Bi Married and closeted

[sterculius]

My first sexual experience ever was as my best friends cocksucker, and I've been a compulsive cocksucker since then, through two marriages. I finally admitted to my current wife that I'm a cocksucker and we're trying to work it out

 

[Mtnmike]

My first sexual experience ever was as my best friends cocksucker, and I've been a compulsive cocksucker since then, through two marriages. I finally admitted to my current wife that I'm a cocksucker and we're trying to work it out

Hope y'all can work things out, going to be some rough road ahead.

 

[Samsacks]

Like most married guys, very much closeted. I don't think there are that many understanding wives out there.
At 60 I find myself taking care of my needs any way I can, though don't have much experience with men. It's hard finding other sane, discrete married guys near me.

I'm 57, bi, married and closeted. The gay hookup sites are full of guys like me, but none can host. Others are on there for fantasy and flake out when you suggest a meet.

 

[MrNobody1701]

I'm 57, bi, married and closeted. The gay hookup sites are full of guys like me, but none can host. Others are on there for fantasy and flake out when you suggest a meet.

I feel you. Not being able to host really limits the opportunities. To bad there's not a place we can gather to play.

 

[paulman999]

I’m like many others out there, for now just chat via email, Skype and other sites. Hope for that real,time experience soon

 

[Just2Kinky]

I'm 57, bi, married and closeted. The gay hookup sites are full of guys like me, but none can host. Others are on there for fantasy and flake out when you suggest a meet.

If that isn't the truth I don't know what is...

 

[jimmyturtleman]

I'm 57, bi, married and closeted. The gay hookup sites are full of guys like me, but none can host. Others are on there for fantasy and flake out when you suggest a meet.

I have to agree that hosting is always a difficult obstacle to overcome, but not impossible. I have met with some very accommodating widowers and divorced men who are able to host.

 

[dave's thing]

Warmer weather warmer times and tastes

 

[gary04]

Am in the same situation not able to host but want to find someone that clean and doesn't flake out when you want to meet. Living in a small town in idaho has its draw backs when meeting guys. I had a bunch of guys I chatted with in the near by town but none of them wanted to meet because there was no were to host. We were all closet bi guys and must be discreet. Having the wife retire also so she is always home. As soon as the weather warms up at least I can find a place in the forest to play.

 

[CWinKtown]

Where do you live?

 

[klippert]

My first sexual experience ever was as my best friends cocksucker, and I've been a compulsive cocksucker since then, through two marriages. I finally admitted to my current wife that I'm a cocksucker and we're trying to work it out

What was her reaction. Is your marriage in peril. If this hit her out of the blu. Remember she’s the victim in this not you. I’ve been thru this. Once you get defensive, buddy, it’s over

 

[klippert]

I'm 57, bi, married and closeted. The gay hookup sites are full of guys like me, but none can host. Others are on there for fantasy and flake out when you suggest a meet.

Seems when you’re trying to hookup it falls apart. When you’re not looking it falls together

 

[sterculius]

It began when I admitted to her that as a teenager I'd been my best friend's cocksucker all through high school and would give him a blowjob every day as soon as we got home from school. I told her that his cock was MUCH bigger than my small penis, which made him my sexual superior, She assumed he had been the only cock I'd sucked and chalked iit uo to adolescenr sexual experimentation, which I guess it was. At the time, I neglected to tell her that I never stopped sucking cock. That came later. I finally told her about the numerous oral episodes That I'd had since then.

 

[blazingsaddles69]

Hello Novice The search continues for a local buddy

 

[saintcero]

I have to admit I did the Silverdaddies site, and found a guy who I thought would be a good fit. Retired, married, anytime was good as his wife worked. Then he told me where he used to work, I know, and my family knows a guy that worked at the same place. So that was too close to home, and I told him I couldn't. It's a decent sized county, but still small enough, couldn't chance it.

My first day on SilverDaddies I saw a guy from work. I never approached him about it but it sure prevented me from posting a face photo in my profile

 

[Ordener]

It began when I admitted to her that as a teenager I'd been my best friend's cocksucker all through high school and would give him a blowjob every day as soon as we got home from school. I told her that his cock was MUCH bigger than my small penis, which made him my sexual superior, She assumed he had been the only cock I'd sucked and chalked iit uo to adolescenr sexual experimentation, which I guess it was. At the time, I neglected to tell her that I never stopped sucking cock. That came later. I finally told her about the numerous oral episodes That I'd had since then.

Holy sh*t! Always thought I was an outlier for sucking cock from 12 yo. I'm 42 btw. Only stopped like six or so years ago when I got married. I'd love to break it to my wife but I don't dare to.

 

[Ordener]

I have a very high sex drive, my wife not so much. That's why she'd be probably scared / hurt if I simply proclaimed my love for cock.
I know I should keep my mouth shut but last year we had a threesome with a guy and I simply can't get his dick out of my mind... Such a torment!

 

[klippert]

My buddy and I will meet up Friday early morning. He’s on his way to work. I’ll meet him in my garage workshop. Change his oil before he gets to work.
Then we’re meeting to do some food plot prep on the my private hunting land.

 

[dave's thing]

Very nice
Lucky guy. Used to have a neighbor like that. Sadly he got transferred so now it's only a couple of times a year

buddy and I will meet up Friday early morning. He’s on his way to work. I’ll meet him in my garage workshop. Change his oil before he gets to work.
Then we’re meeting to do some food plot prep on the my private hunting land.

 

[klippert]

Very nice
Lucky guy. Used to have a neighbor like that. Sadly he got transferred so now it's only a couple of times a year

Bummer to hear that. This is our first hook up in a while. 3rd week of June I’ll have the house to myself. Wife and family will be away. She even mentioned I should get together with him for golf and fishing

 

[dave's thing]

Bummer to hear that. This is our first hook up in a while. 3rd week of June I’ll have the house to myself. Wife and family will be away. She even mentioned I should get together with him for golf and fishing

Even better for you lol

 

[klippert]

Even better for you lol

Thanks.

 

[ga400us]

So many of us with the same issue. Sadly I’m in the same boat. I think we’re going to need a bigger boat.

 

[saintcero]

See I think that would be easier. Friending him up take interest in him through work, or chat him on the site, you'd have the upper hand. You know he evidently wants to play, the guess work is gone. Unless he's an asshole you didn't like anyway...lol

Nothing wrong with that idea at all. He was not an asshole but he had no appeal to me.

 

[Ordener]

My first day on SilverDaddies I saw a guy from work. I never approached him about it but it sure prevented me from posting a face photo in my profile

unless he was there to catfish i'd say you have little to worry.