Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[MsNatalie99]

Honestly I'm not sure I will be after last time we went out separate ways there has been no contact. Last time I seen him was at Ms funeral.

I have been trying to walk away from him for the last 15 years but I know if I see him again my willpower to say no will be gone if that makes sense

I'd say to just avoid him. Honestly sound like it'd be better for both of you. I'd rather see you happy

 

[MsNatalie99]

Not your fault.... just a notable consequence. lmao

I see. Nothing else it could be.

 

[Strixaluco]

Ok. I’ll go back to my sthu corner now.

sthu?

 

[MsNatalie99]

sthu?

Shut the hell up

 

[Mika1215]

Honestly I'm not sure I will be after last time we went out separate ways there has been no contact. Last time I seen him was at Ms funeral.

I have been trying to walk away from him for the last 15 years but I know if I see him again my willpower to say no will be gone if that makes sense

Yup. I get it.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

I'd say to just avoid him. Honestly sound like it'd be better for both of you. I'd rather see you happy

Only way I will see him is if he comes here to hide out.
He is one of the main reasons I left the city so fast after M. To distance myself from the toxic and just to make him realize I'm worth more that he was giving me.

 

[cascadiabound]

I see. Nothing else it could be.

Actually, it could be a million things, right? It's chaos.
It could be @Diosax hardly being here, new poster briefly streaking through the thread and lots of hunting for a detached penis from 2 decades ago.
Probably nothing to do with you at all Ms Nat... we just missed you when you were off line in prime time.

 

[MsNatalie99]

Actually, it could be a million things, right? It's chaos.
It could be @Diosax hardly being here, new poster briefly streaking through the thread and lots of hunting for a detached penis from 2 decades ago.
Probably nothing to do with you at all Ms Nat... we just missed you when you were off line in prime time.

Much better! Got me over here lookin for my heels. I just say we blame it on the heat. No one's control, no one's fault

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

Don't be, I'm not for all scary times there was a lot of good ones too. Life made him what he is. He's wasn't as lucky as me to get out early.
Probably why I continue to try and save the unsalvageable

I don’t know your situation but I think I can sympathize with this. We got your back

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

It's been a weird day on chaos huh?
I am chalking it up to Ms Nat traveling home and having the continuity of the chaos universe being disrupted.

It's almost 100 degrees in the shade and I'm thinking AC is gonna be in my future (someday)

The more pressing concern is... getting 3 bids for a new roof. Ugh! EXPENSIVE!

Trying to figure out how much credence to put on a well done bid presentation with what appears to be higher quality materials which also costs quite a bit more than the last bid.

Also.... get it done sooner (before the rains come (and we DO have a small leak that has to be addressed), or do it later and pay less for the overall job. Idk

Anyone know about roofs??View attachment 2164052

My bf does, but I feel like I can’t be like “hey one of my pervy friends needs to know what a reasonable quote on a roof would be..”

 

[MsNatalie99]

Hi Jason

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Only way I will see him is if he comes here to hide out.
He is one of the main reasons I left the city so fast after M. To distance myself from the toxic and just to make him realize I'm worth more that he was giving me.

I might be the wrong person to say anything on this.
If he’s one of the main reasons you left the city. You might want to cut ties. I think in the long run you will be better off.
Might be hard right now to walk away. Look down the road though. I think you will be happier.

 

[Diosax]

Actually, it could be a million things, right? It's chaos.
It could be @Diosax hardly being here, new poster briefly streaking through the thread and lots of hunting for a detached penis from 2 decades ago.
Probably nothing to do with you at all Ms Nat... we just missed you when you were off line in prime time.

 

[cascadiabound]

My bf does, but I feel like I can’t be like “hey one of my pervy friends needs to know what a reasonable quote on a roof would be..”

How about this specific question.... is it worth paying for stainless steel nails or are galvanized just as good?

