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Have you ever had a Lit member stop PMing you because they say you are too kinky?

EmilyMillerSub said:
That’s kinda what I thought most people were doing. I guess he didn’t like the terrain after leaving base camp.

Em
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I’ve somewhat eFucked my way across this site. There are some dudes that are just lonely. They’re not into kink. They just want someone to pay attention to them. That’s fine… but that’s a friendship.

I’ll play at vanilla but if I feel I can’t bring up kink, Friendzoned.
 
Ingenue844 said:
I’ve somewhat eFucked my way across this site. There are some dudes that are just lonely. They’re not into kink. They just want someone to pay attention to them. That’s fine… but that’s a friendship.

I’ll play at vanilla but if I feel I can’t bring up kink, Friendzoned.
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Yes you are right of course.

Em
 
I've had them back off after discovering our kinks didn't align, but never because I was too kinky in general. I'd agree that a big part of the site is about exploring our kinks. For some people though it's exploring one kink (and that's fine), but other kinks make them squicky.
 
Paul_Chance said:
I've had them back off after discovering our kinks didn't align, but never because I was too kinky in general. I'd agree that a big part of the site is about exploring our kinks. For some people though it's exploring one kink (and that's fine), but other kinks make them squicky.
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Maybe that was it. I’m mostly submissive (sexually, not in other areas), but like a bit of Femdom switch sometimes. Not all guys are comfortable with the idea of being fucked in the ass, even if it’s a girl doing it. Then I know some who can’t get enough of it.

Em
 
EmilyMillerSub said:
Maybe that was it. I’m mostly submissive (sexually, not in other areas), but like a bit of Femdom switch sometimes. Not all guys are comfortable with the idea of being fucked in the ass, even if it’s a girl doing it. Then I know some who can’t get enough of it.

Em
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I get contacted constantly by guys looking for a Domme. It’s not my thing but I’ll play it in a single scene for someone that I’m very connected to.

But to do it daily is a no.
 
I think it's also the difference between a fetish and a kink. A fetish is a "must have" for arousal, where as a kink is an "enhancement" to an encounter. Take pegging - there is a big difference in desire between "willing to be pegged to enhance the encounter" and "must have pegging to even have an encounter". BDSM as a general category is like a list of menu options, not a gluttons feast in which every menu option must be indulged. It's a disconnect I think youo see fairly often on the board - where some people interpret "I"m into BDSM" as meaning "I'm into all aspects of BDSM" - which isn't really how it works.
 
Ingenue844 said:
I get contacted constantly by guys looking for a Domme. It’s not my thing but I’ll play it in a single scene for someone that I’m very connected to.

But to do it daily is a no.
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That is it in a nutshell. There may be a whole list of things we have in our sexual bag of tricks - things we're willing to do or try or play with - but every day/every time - no, that doesn't work for us. For me it's about the range of sexual possibilities, playing up and down that range, depending on the moment, the mood, and the partner(s).
 
Paul_Chance said:
That is it in a nutshell. There may be a whole list of things we have in our sexual bag of tricks - things we're willing to do or try or play with - but every day/every time - no, that doesn't work for us. For me it's about the range of sexual possibilities, playing up and down that range, depending on the moment, the mood, and the partner(s).
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Right!? I don’t expect to do forced breeding everytime. I have one partner that we somewhat do that just because it starts with light flirting and turns there and works for both of us.

But, I can play a lot of other things. I’ve actually been surprised by how much I get into things I had never thought about previously. I’ve had my world rocked once or twice following a road I never thought I would like.
 
Paul_Chance said:
I think it's also the difference between a fetish and a kink. A fetish is a "must have" for arousal, where as a kink is an "enhancement" to an encounter. Take pegging - there is a big difference in desire between "willing to be pegged to enhance the encounter" and "must have pegging to even have an encounter". BDSM as a general category is like a list of menu options, not a gluttons feast in which every menu option must be indulged. It's a disconnect I think youo see fairly often on the board - where some people interpret "I"m into BDSM" as meaning "I'm into all aspects of BDSM" - which isn't really how it works.
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Yes I agree with all that. I’m not in to BDSM that actually draws blood (my go to example being fishhooks in my nipples, shudder). I don’t mind if caning goes a bit awry and breaks my skin accidentally. But I don’t want the guy (or girl) to keep on whacking me with blood spraying everywhere. So shades of gray, yes.

Em
 
EmilyMillerSub said:
Happened to me earlier in the week…

Em
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It happens to me in real life. One thing I so love to do is sticking a guy's hard cock up my big nose. When I ask them, they think it's too kinky. If I just go ahead and do it, they actually get turned off. Imagine that! Believe it or not, I have met only one guy in my life who loves it when I do this. Unfortunately, he died four years ago. Oh well, one day I'll find someone.
 
Ingenue844 said:
Right!? I don’t expect to do forced breeding everytime. I have one partner that we somewhat do that just because it starts with light flirting and turns there and works for both of us.

But, I can play a lot of other things. I’ve actually been surprised by how much I get into things I had never thought about previously. I’ve had my world rocked once or twice following a road I never thought I would like.
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That is one of the great things about it. I've had that experience where, either online or IRL I've been asked to do something that had never occurred to me as a sexual kink and discovered "wow, that is freaking hot" and so added it to the bag of tricks. And of course, what's hot can very person to person - when one person does it, it's amazing, when another does it, it's kind of off-putting.
 
EmilyMillerSub said:
And it’s definitely kink for me. Happy to cum hard with a single guy partner in the missionary position. But sometimes I like to do other stuff.

Em
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That's my approach - I am happy with just ordinary sexuality and sensuality - and happy to do the "other stuff". It's all about the person and the moment, the needs and desires that are right there.
 
Paul_Chance said:
That's my approach - I am happy with just ordinary sexuality and sensuality - and happy to do the "other stuff". It's all about the person and the moment, the needs and desires that are right there.
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