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[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

She had issues, all right. The last I heard from her she was making plans to enter into a convent.


Oh, you and your Science! I imagine you in there, doing your cowgirl thing, with a team of white lab coat, bespectacled Scientists with clipboards taking notes with one hand while jacking themselves off with the other. In fact, I am POSITIVE that is exactly how it went down.


Ben

dude, where were they hiding.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

yeah, I don't get it. my pleasure is the best part for me lol.

I do get equal amounts of pleasure out of pleasing someone else. Making them shudder and moan gives me all kinds of jollies. But to do that you also have to understand how good pleasure feels in the first place can't do that with a stick lodged up your arse... well maybe you could

 

[mynameisben]

dude, where were they hiding.

Two-way mirror. Those science geeks are all a bunch of chicken shits.


Ben

 

[mynameisben]

I do get equal amounts of pleasure out of pleasing someone else. Making them shudder and moan gives me all kinds of jollies. But to do that you also have to understand how good pleasure feels in the first place can't do that with a stick lodged up your arse... well maybe you could

Totally agree. Half the pleasure comes from giving pleasure and getting so damned turned on by their responses.


Ben

 

[MsNatalie99]

I do get equal amounts of pleasure out of pleasing someone else. Making them shudder and moan gives me all kinds of jollies. But to do that you also have to understand how good pleasure feels in the first place can't do that with a stick lodged up your arse... well maybe you could

I know I could In all seriousness though, I don't think it's right that an encounter be unbalenced.

 

[Strixaluco]

Greetings from the land of sweet dreams! Had the first good night this week.

 

[MsNatalie99]

Greetings from the land of sweet dreams! Had the first good night this week.

Good morning Strix

 

[mynameisben]

Greetings from the land of sweet dreams! Had the first good night this week.

Greeting back from Los Angeles! Glad to hear you had a good night.


Ben

 

[Strixaluco]

I know I could In all seriousness though, I don't think it's right that an encounter be unbalenced.

Try telling that to my Dom, who is planning on concentrating on me for still a few weeks...

 

[Strixaluco]

Greeting back from Los Angeles! Glad to hear you had a good night.


Ben

It is kind of a wondrous thing after sweating night after night in the heat wave...

 

[mynameisben]

Try telling that to my Dom, who is planning on concentrating on me for still a few weeks...

Q: Why do you still stay with that sadist?

A: Beats me.


Ben

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I do get equal amounts of pleasure out of pleasing someone else. Making them shudder and moan gives me all kinds of jollies. But to do that you also have to understand how good pleasure feels in the first place can't do that with a stick lodged up your arse... well maybe you could

ok, I will be totally honest and say I do not get an equal amount of pleasure from their pleasure as I do my own. Not that I don't care about them, and I do totally enjoy their pleasure, it is important to me, just my enjoyment is even more important to me lol. Probably makes me a bit of a dick, but on the flip side, at least I am honest and don't hide that at all. If I am screwing you, 99 times out of 100 it is because I want to because I want to get off, and you damn well know it

 

[MsNatalie99]

Try telling that to my Dom, who is planning on concentrating on me for still a few weeks...

I don't know if I'm the one for the task. I'm still trying to figure out baths and find things of actual significance to spend my time on

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Had a similar situation. I think I told you about it that soap in a sock? I think it can be hard for some people to admit that they're at their limits before things start getting hot. It's definitely a learning experience when you're in the dominant role. Knowing jow far to go, when to dig in or let up, and when to just shut it down. Which is probably a big reason why I don't care to dom. It can be fun, or it can end badly.

I do remember you saying that before.
It is hard to admit I've been the one of the receiving end and not stated I was at my end before due to my own stubborness.
I actually love being a Domme would probably swing more towards that again then sub if I ever picked to get back in the lifestyle. I like being able to guide and teach as much as give pleasure and pain.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

lol, most of the cops I've run into were total pervs. part of the reason why I've never been a fan. the other part was the whole I was a criminal thing.