 

[cascadiabound]

Much better! Got me over here lookin for my heels. I just say we blame it on the heat. No one's control, no one's fault

I was just kidding - and noting your travel related absence. My comments were firmly tongue in cheek.
No need to threaten stiletto action (ducks in case of anything flying....)

 

[SinfuIDreams]

I might be the wrong person to say anything on this.
If he’s one of the main reasons you left the city. You might want to cut ties. I think in the long run you will be better off.
Might be hard right now to walk away. Look down the road though. I think you will be happier.

Never the wrong person. We all have opinions to offer and I asked for them.
I have cut ties I haven't seen him in years the reason why I am currently stressing out is because the police came looking for him on my doorstep. I was done for adding and abetting him years and years ago.
My mind instantly goes to what if he does turn up here what do I do? Not saying he will but every time it has been serious I have been the one to hide him or find somewhere for him to go

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Actually, it could be a million things, right? It's chaos.
It could be @Diosax hardly being here, new poster briefly streaking through the thread and lots of hunting for a detached penis from 2 decades ago.
Probably nothing to do with you at all Ms Nat... we just missed you when you were off line in prime time.

No worries. “ new poster” leaving. Y’all enjoy your room. I’m out.
So much for trying to have a little funny.

 

[cascadiabound]

Never the wrong person. We all have opinions to offer and I asked for them.
I have cut ties I haven't seen him in years the reason why I am currently stressing out is because the police came looking for him on my doorstep. I was done for adding and abetting him years and years ago.
My mind instantly goes to what if he does turn up here what do I do? Not saying he will but every time it has been serious I have been the one to hide him or find somewhere for him to go

That IS stressful.
Make sure you have some place to go and someone you can call who will show up at a moments notice.
But if the cops are looking for him at your place, seems unlikely he would show up there.
Sorry you are going through all that

 

[cascadiabound]

No worries. “ new poster” leaving. Y’all enjoy your room. I’m out.
So much for trying to have a little funny.

What? I feel like I'm being misunderstood left and right here. Nothing I said was pointed at you and I have found your posts to be on point and useful.... as far as any of ours are here.

Maybe I should leave. I've got other stuff to do and it is NEVER my intention to hurt people's feelings here.

Edit: I didn't mean to pout or threaten... as I said to both Ms Nat and LS it is important to me this thread, and Lit PG in general be a good and safe place for people. If I'm not contributing to that effort, I want to examine myself.

 

[MsNatalie99]

I was just kidding - and noting your travel related absence. My comments were firmly tongue in cheek.
No need to threaten stiletto action (ducks in case of anything flying....)

Good

 

[SinfuIDreams]

That IS stressful.
Make sure you have some place to go and someone you can call who will show up at a moments notice.
But if the cops are looking for him at your place, seems unlikely he would show up there.
Sorry you are going through all that

It is stressful very.
I have my stepsons not to far away but I would prefer to handle him on my own. They love him like a uncle and I don't want them involved in anything that could possibly damage that opinion of him. Silly to say but I will always protect them even if they are grown men.
It is unlikely for a normal person to think this would be a good place to go but unfortunately Seth isn't normal and is very unpredictable so its hard to imagine where his head is

 

[MsNatalie99]

What? I feel like I'm being misunderstood left and right here. Nothing I said was pointed at you and I have found your posts to be on point and useful.... as far as any of ours are here.

Maybe I should leave. I've got other stuff to do and it is NEVER my intention to hurt people's feelings here.

No worries. “ new poster” leaving. Y’all enjoy your room. I’m out.
So much for trying to have a little funny.

It was a joke. I got the joke. We're all good here. No one gotta leave.

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

How about this specific question.... is it worth paying for stainless steel nails or are galvanized just as good?

I’ll see if I can slip it in. What kind of shingles are you using

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

How about this specific question.... is it worth paying for stainless steel nails or are galvanized just as good?

All roofing nails are galvanized or they should be. To prevent rust

 

[MsNatalie99]

I’ll see if I can slip it in. What kind of shingles are you using

Go with a steel roof. Lasts longer