It took awhile. Bed talk and more bed talk. Years actually and it helped she had a friend who helped her along. In the end it was well worth it. That's just the short version.
It does. And it's just fun to share.
I can only speak from my own experience with the two couple's i've played with. In both cases they said the wife's became more sexual & more open to try new things, also both husband's were ecstatic wishing they had did it sooner. One thing I think made it work with the first couple is we have been friend's for a long time & the second couple were a couple they had played with before & told them how polite & discreet I was, we all went out for dinner & thing's went from there.
Yep, discreet is important, same with polite. Wife envisions meeting a guy we could enjoy conversation, drinks and dinner with and even if no sex happens we all have a good time.
As it is, just fantasizing about it consistently makes my wife very wet.
As a married man myself, I like to think that could be part of the appeal of an already attached man. Discretion is especially important on both sides. But again, wishful thinking in my fantasy mind.
No chance in being the other guy? Or getting your wife into it?As a married man myself, I like to think that could be part of the appeal of an already attached man. Discretion is especially important on both sides. But again, wishful thinking in my fantasy mind.
Never asked... but seems like the kind if thing that would go badly if she's not game.
It all started by fantasizing about having sex in public…on a balcony or on a boat…wife got into it. From there, it grew into fantasies of guys jerking off to her, then to guys cumming on her, blowjobs and now we routinely fantasize about another guy and myself taking turns cumming in her. She gets so wet and afterwards she’ll say “that’s so hot.” Over the last couple of years she’s become more vocal about actually inviting a guy to join us, although she says she’s not convinced about having actual sex but she’s 100% onboard with giving a guy a blow job and letting him cum all over her tits, pussy, etc.Never asked... but seems like the kind if thing that would go badly if she's not game.
I've thought long and hard about trying to get into it without guilt on my own, but not there quite yet.
I imagine most of those things are a baby step process. When I can get her go try a new position, I'll start working on it.
Must be nice. Anything outside of missionary, doggy, or cowgirl (not even reverse) would be an adventure for us!
Then i'd say you're one of the lucky men, not many wife's feel that way.
On our first trip together she wanted to fuck in the pool and on the balcony of our room, and hope people saw us… yet when she’s not in that mood she’s a completely normal girl-next-door wife. That’s marriage material!
Yeah I am lucky! First wife was very vanilla…girl I dated for years in between marriages was awesome in bed but was a total head case.
I was gonna get one but she volunteered…I think it’s a bit of a turn on for her knowing I’m not shooting blanks. We had a LOT of awesome pregnant sex!Ya, I got a vasectomy for the same reason. Hoped it might mean more frequent filling. I'll let you guess if that happened.
Honestly, I would have preferred the same, for me my virility was a source of pride. We had to do fertility treatments, so I was well aware of what I was shooting thanks to some tests.
But she asked me, and to be fair me getting it done was cheaper and less invasive.
The head cases are always good in bed.
As a woman who loves having him cum in me, this is one of the very reasons why I find it so hott: it's primal and his marking me is such a dominant act
