Getting my Girlfriend to use a Strap-on

[curious27]

So i ahve always been curious about what it would be like to be fucked by a strap-on. Videos i have watched have really turned me on. Well last year I talked to my girlfriend about my fantasy. Luckily she wasnt freaked out, but she wasnt enthused about it either.

Well the past couple times she has given me a blowjob, she has lightly played with my ass. And last night she fingered me as I came, and Oh My God it was amazing!! Afterward we talked about it and she is getting more comfortable with the idea.

Anyone have any tips or ideas for us, also please feel free to share any of your starp-on experiences.

 

[voltigeur]

my anus is an instant subby button. when my g/f touchedme there I said "yes Ma'am" without thinking she stopped realised that I could be controlled and proceeded to make me beg for my ass to be used then statrted using toys on me.

 

[BenignTumor]

You could try a butt plug. Add some control to the sex by having her control when to put it in you. She might like the control/power. That may lead to her strapping you for even more control.

Just an idea.

 

[Qyron]

You're off from a good start... If you have started by talking with her, that's a plus for you.

Also, you say she has already experimented a little with, so you can use that and explain her how good that felt/feels when she does it to you.

The basic is not to pressure her and give her enough room for her to keep experimenting, because she's experimenting with herself at the same time she's poking your behind... Give her feedback on how it feels, talk about your fantasy (and hers too) in and out of the sack and give it some time.

I had the exact same situation with now my wife and her first reaction was also awkward at first. But she gave it some thought, talked with me and decided she would try it once. She did and enjoyed it so much that nowadays she tells me she wants to butt-fuck me. And why did this happened? Simple. She enjoyed so much seeing me having so much pleasure, she realized she got turned on too.

 

[gemini6970]

So i ahve always been curious about what it would be like to be fucked by a strap-on. Videos i have watched have really turned me on. Well last year I talked to my girlfriend about my fantasy. Luckily she wasnt freaked out, but she wasnt enthused about it either.

Well the past couple times she has given me a blowjob, she has lightly played with my ass. And last night she fingered me as I came, and Oh My God it was amazing!! Afterward we talked about it and she is getting more comfortable with the idea.

Anyone have any tips or ideas for us, also please feel free to share any of your starp-on experiences.

I am curious about trying this out too!!! I think it would be so hot

 

[cubbyfire04]

You could try a butt plug. Add some control to the sex by having her control when to put it in you. She might like the control/power. That may lead to her strapping you for even more control.

Just an idea.

This is how I got my start with a few women I've been in relationships with when it was new to them. On the hook and ok with butt stuff... Have her take her time inserting the plug, then move on to foreplay and sex without much focus on your ass if she doesn't initiate it. Eventually you'll find she's taking more and more time back there...

 

[KinkStevens]

I found many women (that are not already into bicurious men) are willing to play in that way if they’re reasonably confident that the guy isn’t going to want to pegged or fucked more than he wants to fuck women. Ive presented it a very relaxed way while maintaining my desire to ‘be’ with them. Assurance is key. Some women are just not interested, while others just want be sure hes not going to ‘go gay’ on them

 

[Crownvic]

It’s kinky and it’s fun..

 

[curiouschattycouple]

We tried this out. To be honest it didn't do alot for me as the giver and it was a little anticlimactic for hubs because it seems his sensitivity is just externally on the anus and perineum, so penetration didn't do anything for him.

What it did do:

The lacy harness we got brings a sexy and spicy element to foreplay and makes a great handle for him to give it to me

The change of roles and the trust required to do that was an affirmation of our relationship

The communication really added a new element to our intimacy

It gave us something to be awkward about and laugh about again

 

[cubbyfire04]

I found many women (that are not already into bicurious men) are willing to play in that way if they’re reasonably confident that the guy isn’t going to want to pegged or fucked more than he wants to fuck women. Ive presented it a very relaxed way while maintaining my desire to ‘be’ with them. Assurance is key. Some women are just not interested, while others just want be sure hes not going to ‘go gay’ on them

This is important. Although my wife is supportive of my bisexuality, she isn't with me because she's necessarily  into it. And it was very important for her in the beginning that I observed a definitive line between wanting her to peg me, or settling for a cock replacement because I needed it.

She understands that pegging between a man and a woman is straight sex... Bicuriousity/sexuality doesn't really depend on the body part being touched. This is important for women who are just dabbling in pegging at their partner's request to understand.

 

[KinkStevens]

Not that it matters, but I don’t consider pegging to be a ‘straight’ curiosity, but im sure there are some who look at it differently. A man essentially wants a faux dick up his ass . And don’t let him realize that a real one feels even better. Then its curtains.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Not that it matters, but I don’t consider pegging to be a ‘straight’ curiosity, but im sure there are some who look at it differently. A man essentially wants a faux dick up his ass . And don’t let him realize that a real one feels even better. Then its curtains.

I get what your saying. But there’s something sexy and erotic about my wife wearing a strap on. I don’t look at a guy that way.

 

[KinkStevens]

I get what your saying. But there’s something sexy and erotic about my wife wearing a strap on. I don’t look at a guy that way.

Its definitely sexy as hell to see your wife or SO with a strap on.

 

[smoothwiener]

So i ahve always been curious about what it would be like to be fucked by a strap-on. Videos i have watched have really turned me on. Well last year I talked to my girlfriend about my fantasy. Luckily she wasnt freaked out, but she wasnt enthused about it either.

Well the past couple times she has given me a blowjob, she has lightly played with my ass. And last night she fingered me as I came, and Oh My God it was amazing!! Afterward we talked about it and she is getting more comfortable with the idea.

Anyone have any tips or ideas for us, also please feel free to share any of your starp-on experiences.

Watch a video of a woman fucking a guy with a strap on that doesn't involve force or degradation....she if she gets turned on or turned off watching it.

My wife really gets off on the ones where it's mutual, but hates any that get verbally or physically abusive...

 

[smoothwiener]

So i ahve always been curious about what it would be like to be fucked by a strap-on. Videos i have watched have really turned me on. Well last year I talked to my girlfriend about my fantasy. Luckily she wasnt freaked out, but she wasnt enthused about it either.

Well the past couple times she has given me a blowjob, she has lightly played with my ass. And last night she fingered me as I came, and Oh My God it was amazing!! Afterward we talked about it and she is getting more comfortable with the idea.

Anyone have any tips or ideas for us, also please feel free to share any of your starp-on experiences.

Ask her.....find out what unspoken fantasies she may have... might find a way to work Both of them into something