Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

Hello! I am new around here (to this thread specifically) but just wanted to say hi.

Trying to put myself out there a little more this year in hopes of achieving some of my goals this year so here’s my start.

Hope everyone had a good New Years!
hi, nice to meet you. I am not new around here, just not always around. enjoy the chaos.
 
Hello! I am new around here (to this thread specifically) but just wanted to say hi.

Trying to put myself out there a little more this year in hopes of achieving some of my goals this year so here’s my start.

Hope everyone had a good New Years!

Bummer I can’t find one that says ”welcome to chaos”, but this gets the point across. 🥰🥰🥰🥰
 
You seem to have difficulty self editing. There is a difference (as Brenda pointed out) between specific details and general information. You had a rough night and were up sick. People here care about you enough for that amount of information to generate concern and sympathy. Going into *specific* details is neither necessary, appreciated or wise.
I continue to be concerned for you due to the very specific personal information you provide here. For instance, you don't want your wife to know about your activity here, but you have posted her image multiple times. You do realize there are search algorithms on the web that use sophisticated facial recognition data that would enable anyone to discover you are on this site... that anyone - a relative, a former coworker, a member of the organization you used to have a lead role in, a neighbor etc. could accidentally or on purpose learn. While most people are good sorts both in real life and in virtual gathering spaces, the amount of information readily available about you that you regularly post makes you at risk for catfishing, blackmail or worse.

Just take a moment before posting.... is it TMI? Will BrendaBear be grossed out or made uncomfortable by your over share? If the answer is "yes" or "maybe" just don't post it. If you want to have a private conversation, use the conversation feature. I know you are not stupid. You can learn to do this. Do better.
These comments are meant out of sincere concern. Don't apologize. Just do better.
When I was working I would never behaved like this as I worked for an international organization. Being retired I forget that this is the 'internet' and I still have to be Very Careful of what I put here. A very good learning experience. I didn't realize if you can research me, who else can? Ouch! How safe IS the conversation feature?
I will be much more careful keeping this in mind. Do you think I should change my AV again? Thank you very much, and I value your intelligence immensely.
 
eh sorry, I am team go for it. people move in and out of our lives all the time due to many circumstances, as it should be as life is a flow. However, I don't see it as a bad thing to reconnect with people who were part of that journey every once in a while, maybe just for a chat that day, or maybe a rekindled friendship. I usually only regret the things I didn't do so eh, team drop them a new years wish and roll with it.
I'm on Team Go For It as well. We lose contact with people all the time. Sometimes, when we think they ghosted us, their are reasons we haven't heard and they'd like to reconnect, but they just don't how. Be polite and compassionate and knock on the door. If no one answers, no one answers and you can let them go.

(IF however, you know you got ghosted because you were being an ass - just accept you were an ass and fucked up and move on.)
 
That is a funny mental image - @Justadesperatewifeandmom shedding her clothes to the clink and rattle of chains, the thump of boots, all the while she is shrinking in size. :)

ah yes, my clubbing days, the rattle and thump made all the better with gracefulness of test tube shots.
🤣🤣. It is still chaotic, but I don’t think it has changed quite that much… but teasing Wolfie is awfully fun! 🥰🥰🥰
sigh, a girl can dream. well, I am sure I will find where the nude videos are around lit soon.
 
I'm on Team Go For It as well. We lose contact with people all the time. Sometimes, when we think they ghosted us, their are reasons we haven't heard and they'd like to reconnect, but they just don't how. Be polite and compassionate and knock on the door. If no one answers, no one answers and you can let them go.

(IF however, you know you got ghosted because you were being an ass - just accept you were an ass and fucked up and move on.)
I still say go for it, even if he was an ass too. Everyone is human. but I am biased as I like asses. I am ass positive that way.
 
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