Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[mynameisben]

I don't remember my first at all, pretty happy I don't because I know for one thing he was definitely a dickhead.
Oh the errors of our ways being young and over eager to just get it over and done with.

I remember my first all too well. It was underwhelming, to say the least.


Ben

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I remember my first all too well. It was underwhelming, to say the least.


Ben

what did you get, versus what do you expect?

 

[mynameisben]

what did you get, versus what do you expect?

I think I mentioned it earlier in this thread. Gimme a minute to see if I can scrounge that up...


Ben

 

[SinfuIDreams]

In the end, I'm convinced the "first" is less important than we as a society seem to ascribe to

The majority of my other first were with M and I hold them a lot hire than being so drunk and stoned I would have being doing a pretty good impression of a dead fish

 

[Codeman93]

what do you need saving from? alligator, I've got your back. Moth, you are on your own. don't ask.

Save you from what?

Stupid people at the bar who wanna fight

 

[SinfuIDreams]

I remember my first all too well. It was underwhelming, to say the least.


Ben

Was she dead fished too?

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Stupid people at the bar who wanna fight

I hate stupid people who want to fight. It always ends up with blood all over the place.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Stupid people at the bar who wanna fight

did you try asking them to be nice and calm down?

 

[mynameisben]

Was she dead fished too?

Here it is. Judge for yourself.

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/chaos-conversation-cafe.1570837/page-936#post-95656572


Ben

 

[cascadiabound]

Goodnight chaos crew

 

[Codeman93]

I hate stupid people who want to fight. It always ends up with blood all over the place.

did you try asking them to be nice and calm down?

I just ended up leaving honestly

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Here it is. Judge for yourself.

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/chaos-conversation-cafe.1570837/page-936#post-95656572


Ben

That just makes me really sad both for you and for her. I can't imagine ever knowingly being that frigid and uncomfortable with sex.

 

[mynameisben]

Goodnight chaos crew

Good night!


Ben

 

[MsNatalie99]

Goodnight chaos crew

Good night Cas! Sweet dreams

 

[mynameisben]

That just makes me really sad both for you and for her. I can't imagine ever knowingly being that frigid and uncomfortable with sex.

The time for being sad is long past. That was a lifetime ago.


Ben

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Here it is. Judge for yourself.

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/chaos-conversation-cafe.1570837/page-936#post-95656572


Ben

interesting. and you were both older and more mature too. I'd expect better. maybe that was an issue, though. idk.

of course, mine, we walked in with a small mental checklist of things to try, for ya know science. cowgirl-boss's chair was my favorite add. fun, got me off, and had that naught feel lol. I am not sure a preplanned list is the ideal, but way better than yours I think.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

I just ended up leaving honestly

Smarter man than me, I would have kicked my heels off went for it and ended up in handcuffs again.. not the fun kind either.. well I guess they are still fun but cops usually don't take kindly to "spank me daddy" talk

 

[MsNatalie99]

Smarter man than me, I would have kicked my heels off went for it and ended up in handcuffs again.. not the fun kind either.. well I guess they are still fun but cops usually don't take kindly to "spank me daddy" talk

Right weird.... like why else become a cop if you don't have a thing for handcuffs?

 

[SinfuIDreams]

The time for being sad is long past. That was a lifetime ago.


Ben

Ehh still makes me sad I know a lot of women who still don't let themselves find pleasure in sex. Damn crime

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Right weird.... like why else become a cop if you don't have a thing for handcuffs?

That one cop I dated looked at me utterly horrified when I told him to keep the uniform on and bring the cuffs to bed.
Mind you we dated for 3 months and I only caught a glimpse of him naked once

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Ehh still makes me sad I know a lot of women who still don't let themselves find pleasure in sex. Damn crime

yeah, I don't get it. my pleasure is the best part for me lol.

 

[MsNatalie99]

I felt pretty crappy about it but he was sure he wanted the experience apologize to me for miss leading me. Even though technically he didn't I never go into a scene expecting someone to have had experience with it before the exact opposite but it was a new one to know it was a guys first sexual experience. That I would have liked to have known about before hand.

Had a similar situation. I think I told you about it that soap in a sock? I think it can be hard for some people to admit that they're at their limits before things start getting hot. It's definitely a learning experience when you're in the dominant role. Knowing jow far to go, when to dig in or let up, and when to just shut it down. Which is probably a big reason why I don't care to dom. It can be fun, or it can end badly.

 

[mynameisben]

interesting. and you were both older and more mature too. I'd expect better. maybe that was an issue, though. idk.

of course, mine, we walked in with a small mental checklist of things to try, for ya know science. cowgirl-boss's chair was my favorite add. fun, got me off, and had that naught feel lol. I am not sure a preplanned list is the ideal, but way better than yours I think.

She had issues, all right. The last I heard from her she was making plans to enter into a convent.


Oh, you and your Science! I imagine you in there, doing your cowgirl thing, with a team of white lab coat, bespectacled Scientists with clipboards taking notes with one hand while jacking themselves off with the other. In fact, I am POSITIVE that is exactly how it went down.


Ben

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

That one cop I dated looked at me utterly horrified when I told him to keep the uniform on and bring the cuffs to bed.
Mind you we dated for 3 months and I only caught a glimpse of him naked once

lol, most of the cops I've run into were total pervs. part of the reason why I've never been a fan. the other part was the whole I was a criminal thing.

 

[MsNatalie99]

I just ended up leaving honestly

That was the right move to make. They may not respect themselves, but you do, as well as respecting your uniform.