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[cascadiabound]

I'm still waiting to learn what Cole needs rescuing from....

 

[SinfuIDreams]

so, I am assuming this means he did not clean your house?

Never let anyone clean my house ever to damn ocd for that.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Never let anyone clean my house ever to damn ocd for that.

lol. that would totally be the first thing on my demand list.

 

[MsNatalie99]

Alright so yall know I spent a little time as a Domme. There was this young guy always hanging around our club he was cute big blue eyes sandy blonde hair a little slow in the mental capacity department and used to blush over everything cute if you liked that kind of thing. A friend of mine who was a very very hard Domme had the hots for him (it was mutual) but feared she would scare him off. At this stage I had a good level of control over how to bring new subs into the realm without giving them the utter freakout. So she asked me to step up and give him a trial run, I discussed a few things with him before hand what he thought he would like and the limits on what he wouldn't do.
So going by the plan it was meant to be pretty simple spanking, a little anal play and a wee bit of bondage forced orgasms nothing to seriously. Mind you this guy had been hanging around the scene for months even if he hadn't been active in it.

Spanking happens and its not so good, he's heavy panting and boarder line freaking so I stop and check in with him. He says I'm fine just really excited (clue one as a good Top I should have called bs but he was hard and leaking a little precum soo I figured ok he really is just turned on.) Back to spanking for a little while and he's moaning and wriggling I'm laying on the dirty talk. "oh your such a bad boy, look how hard you are for me. This is really getting you off." etc
I do the reach around to give him a stroke next minute he's flying off the bed cuming like a fire hose and tripping over his own feet. Next minute splat and crunch, howl...

Turns out I was the first person to touch his dick and he got a little fearful freaked out at how fast he cum.
What a innocent young fella was doing hanging out in a full fledged bdsm club is beyond me.

Geez. Poor guy. I meet a ton of people who are all about it (BDSM) until they're in the club or see it for real. That's a damn good cautionary tale, Sin.

 

[MsNatalie99]

@MsNatalie99 with your fish sticks jingle

Not fish sticks. Pepperidge Farm goldfish

1996 Pepperidge Farm goldfish commercial

 

[SinfuIDreams]

lol. that would totally be the first thing on my demand list.

Yeah I usually don't make those kinda demands I'm more about making them squirm getting in their heads and exposing what really makes them tick.

 

[cascadiabound]

Geez. Poor guy. I meet a ton of people who are all about it (BDSM) until they're in the club or see it for real. That's a damn good cautionary tale, Sin.

Agree... the fantasy and the actuality are pretty different. And can go both ways... things you think you will hate turn out to be hot af and strangely push your buttons, while things you think you crave end up being just not fun, sexy, or just plain don't do it for you

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Geez. Poor guy. I meet a ton of people who are all about it (BDSM) until they're in the club or see it for real. That's a damn good cautionary tale, Sin.

I felt pretty crappy about it but he was sure he wanted the experience apologize to me for miss leading me. Even though technically he didn't I never go into a scene expecting someone to have had experience with it before the exact opposite but it was a new one to know it was a guys first sexual experience. That I would have liked to have known about before hand.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Geez. Poor guy. I meet a ton of people who are all about it (BDSM) until they're in the club or see it for real. That's a damn good cautionary tale, Sin.

I'll be honest, only reason I used to go to my local club was it was the only exhibitionistic friendly forum I had found. ok, I loved the wardrobe too. I also found the men to be very adaptable, me being just a simple slut and all lol. also it was interesting to watch.

 

[mynameisben]

that is no reason to not share. she will give it back.

okay, fine.

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Are you happy now?


Ben

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

my box. not the thread, the thread has rules.

 

[cascadiabound]

I felt pretty crappy about it but he was sure he wanted the experience apologize to me for miss leading me. Even though technically he didn't I never go into a scene expecting someone to have had experience with it before the exact opposite but it was a new one to know it was a guys first sexual experience. That I would have liked to have known about before hand.

Seems an obvious thing to tell you, but I'm sure he would have been embarrassed to say so.

The guy who popped my cherry... it was a one night stand and I didn't tell him until after... he was surprised and frankly an asshole about it.
not my finest hour. Not my clearest decision making. I think I was so focused on being ready and knowing I was at the least risky part of my cycle I just let my hormones run me.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

okay, fine.

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Are you happy now?


Ben

better, otherwise you are going to make the others blush

 

[mynameisben]

better, otherwise you are going to make the others blush

Good lord! We cannot have people blushing on this website!


Ben

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Seems an obvious thing to tell you, but I'm sure he would have been embarrassed to say so.

The guy who popped my cherry... it was a one night stand and I didn't tell him until after... he was surprised and frankly an asshole about it.
not my finest hour. Not my clearest decision making. I think I was so focused on being ready and knowing I was at the least risky part of my cycle I just let my hormones run me.

are any first really the finest hour. mine was planned with a friend who was also his first, as curiosity, for science, ya know. at work, after work, bosses office. desk and chair. ok maybe not a bad hour.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Good lord! We cannot have people blushing on this website!


Ben

some blush easily. though I tried for science myself, I actually have a really hard time making men blush.

 

[cascadiabound]

are any first really the finest hour. mine was planned with a friend who was also his first, as curiosity, for science, ya know. at work, after work, bosses office. desk and chair. ok maybe not a bad hour.

Sounds pretty nice.
Planned...
With a friend
Good on ya

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Sounds pretty nice.
Planned...
With a friend
Good on ya

yeah, not the romantic sweeping off ones feet, but I was never that type anyway. this worked.

 

[mynameisben]

some blush easily. though I tried for science myself, I actually have a really hard time making men blush.

Yes, for Science. That is the One and Only reason I would ever post a dick pic.


Ben

 

[cascadiabound]

some blush easily. though I tried for science myself, I actually have a really hard time making men blush.

I blush easily.... in social settings. I can't say I have a lot of success getting men to blush, but it has happened

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Seems an obvious thing to tell you, but I'm sure he would have been embarrassed to say so.

The guy who popped my cherry... it was a one night stand and I didn't tell him until after... he was surprised and frankly an asshole about it.
not my finest hour. Not my clearest decision making. I think I was so focused on being ready and knowing I was at the least risky part of my cycle I just let my hormones run me.

I would think he was embarrassed and that's why he didn't say anything but if he had I would have gone out of my way to make it a good experience with no dick breaking at the end.

I don't remember my first at all, pretty happy I don't because I know for one thing he was definitely a dickhead.
Oh the errors of our ways being young and over eager to just get it over and done with.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I blush easily.... in social settings. I can't say I have a lot of success getting men to blush, but it has happened

I've never really managed blushing. more deer caught in headlights.

 

[cascadiabound]

I would think he was embarrassed and that's why he didn't say anything but if he had I would have gone out of my way to make it a good experience with no dick breaking at the end.

I don't remember my first at all, pretty happy I don't because I know for one thing he was definitely a dickhead.
Oh the errors of our ways being young and over eager to just get it over and done with.

In the end, I'm convinced the "first" is less important than we as a society seem to ascribe to it

 

[cascadiabound]

I would think he was embarrassed and that's why he didn't say anything but if he had I would have gone out of my way to make it a good experience with no dick breaking at the end.

I don't remember my first at all, pretty happy I don't because I know for one thing he was definitely a dickhead.
Oh the errors of our ways being young and over eager to just get it over and done with.

In the end, I'm convinced the "first" is less important than we as a society seem to ascribe to

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Yes, for Science. That is the One and Only reason I would ever post a dick pic.


Ben

all we do in the name of science.