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Happy New Years chaos peeps. I survived another year. My life should be getting back to normal, well after I stress test my credit cards to see if they can survive another year end clearance spree. how is everyone?
Lost 25lbs this year, just got back from a two week vacay to Thailand…goals met. Not bad. Not bad at all.
 
No other way to describe it, sorry
Next time I won't say anything
You seem to have difficulty self editing. There is a difference (as Brenda pointed out) between specific details and general information. You had a rough night and were up sick. People here care about you enough for that amount of information to generate concern and sympathy. Going into *specific* details is neither necessary, appreciated or wise.
I continue to be concerned for you due to the very specific personal information you provide here. For instance, you don't want your wife to know about your activity here, but you have posted her image multiple times. You do realize there are search algorithms on the web that use sophisticated facial recognition data that would enable anyone to discover you are on this site... that anyone - a relative, a former coworker, a member of the organization you used to have a lead role in, a neighbor etc. could accidentally or on purpose learn. While most people are good sorts both in real life and in virtual gathering spaces, the amount of information readily available about you that you regularly post makes you at risk for catfishing, blackmail or worse.

Just take a moment before posting.... is it TMI? Will BrendaBear be grossed out or made uncomfortable by your over share? If the answer is "yes" or "maybe" just don't post it. If you want to have a private conversation, use the conversation feature. I know you are not stupid. You can learn to do this. Do better.
These comments are meant out of sincere concern. Don't apologize. Just do better.
 
Happy New Year @Justadesperatewifeandmom - a good start to the New Year here.
good to hear.

Hungover...
as it probably should be. not here though. I had a bottle of wine, but I am kind of a lush sometimes, so a hangover takes a fuckton more for a hangover. eh what can I say, my inner child is a drunken whore.

Happy New Year, Justa! I have missed you!!! 🥰
thanks. I will probably be back more again.

Lost 25lbs this year, just got back from a two week vacay to Thailand…goals met. Not bad. Not bad at all.
good for you, I did lose weight as well, but spent the last 2 weeks gaining some back I am sure. I bake many christmas treats, then eat many christmas treats. it is tradition. now that sounds like an awesome vacation. what was your favorite thing?
 
good to hear.


as it probably should be. not here though. I had a bottle of wine, but I am kind of a lush sometimes, so a hangover takes a fuckton more for a hangover. eh what can I say, my inner child is a drunken whore.


thanks. I will probably be back more again.


good for you, I did lose weight as well, but spent the last 2 weeks gaining some back I am sure. I bake many christmas treats, then eat many christmas treats. it is tradition. now that sounds like an awesome vacation. what was your favorite thing?
Honey badger!!! You're alive! *glomps* I missed you 🥺
 
I’m pretty sure I’ve talked my self out of trying to reconnect with a friend that ghosted me… but somebody tell me that’s the right idea
eh sorry, I am team go for it. people move in and out of our lives all the time due to many circumstances, as it should be as life is a flow. However, I don't see it as a bad thing to reconnect with people who were part of that journey every once in a while, maybe just for a chat that day, or maybe a rekindled friendship. I usually only regret the things I didn't do so eh, team drop them a new years wish and roll with it.
 
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