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Hi all - looking for advice on where to put an upcoming story, especially as I may need to angle it in one direction or another before it's done and I'd rather do that at this stage of writing. I've read that one fabulous article about Categories which has helped immensely, but I'm still unsure of this one, as it straddles quite a few lines.
The gist is this: young bisexual woman is suffering through a lame duck relationship with her previously cheating boyfriend, and will break up with him after realising it's not working out. This break up involves participating in erotic neo/psuedo-pagan ceremonies (they all went to a retreat that turns out more raunchy and wild than expected) that she embraces, and includes kinks like: lesbian group sex, domination/submissive dynamics, voyeurism/exhibition, ritualistic sex, bondage and public sex, and heterosexual erotic coupling.
My thoughts are:
Lesbian Sex: this would obviously cover off the lesbian encounters, but in my mind, this is a minor aspect of the story, and more deeply focuses on heterosexual dynamics, so I won't want to bait-and-switch anyone.
Group Sex: similar to Lesbian Sex, this will feature once in a decently big way, but is not the erotic centre of the whole story at time of writing. That said, I am tempted to simply make it be so, with the other sex acts being threesomes/moresomes, especially if I can't find a better category.
Romance: this probably is the least likeliest one, but for all that I listed a bunch of kinks, the storyline that runs through the story is about a breakup, sexual awakening, and connecting with someone new, and there has so far been a lot of page-time spent on these dynamics. Throwing it out there, lol.
BDSM: there will be bondage and D/s dynamics, and an embracing of submissive desires, but I also don't know if this is really central to the story. Again, I could probably edit it and make it so. My instinct is that BDSM stories are more focused on kinky sex acts than a fraught relationship but I may just be being narrow minded.
Exhibitionist & Voyeur: Putting this here for fullness, but my perception of this category is that these stories focus on embarrassment and coyness and power imbalances through nudity or being watched, which is not really the focus either.
Happy to elaborate, would love the advice.
The gist is this: young bisexual woman is suffering through a lame duck relationship with her previously cheating boyfriend, and will break up with him after realising it's not working out. This break up involves participating in erotic neo/psuedo-pagan ceremonies (they all went to a retreat that turns out more raunchy and wild than expected) that she embraces, and includes kinks like: lesbian group sex, domination/submissive dynamics, voyeurism/exhibition, ritualistic sex, bondage and public sex, and heterosexual erotic coupling.
My thoughts are:
Lesbian Sex: this would obviously cover off the lesbian encounters, but in my mind, this is a minor aspect of the story, and more deeply focuses on heterosexual dynamics, so I won't want to bait-and-switch anyone.
Group Sex: similar to Lesbian Sex, this will feature once in a decently big way, but is not the erotic centre of the whole story at time of writing. That said, I am tempted to simply make it be so, with the other sex acts being threesomes/moresomes, especially if I can't find a better category.
Romance: this probably is the least likeliest one, but for all that I listed a bunch of kinks, the storyline that runs through the story is about a breakup, sexual awakening, and connecting with someone new, and there has so far been a lot of page-time spent on these dynamics. Throwing it out there, lol.
BDSM: there will be bondage and D/s dynamics, and an embracing of submissive desires, but I also don't know if this is really central to the story. Again, I could probably edit it and make it so. My instinct is that BDSM stories are more focused on kinky sex acts than a fraught relationship but I may just be being narrow minded.
Exhibitionist & Voyeur: Putting this here for fullness, but my perception of this category is that these stories focus on embarrassment and coyness and power imbalances through nudity or being watched, which is not really the focus either.
Happy to elaborate, would love the advice.