be: it didn't.
 
I come and I go. There once was a time where my life was much more controlled by the "need" to post on Lit. I looked at it objectively. If it took me 2 minutes to think and respond to a post...and I made 30 posts a day....that's an hour. That didn't including reading threads I didn't respond to. Fuck...what was I doing? 2 hours? Maybe 3 hrs a day? For what? An escape? It was unhealthy for me. So I made a conscious decision to cut back. Life is far more rewarding than anything I was receiving from Lit. My toolbox to deal with life has changed and Lit isn't that important of a deal.

So...to answer the question...I don't know when I will permanently stop visiting the site. But in the scheme of things...no one will care...and neither will I.
 
Well, based on my history, the reasons I have stepped away from Lit have included loss of interest, focusing on things at home, and Lit assholes. More often than not, it's been the latter. I really thought my previous departure from here would be my last, but here I am again...
 
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