Have you ever had a Lit member stop PMing you because they say you are too kinky?

[Bbl87]

It is not quite as big of a turn-on for me as they seem to hope. Then I guess they have never seen a real girl naked and get all their info from PornHub.

Fairly certain you're spot on with that part.

I mean, I guess on the plus side it does make those of us who aren't idiots look a little more appealing. I have admittedly sent and received more messages than I ever expected as a guy on here, figured it would be quite the famine with the sausage fest we have and all.

 

[Lady2020]

No. I have few kinks.

 

[EmilyMiller]

Oh I thought you were in the submarine service.

I am, but don’t tell anyone.

 

[EmilyMiller]

Fairly certain you're spot on with that part.

I mean, I guess on the plus side it does make those of us who aren't idiots look a little more appealing. I have admittedly sent and received more messages than I ever expected as a guy on here, figured it would be quite the famine with the sausage fest we have and all.

Guys who are respectful and who obviously have been intimate with women before do tend to stand out from the crowd. I have nothing against being told to obey, I just want to know if the person issuing the orders is worth my time first.

Em

 

[Bbl87]

Guys who are respectful and who obviously have been intimate with women before do tend to stand out from the crowd. I have nothing against being told to obey, I just want to know if the person issuing the orders is worth my time first.

Em

Makes sense.

My tall task is usually figuring out if the woman I'm talking to is actually a woman or a man pretending to be a woman.

 

[EmilyMiller]

Makes sense.

My tall task is usually figuring out if the woman I'm talking to is actually a woman or a man pretending to be a woman.

I’ve given up TBH. I have wondered about some of the Lit chicks I have cum with. Then I think, If someone wants to go to enough effort to convince a girl that they are female and it works, then good luck to them. If it walks like a girl, talks like a girl and fucks like a girl, I treat it as a girl. Life is too short to worry about crap like that.

Em

 

[Smarthomanid2]

I’ve given up TBH. I have wondered about some of the Lit chicks I have cum with. Then I think, If someone wants to go to enough effort to convince a girl that they are female and it works, then good luck to them. If it walks like a girl, talks like a girl and fucks like a girl, I treat it as a girl. Life is too short to worry about crap like that.

Em

Wait I thought that only pertained to ducks. Damn, all these years wasted trying to fuck ducks.

 

[Bbl87]

I’ve given up TBH. I have wondered about some of the Lit chicks I have cum with. Then I think, If someone wants to go to enough effort to convince a girl that they are female and it works, then good luck to them. If it walks like a girl, talks like a girl and fucks like a girl, I treat it as a girl. Life is too short to worry about crap like that.

Em

Fair point. Honestly, I feel like with a day or two of conversation you can usually pick out the dudes. Most will slip up, or answer something in a way that doesn't make sense. I don't go around sending dick pics to every purported woman I talk to, so even if they slip through, not like they're getting much from me anyway.

 

[Bbl87]

Wait I thought that only pertained to ducks. Damn, all these years wasted trying to fuck ducks.

I find the logistics of that slightly concerning.

 

[EmilyMiller]

Fair point. Honestly, I feel like with a day or two of conversation you can usually pick out the dudes. Most will slip up, or answer something in a way that doesn't make sense. I don't go around sending dick pics to every purported woman I talk to, so even if they slip through, not like they're getting much from me anyway.

Realize it happens, but never understand the motivation TBH.

Em

 

[EmilyMiller]

Wait I thought that only pertained to ducks. Damn, all these years wasted trying to fuck ducks.

It may well apply to ducks as well, I don’t know much about ducks.

Em

 

[Ingenue844]

I get “obey me slut” as a first message all the time. I assume it’s mostly 13 year olds. My fault for naively having “sub” in my username - but can’t change it now .

Em

Fake Doms are the worst!

 

[Gerilynn69]

I agree… fake Doms are the worst.

 

[Jonjonjohnson]

No, I lose people’s interest because I am too boring I think. I have kinks, but I try not to rush those into a new conversation, maybe I should start.

 

[screwher]

Not to kinky. More like “too crass”. This person was too squeamish as I spoke about my wife’s cunt.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Fake Doms are the worst!

Don’t get me started on lotta the people on Lit.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Y’all I’d suggest you be careful who you open up to.
Have fun getting to know people. Not everyone is a connection. Sift through the crap. You’ll find some good people around.

 

[Starlust]

Not had anyone say it outright but I've had people suddenly go quiet, probably because I got a bit too weird/enthusiastic....of course they may just have got busy but it always seemed to come after my more "fringey" messages.

 

[Smarthomanid2]

Not had anyone say it outright but I've had people suddenly go quiet, probably because I got a bit too weird/enthusiastic....of course they just have got busy but it always seemed to come after my more "fringey" messages.

It's a shame people can't just be honest and say, I'm not feeling a connection, or I am busy.

 

[Bbl87]

It's a shame people can't just be honest and say, I'm not feeling a connection, or I am busy.

That'd be my preference for sure, I try to give the courtesy of doing that. Never been a fan of ghosting. I've probably let things go on longer than I probably should have just to try to break things off gently.

Now, that being said, I also don't think women are under any obligation to respond to me if I message them. Not saying that's what you were suggesting, but it does seem some guys think that.

 

[EmilyMiller]

Now, that being said, I also don't think women are under any obligation to respond to me if I message them. Not saying that's what you were suggesting, but it does seem some guys think that.

I get that all the time. Have been called a bitch for not replying at 4am my time. I think some guys believe that Lit chicks are employed by the site to entertain them.

Em

 

[Starlust]

I used to know an Emily Miller, funnily enough....

 

[EmilyMiller]

I used to know an Emily Miller, funnily enough....

It’s not an uncommon name.

Em

 

[Bbl87]

I get that all the time. Have been called a bitch for not replying at 4am my time. I think some guys believe that Lit chicks are employed by the site to entertain them.

Em

I mean, I still thought you were... so that is news to me!

 

[EmilyMiller]

I mean, I still thought you were... so that is news to me!

Yeah. I’m on a six figure salary at Literotica. It’s the good life.

Em