In the city yes they were def pervs and M would have killed me himself than let me lower myself to sleep with a dirty cop and yeah I would have expected it. My life at that time was not on the right side of the law.
The cop I date was small town country guy

 

[MsNatalie99]

I do remember you saying that before.
It is hard to admit I've been the one of the receiving end and not stated I was at my end before due to my own stubborness.

Same here.

I actually love being a Domme would probably swing more towards that again then sub if I ever picked to get back in the lifestyle. I like being able to guide and teach as much as give pleasure and pain.

I'm good until it comes to pain play. I know what I get out of it, yet I still struggle with inflicting pain on others. Not that I can't, only that I always worry I may hurt someone. I like the guide role, and the control of pleasure.

 

[mynameisben]

Same here.

I'm good until it comes to pain play. I know what I get out of it, yet I still struggle with inflicting pain on others. Not that I can't, only that I always worry I may hurt someone. I like the guide role, and the control of pleasure.

I enjoy light pain. But I get nothing out of inflicting it on others.


Ben

 

[SinfuIDreams]

ok, I will be totally honest and say I do not get an equal amount of pleasure from their pleasure as I do my own. Not that I don't care about them, and I do totally enjoy their pleasure, it is important to me, just my enjoyment is even more important to me lol. Probably makes me a bit of a dick, but on the flip side, at least I am honest and don't hide that at all. If I am screwing you, 99 times out of 100 it is because I want to because I want to get off, and you damn well know it

I love that you feel you can be so honest and open about it a lot of women and guys would be all about their own pleasure and just not even give a rats ass about their partner at least you still put the effort in to make sure they are satisfied as well. At the end of the day that's all that matters not who cums first or last just that you both get there.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

In the city yes they were def pervs and M would have killed me himself than let me lower myself to sleep with a dirty cop and yeah I would have expected it. My life at that time was not on the right side of the law.
The cop I date was small town country guy

very true, the dynamics were very different as a low class poor teenager in a low income, high crime, urban area versus as a middle class suburban or rural woman for sure.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Same here.

I'm good until it comes to pain play. I know what I get out of it, yet I still struggle with inflicting pain on others. Not that I can't, only that I always worry I may hurt someone. I like the guide role, and the control of pleasure.

You have a kind heart that's why hun, no matter how much you want to give it to them it will always still feel wrong and honestly there is nothing actually wrong with you feeling that way.
The first couple of times for me was pretty scary but then I had a big canvas to work with and Monster is pretty demanding with his level of pain. I think if I had really learned on anyone else that didn't have the tolerance he did it might have been a different story for me.

 

[mynameisben]

very true, the dynamics were very different as a low class poor teenager in a low income, high crime, urban area versus as a middle class suburban or rural woman for sure.

Plus, it's really hard to rustle up a team of Scientists to watch you in a low income, high crime, urban area.


Ben

 

[MsNatalie99]

Plus, it's really hard to rustle up a team of Scientists to watch you in a low income, high crime, urban area.


Ben

I don't know......... there were a ton of homemade labs in the one or two cities I lived in. one May Even Try looking Here.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

ok, I will be totally honest and say I do not get an equal amount of pleasure from their pleasure as I do my own. Not that I don't care about them, and I do totally enjoy their pleasure, it is important to me, just my enjoyment is even more important to me lol. Probably makes me a bit of a dick, but on the flip side, at least I am honest and don't hide that at all. If I am screwing you, 99 times out of 100 it is because I want to because I want to get off, and you damn well know it

I’ve really never thought about measuring them against each other. My partner‘s pleasure is one of my biggest turn ons which might be ultimately self serving anyway

 

[MsNatalie99]

I’ve really never thought about measuring them against each other. My partner‘s pleasure is one of my biggest turn ons which might be ultimately self serving anyway

Good Morning LL

 

[April602]

I can’t sleep…doesn’t help my husband is snoring away.
Any suggestions?

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