What's on Your Mind?

[_Ritch_]

I know I'm ugly but you don't need to tell me.

 

[Lord Pmann]

You like to live on the edge don’t you? Knowing you could die any instant but that’s the thrill!

Haha. I figured you might enjoy the offer.

 

[Lady2020]

This is how I view things. And this will probably be unpopular. But let’s take the same scenario and look at it from a man and a woman’s perspective. Let’s take the scenario where a partner cheats on the other. This is an oversimplification, but whatevs.

The woman would probably question her self-worth and if she wasn’t enough. She’s angry at him and herself.

The man just thinks she is a cunt and he couldn’t have done anything wrong.

Is this every situation? No. But I think it does give an overview of how men and women see the world differently.

IDK. I tend to think both men and women would be angry af if their partner cheated, both would question their self-worth, and it would be smart there wouldn't be any guns in the home. I also happen to think some partners might be relieved if a partner did cheat.

 

[Lady2020]

My current OL man thinks I may be a Domme or have Domme tendencies. I can see where someone might think that, but it's more about my age, my OL sex experience, and knowing who I am and what I like. Plus I'm into cock worshipping.

 

[Lady2020]

Thinking Lit needs a music forum.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

It's been quite a while since I've had a mutually satisfying experience in lit...my lit biorhythm seems out of whack all the time these days...

 

[Lady2020]

I tend to think Lit biorhythms are screwed. Between those who are upfront and those who say I can handle upfront, the reality is that somethings off.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

I tend to think Lit biorhythms are screwed. Between those who are upfront and those who say I can handle upfront, the reality is that somethings off.

Mine definitely is...there are many women I am attracted to that, in ego-deflating but honest fashion, I am not what they seek. Some want to establish a relationship before play. I'm not opposed to that, but they dump me soon after "learning" about me...lol...some won't consider playing with me at all (showing good sense), other refuse to consider it because of my age, or my being married. The number of things about me that makes women distance themselves from me far FAR outweighs the things that might attract then to me.

Rant over....

 

[Lady2020]

Mine definitely is...there are many women I am attracted to that, in ego-deflating but honest fashion, I am not what they seek. Some want to establish a relationship before play. I'm not opposed to that, but they dump me soon after "learning" about me...lol...some won't consider playing with me at all (showing good sense), other refuse to consider it because of my age, or my being married. The number of things about me that makes women distance themselves from me far FAR outweighs the things that might attract then to me.

Rant over....

The reality of Lit is musical sex chairs.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

The reality of Lit is musical sex chairs.

I agree...for men like me...for women? never...as it should be, I suppose...

I now get my kicks simply by seeing women posting after me...like you have...excuse me while I go touch myself now...

 

[Lady2020]

I agree...for men like me...for women? never...as it should be, I suppose...

I now get my kicks simply by seeing women posting after me...like you have...excuse me while I go touch myself now...

You think women like going through sexual musical chairs? Men and women both have their requirements, needs and wants, experience. I tend to think no one wants unnecessary games. You would think as an adult on an adult site it wouldn't be as hard as it is. The variable is there are those who don't know wtf they are doing, aren't self-aware, and don't give a shit.

 

[Bdm20]

Sexual musical chairs…. Why didn’t I think of that?

 

[Bdm20]

Sexual musical chairs…. Why didn’t I think of that?

Oops, meant musical sexual chairs.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

I shouldn't make assumptions about other people's experiences. I've just never seen many women being left alone in any thread, let alone being chased. What happens in PM-land, I can't say...it just feels - again, to me - that in the game of musical chairs, there's always a seat for women, and the chairs get yanked frequently for guys like me...for other guys, extra chairs are provided to ensure they have a place in the game.

Such is the way it goes...I just enjoy the possibility of being able to play. That suffices for me these days...

 

[UK_LouiseRP]

I really want a man to rub my clit, make me orgasm - somewhere private and not stopping until I cum all over him..

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

I really want a man to rub my clit, make me orgasm - somewhere private and not stopping until I cum all over him..

I like how you think...

 

[Hipshot1554]

You think women like going through sexual musical chairs? Men and women both have their requirements, needs and wants, experience. I tend to think no one wants unnecessary games. You would think as an adult on an adult site it wouldn't be as hard as it is. The variable is there are those who don't know wtf they are doing, aren't self-aware, and don't give a shit.

I think finding compatibility is just as hard here as it is in real life.

 

[Hipshot1554]

I will say, you find out in less time here though... LOL!

 

[Taegul]

The ballcap I'm wearing.

 

[Lady2020]

Men on Lit can be sexy af. To them, that means that they can override the parameters you were upfront about so they can get what they want.

 

[Exhibit0013]

Enjoying my second glass of Cabernet

 

[Acktion]

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Never thought I'd see the day when one of Kevin Hart's jokes went over my head. But, here we are.

 

[JamesD_0117]

I need to continue to practice loving kindness. Wrap myself first, then everyone else.

 

[Lady2020]

Sending my first audio. I tried, but I froze.

 

[Lady2020]

Holy shit. Would Elon Musk just stfu on Twitter.